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HI, I loved this girl in Class and was her friend. Then I started getting close to her and she signalled that she only wanted me as a friends....just like her other 'friends'. I had to make a choice. I decided to stop being friends with her....I wanted more than friendship with her. I already have a lot of 'friends'. The decision was hard and she now hates me. Thats what I wanted.....but today after 2 years ....I sometimes feel I should have remained friends... It hurts to see her hate me.... I feel being friends at least you can talk and be together...... take care byeeee

about point 2....."ignore her"...sure do that buddy but hey dont do it for too long.If she thinks you are playing games you will loose her forever. If you really like her you wouldn't want to loose her.

allright.the same shit happened to me too.I stuck to a girl even though she wanted to be just friends,because i thought someday it might change.I gave it a shot 4 or 5 times....everytime,i was heart broken. but what really broke me was when she started dating another guy.Hell,for 2 years,i was with her trying to win her feelings and here comes a stranger whom she likes.that hurt the most.It bled. Damn,before something like that happens,forget her..dont be friends any more it will only hurt you later. The best way out of this mess is to start dating other girls.that is ithe best and the only way to be happy. bye and godspeed.

hi , Get this mess all cleared up before it starts hurting you and twists your tender heart.It'll hurt later if u find out that he never loved u in the first place.As someone in this forum said "They don't love you who don't show their love". All the best and do not end up broken hearted--it hurts like hell.

Hi sadman..be happy! You have done nothing wrong.If she treats you like filth..u have the right to ignore her too. She is playing games.If she really loved you.she would be good to you every day..not whenever she feels like. I have been in this exact situation all through last year...can you believe that!1 whole year I wasted time on a girl who ignored me most of the time and talked to me whenever she felt like talking. Okay heres the trick.... From now on..ignore her totally.Do not talk about her with anyone not even yourself..you may be tempted to think about the good times you've had.but rememebr if u go back and start it again you'll never heal. The best way to heal is to avoid her forever and in the long run the only way.

Oh hell....there is this girl in my class in college.I loved her more than anything else in this world.She always treated me as a friend. I did not want a platonic relationship.I asked her out thrice and she refused....for the past couple of months she isn't even talking to me and yesterday.she invited my best friend to a party and did not call me.....I .who has been talking to her for soemthing like a year.This friend of mine doesn't even talk to her much. Shit....I've had it.I want to forget this girl who has ruined my life but every day I attend the same classes as she does and it breaks my heart every time she talks to a guy..she never talked like that to me.I can tforget her cuz every day I see her in class. Soemone please help me out..help me forget her forever. thanks