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  1. My best friend of 15 years all of a sudden dropped me some years ago. All of a sudden she started bragging about how shes hanging out with her sisters friends, stopped going out with me, became fake-distant.. I even asked her "why dont you like me anymore, did i do something? I got a fake answer.. It hurt really bad, shes the only person i ever confided in, losing her was hard.
  2. Yeah i guess their waiting for a response.. i wish i could tell how much they hurt me. but my aunt would start laughing.
  3. I was with a very abusive guy who verbally inuslted and cheated on me with alot of women.. I did feel like i missed him when i broke up with him but now when i look back i look back and feel puzzled as to why i was so crazy about him. If i ran into him today and he walked up to me i would just make believe i dont know who he is.. i wish i never met him.. He was very nice at first and then became abusive,, i just got sucked into it beause i couldnt understand why he wanted to treat me that way.... at least i know now its better to be alone than be abused.
  4. I dont think the online stalking is that bad, everyone is guilty of it.. but the driving around her house is very scary.. thats really going over the edge.. was she very mean, how she broke up with him?? i think its better to tell an ex to keep in touch and then slowly go away rather than say no contact at all, some people go nuts,
  5. Long story I have posted about it before, anyway,, my entire extended family cut us off 2 years ago,, my aunt started verbally abusing my mom reguarly then her son and his wife joined in.. basically they were always verbally abusing, playing games with me my mom and my sister.. Example: remember being 7 years old and my aunt brought out a scale with about 20 people over. I was a heavy kid, i got on the scale and everyone started laughing and calling me fat. After that i stopped eating and have never been fat again. My Mom had decided 3 years ago, she wanted to have our own x-mas,we went to europe.. we always spent it with them and wound being abused treated badly every year. So my Aunt got very angry,, had her son write my Mom a letter telling her off for not coming to x-mas. Then he had his wife call and leave a message saying she does not know why we cut her off(not true) and how could my Mom be so mean to not call her hubby for his 50th birthday and go on vacation for x-mas.. The guy never calls me or my sis for our bdays btw..Then she says do not call us back, we dont want a response. So ever since then we have not heard from anyone in the entire family.. There is one cousins wife who never mentions anything but calls time to time for gossip... So now my aunt sent a letter to my Mom in the mail,, she does not write my Moms name in the letter just writes in all Caps.. "KATHY PASSED AWAY IN DECEMBER, WANTED TO INFORM YOU" BYE Kathy is my aunts husbands wife. My Mom knew her from childhood, but the cousins wife whos a gossiper called the week after she died to tell my Mom. We feel the Aunt told her to. My Mom actually felt so bad because she wanted to attend the wake but had no idea she died. I just find it to be weird, my Mom thinks shes still playing games or is using this as a control issue to make my Mom call her .. I dont know what to make of it? I dont understand after 2 years of silence because shes mad we did not spend x-mas with her she still refuses to call us... I dont understand it. The woman is in her 70s and not well, to me she obviously does not care if she dies without ever talking to her own sister and nieces again just because we decided to take a trip on x-mas.
  6. Take Donald trumps advice: "bullies are the most frightened people. Rosie`s a bully, and you hit a bully between the eyes." he is obnoxious but its true, ive had bosses like that, stand up for yourself. Come out and say I dont appreciate the way your speaking to me, be agrresive-talk back.. Most bullies will respect you so much for standing up to them, they may even befriend you,, if you keep freezing up she will always see you as a target..
  7. It was hard for me to have complete not contact with my ex until i found his myspace page. Everything he presented to me about himself was fake, his page was the real him. The way he potrays himself is disgusting. Someone i have nothing in common with. If i saw his page when we first met i would never even talk to him.... So i ever since i found it, i decided i will never talk to him again and i havent. I found another guy i dated on there who i was disgusted with as well.. Anyone have a similar experience with their ex on myspace?
  8. me and my ex broke up 4 years ago. we still kept in contact . last he called was 2 years ago.. I just never returned the call. no contact since, its helped me 1000000%
  9. I'm not friends with any of my exes. Either they wanted to be more than friends or i did. i feel that if it didnt work out, why is it going to work out as friends?
  10. Thanks for all the advice. Well i feel people have positive feeling when meeting me in general. When i see people from that time in my life i feel awful, embarrased. I know I have improved my life and I am a different person but they dont know that no matter what I do or say.. I know they still remember me as the 13 year old who had sex with every guy, did some very graphic things, etc.. It was pretty bad..... Its hard to not be marked for life for that, I also went to counseling because of it. I just want to know how to avoid these people completley.
  11. I live in NYC where its common to run into people who knew you long ago even though you are in a different area from where you knew them... When I was about 13, I had alot of problems, bad family life, I had a bad reputation, sexual promiscious, wore lots of makeup, dressed outrageous ,etc. When i went to HS at 15 I changed my life around and became a normal person, made friends with nice kids, etc.. nobody from them on knows about the type of kid i was if they did they would be horrified. So i guess i have a dark past. Im in my late 20s now but sometimes i see people who knew my sister back then,, they know all about my rep.. I feel really uncomfortable talking to them.. How can i just avoid them completley? I wish they didnt recognize me.
  12. I have not spoken or seen her husband- my cousin in 4 years. Thats when we were in their area. He was equally pissed that we called them. I have no contact with anyone in her family, my Moms entire family cut us off and shes the only person who calls time to time. She never mentions anything about how we were cut off and she 100% knows about it.
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