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i love this, i can relate to it a lot.

oh hmm.. so if he asked you back out again, what would you say?

what is it like seeing your ex after 7.5 months??

AFter 4 months of NC (apart from several random exceptions) me and my ex have begun to talk a bit, texting mainly. I texted him last night, he replied in the morning, we i texted him a life quote which reminded me of things he was saying a couple of days ago. General chit chat. Do you think it was cold hearted of me to end the texting convo by sending a message with an hour delay saying : oh ok. anyways im off for a jog now so i'll speak to you later.

almost 2 years down the line , reading my sent messages really takes me back. if you people who posted on this thread a couple of years ago happen to see this, just want you to know i DID end up going out with him and it was incredible and do you know what made me do so, the last few posts you left !!! it made me realise how stupid it would be to reject someone whos such a nice guy because im a nutter who likes bad boys . Well not anymoreee!! But the story ended sadly because we broke up after a year and a half (ie a few months ago) but still , a year and a half is a pretty big thing and turned out to be both of our first loves which is really sweet anyway thats all i wanted to say really!

Don't be rude; don't ignore her calls; but don't tell her exactly what your plans are and who you're seeing; evade her questions; be mysterious; BE BUSY. Good luck

Aw I find guys are sometimes really sneaky in hiding their emotions lol. Thank you all for all your advice it is really really useful . Infact speedingcars its funny you should say that because right when this guy was asking me out 7 months ago, I got my diary and wrote myself a note explaining how good I am single and all benefits ie I am happy phsychologically independent etc. lol i thought it would make me 'fine' if i were to break up. Its funny out things turn out.

Thank you so much for your response. Everything you said made so much sense. I wish my mind thought as logically as that. I know; because hes my friend, I need a shoulder to cry on that would normally be him. Its so hard. And I dont know if this is a 'forever' relationship - that's the sad problem, its the one thing that prevents me from making any clear cut decision. At one point I thought it wasn't, but then just as I thought maybe he is forever, this break up happens. I really don't know. I'm going to have to see what happens with the passing of time. Thanks again for your advice.

I have been going out with this guy for 7 months...we were best friends for a long time beforehand, so we felt like we knew each other inside out. He's loved me with all his heart and been there for me all the time. I dont think I initially was as hooked on him as he was on me, but over time I felt greatly attached. We started to become one. He never lied, and it was clear he was totally and utterly in love with me, he said he'd never felt this way before, and just declared that he'd never in a million years want to break up with me, and wants to stay with me forever. This is also my first serious relationship, so I was totally inexperienced, virgin (still am) and he's had a deep impact on me emotionally physically etc. he's taught me to discover happiness on a new level. Anyway, so everything's been fantastic, until College started back in September; workload; parental contraints; A level exams; revision periods; much time being apart... I wasnt able to keep the same consistancy in our relationship as there used to be during summer. This has started to backfire on me. Also, silly arguments augmented and he says I should be less argumentative (this surely is a quality he has too). We had another silly argument the other day (by silly i mean, really trivial, really) and he broke up with me. He said that I don't make any sacrifices for him, that I don't even tone down my argumentative nature apparently. He said that all I am is words words words and that someone who's crazy in love doesn't act the way I do. He said we don't belong together, the arguments, my lack of action, my lack of motivation to see him, it all sums everything up and delivers a clear message. Yesterday I was on the phone to him til about 4am and we had a really heated conversation. Ironically enough, I kept my cool, but he had the most hirrendous temper. He was saying things that made it feel like my heart was being ripped out : "I can't stand you; I can't STAND you" and many, many more things worse than that. I am constantly crying and cant keep a straight face in public. Tears just keep streaming down my cheeks. What shall I do? I'm thinking of just turning up at his door today spontaneously. I feel the need. I'm not sure if all of this is my fault. Opinions and advice would be greatly appreciated xxx

This is true. My boyfriend is really short, yet I surprisingly discovered that he's very well endowed. On the side note, I heard from guys: that black girls have big vagina's and thereforeeee must be suited for black men

Ok me and boyfriend: been going out for 2 months. We've never had sex before because I'm a virgin (he's not). But we always spend a long time fooling around, kissing, touching everywhere (he's always been happy with this). So that's what we were doing today BUT: Today was the first time ever he was "not feeling it". At first he was though, this is what is confusing. He says, he felt sexually frustrated (for the first time in our relationship) YET he says NOW sex is the last thing on his mind. He said it has NOTHING to do with me. I can't even explain it myself. Take a look at this online convo and PLEASE help me figure this out pleeeeeease! thanks XXX He says: i cant think about sex He says: or at leastt the idea dusnt turm me on He says: and yet i felt the frustration so bad I says: But isn't that kinda contradicting urself? He says: exactly! i dno He says: im pritty sure i felt frustrated He says: and now i jus cant He says: I dno whats wrong with them I says: Are u 100% sure u've been turned on other times? He says: YES He says: 100% He says: baby im not lying

Me and my boyfriend arent sexually active, I'm 17. I love knowing i turn him on sooo if it was me giving advice i'd say just be comfertable u dont have 2 back away !

Hmm... is it normal that my best kiss was not with my current boyfriend??? My best kiss was my first kiss. A guy I spent months trying to get. When he kissed me it wasn't night time, we weren't drunk, and I was totally not expecting it. My entire body must have tingled, my lips felt different afterwards, I felt different: I had just had my first kiss. At 16, was amazing!

I used to be SOOO insecure about my boobs. I'm almost flat chested, and I wear slightly padded bras and I used to think the same as you: 'what would my boyfriend think!!!' But, when a guy falls for you, he DOESN'T care about these things you worry about. Now I just don't care and I've accepted myself the way I am, because he likes me either way. It's also a step by step thing, I couldn't just go infront of him totally naked until he sees bits of me little by little, and slowly the comfort builds. A good tip; never tell a guy your insecurities, he probably won't have even noticed.

Oops I just realised that a thread REALLY similar to mine has already been posted! Sorry! But, just to add, afterwards once my boyfriend said to me "Do you really like it when I kiss your neck?" And I was like "yes!" and he said "Yeah cause you were making noises ....