Mr Oro

I've actually used Pleasure Plus and i enjoyed that very much, altho i have nothing else to compare to, I just kno that they are thicker and supposed to work well due to the shape of it and the pouch it has. Lotsa reviews said that they were as close to bareback sex as u can get! [i]link removed[/i] So idk if you'd wanna try those or not, just thought I'd throw it out there b/c before i started looking i'd never heard of them.

She's on medicine, but its simple stuff like allergy medicine. She started some newer ones recently, but that's besides the point. The only reason I say that is b/c apparently from the start of our physical relationship she didn't really want to do much of anything. I'm pretty sure it was the bad experience but I'm not sure. Also, after looking into that Horny Goat Weed stuff I found some online, my only concern is she's taking other medicines right now so taking that with it might not be the best idea. On top of that, I haven't presented the idea to her yet, but I don't think she's gonna wanna take one more pill as she already complains about how much medicine she takes. However, that's not to say I still won't try. I think I'll try and ask her about it, maybe do a Google search with her and find it via that and say "Hey, maybe we should try some of this!" something like that. If anyone else has any ideas, please lemme know. I'd like to try and find an answer that doesn't involve a pill but if it comes down to it that's gonna be my last resort. (I like to solve things without drugs if its possible, not to knock the pharmecutical industry or ne thing, its just how i feel)

She turned 19 recently, I'm a little bit older than her, less than a year.

Well the thing about going to a doctor is she's kinda embrassed about it and i don't think that she's really up to it. She feels like they won't get anywhere. I realize this is not the case, but convincing her that its not could be difficult. Also, I hadn't really thought too much into being overly romantic and making her really wanting it either. I suppose thats something I can try. It's slightly difficult to set up a room tho (we're both in college) since I live in a triple and she lives in a double. (In the dorms) So its rare for me to have the room alone, and she does have times however she's concerned that her roommate will walk in. She doesn't wanna set up a system to tell her to not come in either b/c she's not comfortable with it. Before this, we'd do things just about once a week-ish, but apparently she said even then she still didn't feel that into it, she just kinda went with it. So yea, it does kinda feel like we are just very close friends as of right now, not much more than that, hopefully we'll figure something out.

Hi there, me and my girlfriend have almost been going out for 2 years now, and lately we haven't done anything "physical". I talked to her about it, and she says she doesn't really get those kinda feelings at all. When pressed a little further, she told me about the only other time she did anything 'physical' beyond kissing. It was with the b/f b4 me, who was quite the donkey. She wasn't really comfortable with what they were doing, and got somewhat forced into it i think. So now, my question is what should we do about it? We think it's one of two things: 1.) She doesn't have a sex drive b/c of her bad experience (or) 2.) Shes not physically attracted to me I dont think its the latter since she says she doesn't have those thoughts about other passing guys she sees, so I'm stuck. I don't know how to proceed, any ideas?

Well, from what i've read, anatomically females aren't really anymore stimulated by huge lengths. In fact one girl i talked to said she doesn't like huge ones b/c they hurt too much. You are only 16 tho, you have the potential to at least keep growing until ur 21! (I know my Dad said his foot size kept growing til he was 24-ish i think) So just give it time, relax and dont worry too much about it.