melstapurple

all you said is so right but i have a question How do u get the ex to release this everything i do or say he over reads and thinks theres a chance and ive told him straight out where not getting back together. but he doesnt seem to understand once you fall out of live thats it no madder what he trys i cant change my feelings, for eg he asked me the other day if i wanna start again

i was with my ex for 3 years and when we broke up we continued to sleep together i guess it was because we knew what each other liked all tho the break up was a joint thing so i guess thats why

SORRY ITS SO LONG i just ended it with my bf of 7 months anyone whos read my other post would know we have been having problems, well mostly ive been having problems. so here the story got a text message from him saying he needed to talk could he come over, i said of course. anyway he came over and let me know that he was worried about us and we didnt seem to be seeing each other alot, thats true we havnt been spending much time together so i told him id been having doubts about what i wanted, we had already talked about this a few months ago. he was so upset said since then his been hurting ans stressing about were we are going, i just couldnt bare to see him hurt like that anymore so after i long talk i decided to end it told him i didnt know what i want but i did know right now i cant see a future for us when i asked him what he sees for us in he near future he said marriage and kids but i just dont see it right now i did at the start but not latley i tols him i couldnt stand to see him hurting so it would be best if we end it now rather than draging it out i think i did the right thing just cant work out why i feel so bad been crying since he left, maybe this is normal i dont know ive always been the one thats dumped not the other way around any advice would be great thanks

no its not that guy thanks for the advice please keep more coming a few things you also might wanna know........... it could be possible he doesnt have friends altho i invited him out on newyears and he went out with his mates instead i dont think there could be another girl his a shy person very withdrawn and im his first ever gf but it never happens he always has some excuse everytime i ask him about meeting his friends he just says his trying to arrange a time to get everyone together

](*,) i just wanted some advice. Heres the problem ive been with my bf 7 months and havnt meet any of his friends his meet all mine. meet his family but he doesnt seem interested in me meeting his friends. makes me wondering if his ashamed of me. point in a realationship would you say is a good time to meet friends???? its not like he hasnt had the chance, he knows i had nothing to do all weekend, he says his not up to much either but forgets to tell me about his mates bday party. any ideas would be great thanks

all tho im not sure id say your best bet would be to wait 7 days before having sex but id say if your able to take one up to but not over 12 hours late and still be covered you should be save

thanks everyone so much for all your help, i decided you where all right ad i shouldnt end it but i did talk with him and explain how i was feeling and that i needed some space!! he was perfectly understanding

im so mixed up this could be a long one. dont know if i need advice or just need to vent, ive been with my bf for 6 months but.. latley i just dont seem to be interested in the relationship, ive had a lot going on just moved swaped jobs and been unwell in and out of hospital in fact. Anyway back to the realationship part i just dont seem to wanna spend time with him, not interested in sex or anything. In some ways i think i should end it his a complete angel to me treats me so well with all that ive been through in the last few months his been there for me, but his also ready for so much more than i am he wants to move in & all tho he doesnt ask he does say constantly "when your ready babe" i feel i should talk to him but his so emotional he would get very upset if all i said was i need space. really just dont know how i feel i do enjoy being around him but i just cant see a future right now do you have to see a future, my last realationship was 3.5 years and he hurt me bad my sis thinks maybe im just scared to get hurt again but i dont know. anyway it was good to get this off my chest thanks to anyone who reads and replys

i think you should go for it in fact im in the same boat his 17 and im 21 but where crazy about each other if it wasnt for the distance factor we would be going for it, if you both dont care about age then thats great!!!!

Ive meet this great guy and we seem to have hit it off but his almost 4 years younger than me and im not sure how i feel about it, i mean i like him i really do. what im after is just what some of you guys think about age gaps. THANKS for everyones ideas and help on this first might i say a few things in reply a comment 33yeargirl i get where ur coming from but im asking about an older girl and a younger guy not the other way around like your relationship. thanks again everyone i think im just going to see what happens, follow my heart not listen to my head after all he makes me really happy by the way im 21 and his 18 i guess i was in some ways worried what other people would think but im not anymore