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  1. I'm the same. I'm so possessive with my male friends, but if they made a move on me I'd reject them. I feel pretty selfish.
  2. I can't tell him, because then I'd be betraying her.
  3. My friend Alex was crazy about me, I told him to back up and just be friends. This last weekend I was thinking about my feelings for him, meanwhile (I was on holiday) him and my friend have gotten close, and he's about to ask her out. I obviously can't do anything now, so I need to know how to get over someone fast. fasttt!
  4. If you cheat, your throwing away 6 years with this girl just to pump up your ego.
  5. Aparently its something to do with the hair folicles and a lack of essential fatty acids. Try eating more flax seeds and nuts, etc. It should clear up in around 2 weeks.
  6. My friend at school, Alex, believes that he's totally in love with me, has told my friends that if I'm not his soulmate, no one is. He's said he'd die for me, thinks about me all the time, feels sad without me.. the list goes on. We're only 17, I'm not in love with him at all, I'm not even sure I'm attracted to him, and he seems to think that we're going to go out soon (Even though he's been told that theres a big chance we wont). He can't keep his hands off me, not in a sexual way, just always putting his arms round me, hugging me, holding my hand etc, which makes me feel really uncomfortable. My friends have told me just to drop him, but I'm unsure, he's a lovely person and I'd miss not being his friend.. I'm not really sure how I feel about him, and I'm worried he'll find someone else as soon as I discover feelings for him!
  7. I'll give more information.. I'm 17 in a month and have never kissed, or dated, etc. Is this seen as a bad thing?
  8. Is it true all guys would want a vixen who knows exactly what she's doing? If so, I may just have to live by myself in a cave somewhere..
  9. I'd much rather have an inexperienced guy than one thats cocky and has a 'know-it-all' attitude.. actually, I'd much rather have an inexperienced guy in general
  10. I dont really know, the word 'pressure' comes to mind though.
  11. I might my friend Alex a few weeks ago at school. Since the start we've been good friends, which has sparked alot of rumours. So much so hat my friend has been trying to play matchmaker, and through her 'helpful' infomation she has forced us to realise that we could easily become a couple. He told her in confidence (She told him she could help him, he believed her ) that he thought he loved me, and that whenever he was apart from me he felt really low. I told her I might want to go out with him. Recently we've (the whole group of us) have been holding hands and basking on the field, when me and Alex did this she assumed it was okay to tell us both all the infomation (or to be more accurate, she has already both told both of us what we had said, we just didnt know the other knew.. confusing I know!) He's started hugging and holding me now, which before was nice, and now is scary! Why did I want him before and not now? I feel under pressure and have become shy and pretty antsy. I've never had a boyfriend before, or even a proper kiss (I'm 16), and its all terrifying!
  12. Part of me wants to get back at him. But I'm shy and a girl, so it would be hard to get either verbal/physical revenge. Also, I cant see how it would really help the situation. It certainly wouldn't help my reputation.
  13. There isnt much you can do without hurting her feelings, if my boyfriend gave me make up I'd be offended, though perhaps you could point out pictures of girl's hair that you think would suit her, and say so. However, only do this with a magazine. No one either of you know, or have seen. If you dont find her attractive at all I doubt you love her. Please take the pictures down right now, no only is it pointless, it's also invading her privacy. If she finds them, not only will your relationship be over (quite rightly) but she may never recover. Most 18 year old girls are insecure enough without this. Just a side note, she isn't hideous. She also has a nice body. Never ask anyone for judgement on someone you care about.
  14. Thats currently what I'm doing, but I know I can't keep it up for 2 years. They are on the same course and a group of around 10 of them hang round at lunch, so avoiding him means not seeing her at lunch. Though I'm not that sure if that would be so bad.. yesterday I couldn't find anyone I knew at first, and I ran into her getting lunch. I explained and she said '...You can hang round with us' in a very unenthuiastic tone, without looking at me. I made an excuse about having to see my tutor, and went. I did run into someone else I knew (Thank God), but was still hurt. During school we were attached at the hip, we've been on holiday together, and she often says I'm her best friend. I again dont want to confront her, I know it may seem like I'm making a big deal out of nothing, but we've been close for years.
  15. I've just started college. Apart from this one issue its fine, which is a welcome surprise. My closest friend is now making friends with this guy that took the p*** out of me constantly two years ago. I dont know if she knows, but it really botheres me. At the time I was weak and low, and literally was afraid of him. I hate that she's friends with him. But I dont really want to say anything to her, it was ages ago, and I worry she'll bring it up with him.
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