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  1. DealingWithIt
    the best thing you can do is to completely avoid him, don't answer his calls, or talk to him at this point. despite the fact that you've been hurt by your ex cheating and giving you STD, you still care for him. you need to take him off your mind by moving on...go out with friends, meet new people, get a new hobby..anything that will distract. in time, you'll not think of him anymore... ive been cheated by my ex so i know how you feel. like you i still feel something for him but i know deep in my heart...he's not the one for me. if you need to talk, you're welcome to IM me via AIM when one door closes...another one opens.
  2. DealingWithIt
    i think you should give him oral sex because you want to and not because he wants you to and it will take off any pressure you feel about pleasing him. while doing it dont think about how you should do it, how he must be feeling, etc. it makes you feel self-conscious...just go with the flow
  3. DealingWithIt
    What were the mixed signals you were talking about? I think you're reading too much into her actions and you're analyzing things that aren't there. Her actions towards you just indicates that she wants friendship and nothing more. I think its time for you to heal and move on.
  4. DealingWithIt
    my bf uses large and he's bigger so I would suggest you get the medium
  5. DealingWithIt
    i believe that if you have sex with this guy who you've only known for less than a week....you'll definitely regret it afterwards. don't you want your first time to be special? or be with a guy you love? from the looks of it...once this guy gets what he wants, he'll throw you out like yesterday's newspaper. good luck!
  6. DealingWithIt
    if you properly brush your teeth in the morning and at night plus the usual mouthwash and flossing you should be ok...dont forget about going to the dentist for a checkup...having rotten teeth can give you bad breath eventhough you brush,etc.
  7. DealingWithIt
    a similar thing happened to me and i was totally confused as to why my then bf acted the way he did. i thought that it was due to stress because of school, his finances and his parents breaking up so needless to say i left him alone when he has a pissed off attitude towards me. i found out later on that he was seeing another girl and he didn't know how to break up with me. So he lead me on...spend time together and even sleeping together. I found out later on from this other girl what was going on...he didn't have the "heart" to tell me. i suggest that you leave him alone if he's not sure what he wants. Its not good when you have others decide your happiness...move on and find happiness on your own.
  8. DealingWithIt
    the question is are comfortable with this guy fingering you? Or are you doing it because you like the guy and don't want to "hurt" his feelings?
  9. DealingWithIt
    Hello I'm sorry for the pain your feeling. The big gap in your age is certainly why you guys broke up. She was only 19 when you guys started going out, and she's still growing and maturing and in the end, she ended up growing up without you. Give her the space she wanted and needed from you. In the meantime, try and occupy yourself with something else. Trying to keep on hanging on to her will do nothing but annoy her. Good luck
  10. DealingWithIt
    You left him a message so the ball is in his court. Don't call him again. He called you for a reason so just sit back live your life and don't wait by the phone waiting for him to call.
  11. DealingWithIt
    dont get her anything! she don't deserve to get one after all...she dumped you and she's moved on with someone else. why bother doing that? unless you guys decided to be friends and your totally OK with that then i guess...give her a friendship inspired birthday card.
  12. DealingWithIt
    i think that the dumpers seem to have a "easy" time letting go of the relationship because for them, its been over in their hearts way before the actual breakup. Of course, they expect the dumpees to be lonely, sad and not getting on with life and when they do start "to live again"...these dumpers wonder why. Thats when they start contacting you again, etc.
  13. DealingWithIt
    i think it depends on what kind of bar he's going to....if its the kind where people go to hookup then i'd be worried. do you two even spend time together?
  14. DealingWithIt
    you can forgive but not forget. that's a tough one to deal with, y'know. your head is telling you one thing (the right to do) but your heart gets in the way. how can you really trust him in the future? if your co-worker hadn't been honest with you...what would have happened? i do believe in once a cheater, always a cheater. though this time, your bf got caught and he's feeding you crap so you'll believe him. believe me, he'll do it again behind your back...that is if he get away with it.
  15. DealingWithIt
    i use secret myself but i have tried everything from ban to dove. i dont like dove that much though but it might work for you..who knows?
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