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  1. Thanks guys...my husband and I are buying bikes so we can go riding together and I've already started doing Yoga which is actually a great workout. I just want my thighs to be toned up like before, they aren't horrible and my husband thinks I'm crazy for thinking that they are getting fat but I just really want to stay small. I also want to get my legs strong again for wakeboarding.
  2. What's the best workouts to tone your thighs??? I really want to tone them up to get ride of the small amount of cellulite that us girls have to face!!! But I don't want to gain any inches with muscle, I wouldn't even mind losing an inch on them. Any ideas are appreciated! Thanks!
  3. I love all the feedback you guys have given me. Plus I did think about my husband thinking I want attention from other guys and I truly think he does feel that way. I guess I want them bigger so I can feel like more of a woman and not a little girl. I do have very perky boobs and I have a nice body so I have no idea why I would have a reason to change it. Especially since my husband thinks I'm sexy as hell the way I am. I guess I should think about this a little more. Plus, I really do think I will wait until after children. I don't want to take the chance of not being able to breastfeed my children...that's an incredible bonding experience and I want to have that with my kids. Thanks for all your inputs guys!!
  4. lol hmm no positive feedback thus far huh. My husband feels the same way, he doesn't want me to get them at all.
  5. LOL!!! that's so funny...I would never go topless regardless of having implants or not.
  6. Definitely call her back. She was trying to show interest in you. It's like you asking someone what their family is like and what kind of car they drive and stuff and them just answering without wanting to know the same things about you....she didn't do that. SHe wanted to get to know you better which shows a lot of interest.
  7. Okay, so lately I've been thinking about getting implants. What's your guys' thoughts on this. All different views and statements are wanted. I thought of waiting until after children but I don't plan on being done having children for at least ten years and I really don't want to wait that long. Also, I only want to go one cup size bigger, I just want them to be fuller..I hate huge boobs and I'm really skinny so that would throw me off balance anyway. Anyway, anyone who has gotten them that wants to give their input would be good too.
  8. He really isn't bad at handling money. Before he met me he would pay his credit card off in full every month. The only reason we are having problems now is because of the wedding, honeymoon, ring and all the new furniture we needed to buy to furnish our place since it was both our first times moving out of our home. It all just accrued all at once. I don't have bad spending habits anymore either and we are living comfortably and paying our bills fine but he wants to earn a bunch of money and just flat out pay them off all at once and then save up a bunch for a down payment. We would be able to do that really fast if we didn't have rent and utilities and groceries. We would probably end up living there for 6-8 months and then buying our own house.
  9. Lol yes he did spend that much on my ring. It's my dream ring and he knew it, I had no idea he was getting it for me though. He put $4,000 cash down on the ring and we still owe 3k on it. I'm the one who holds most of the debt though lol, I had a little shopping problem there and used credit cards that I shouldn't have. He does not want to live off his dad by any means, he is making his own money working under a top stock trader doing articles for his webpage etc. But he is also working side by side with his dad. They are trying to launch a new company and he is also a stock trader advisor. He is not lazy or dependent on his dad but he does want to get ahead. He wants to make a hefty down payment or even buy our house cash and he thinks that he really can do that if he is working there all the time. Right now we live 2 hours from his dads house, that's 4 hours of drive time a day. Apartment and homes in the area his dad lives in are double what we are paying now so we couldn't afford to live in our own place there. Basically he just wants to create a stable financial future for us. I think some of you are getting the wrong idea that he may be lazy or something and that's truly not the case.
  10. I am going to school full time and working full time. The dreams that he has of going places wouldn't work if I had an employer. I would have to take weeks off at one time all the time. He works for himself and his dad and can take whatever time he wants off. He is getting really sad about our debt becuase he bought me a ten thousand dollar wedding ring and we are still trying to pay that off a long with all the brand new furniture we bought to furnish our place. Plus our credit card bills from before we met. We do have a lot more debt than we should, especially at our young age. I think he wants to move in so we can just get all of that paid off. It means so much to him, he has so much ambition to be successful and he feels that this would help us move forward a lot faster. I really live for his happiness and if he is happy I figure I'll be happy too. I am fearful of the whole in-law situation...but then again this house is a mansion, I'd probably rarely run into them haha.
  11. He sounds like a complete loser!! But then again, I dated an abusive guy for 3 years and for some unknown reason I stayed too...plus when I broke up with him I went BACK. Sometimes love is just blind and we can never see how unhealthy or unright things are from the inside of the relationship, mostly because we just don't want to. You should be greatful that this new girl is has taken your place of misery. Sure that doesn't make it easier to get over him but you need to love YOURSELF and realize how much better you really deserve. Try to avoid him and her all together. If the topic of them comes up then you need to leave the room or tell your friends that you'd rather they didn't talk about them while you were around. You need to get out and have fun, keep yourself super busy and avoid doing things that will remind you of him. Don't date yet as you are clearly not healed from the breakup, but you can go out with groups of friends and maybe try to find a new fun hobby. Do things that make you feel better about yourself, that make you feel happy, and of worth. As time goes by it will get easier and once you reach that blissful happiness you will wonder how you ever let him get the best of you. Trust me, you will get past this but you have the help yourself. Thinking about him and dwelling on him will not work. Good luck hun!
  12. Okay, so I'm sure some of you remember my post of my husband and how his dad just launched a new product and is bringing in millions of dollars from it. Well, so my husband was asking me the other day how I'd feel about moving in with his dad and not working for awhile so he could start working on some new products with his dad and we wouldn't have to worry about bills. He basically wants to start making a ton of money as well so we can buy our own huge house and boat and things of that sort. His dad is buying a huge 3.2 million dollar house so we would have our own bedroom, bathroom, kitchen and everything in the downstairs of this house, practically like our own apartment. However, I do not get along with his dad or brother too well so I'm afraid of the tension this may cause. I know it's important to my husband and I know he feels that right now my job is holding us back from having a ton of experiences he wants to have (i.e. traveling a ton). I don't mind leaving my job, it's not what I want to pursue as a carreer anyway, it's just something while I'm going to college. Plus there are upsides, I could concentrate on school and get my degree a ton faster if I'm not working and we could save up a lot of money for our own home. I just don't want this to be a permanant thing, just because his dad has all of this money I still want to be independent and have a life of our own. What do you guys think I should do??? Do you think that moving in would HELP our relationship or HURT it?? Or neither..
  13. Yeah, but I guess I don't understand why we can't make all of those memories together and experience all of those things together. It's not like we have children. Why the heck would he have to be single to do things that he wants..it's not like none of them include women, ya know? I think he just feels like I don't WANT to do those things, but I do...I've just been raised to be more traditional and rational thinker than to just think I will be rich, he has a different mind-set than me but I think that we more balance each other out than anything.
  14. I might add...he has always wanted to learn how to fly a helicopter so today I called and booked him a helicopter ride for tomorrow after work...they are going to take him up and even let him fly it himself...it's a surprise so he doesn't know about it. I also got a card that says "Just a small part of helping your dreams come true...I love you"
  15. I think he just saw how great his dad is living and he wants to be a part of it. He is such an ambitious guy and when I met him he was raking in all sorts of money on his own business at only 20 years old. When we moved out we had a ton of internet problems where we couldn't get high-speed internet at our house and so he didn't have a way to work for 3 months, he ended up losing a bunch of clients and instead of having his own business he is working under his dad (who also owns his own business) I almost feel as if he blames me because we moved out and ever since he has had a hard time building something back up. He still brings in good money but he doesn't want to be paid by his dad...he wants his own company again. I have been nothing but supportive about this so I guess I don't understand why he would act like I just want him to be some 9-5er. All I want to do is help him make his dreams come true...even if they weren't MY dreams before, they are mine now because they are his. How can I make him understand that I will do everything in my power to help his succeed and help him get everything and more that he is capable of....
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