lats

hey, I know just what u are going through! my bf and i just broke up after 10 months...but we had done everything together! we went on vacation and also talked about engagement! I go to a boarding school with him! and it just makes things extra hard, when we see each other...its true what the others are saying, WE need to find things that will occupy our time...i found a really sweet guy, that i have started to talk to, its not because i wanna get with some one else, so i can get over my ex, but my friends told me that the reason why im talking to him as much as i do, is because i am missing that attention from a guy that cares for me, and that just what this guy is doing, its like a rebound, just without any making out... its really hard to move on from someone that u love so much! we fought ALL the time but also like you, stayed together because we loved each other! he even went into my mail box and printed all the mail out that i had been writing with this guy! drove to my house and called me a nasty girl! he told me that he never wanted anything to do with me again! and that i should never contact him again! well i did! i cant just let him go after loving him so much as i do! but he rejected me hard! cherish the friendship u have with ur ex! I know how hard it must be for u to see that he is with another girl, but could he be using her as a rebound? since u guys still talk together, dose not mean that he does not love you, guys say so much STUPID things, just because they dont want to lose! My friends keep telling me that ill get over him, it just needs time, and i just find that so hard right now...but deep inside know it will! ur not the only one out in the world that has been through this! Take care! and u will recover from this break up! Remember dont go back to an ex, ur just gonna get hurt again! even though it might be nice for how long u might date! but one day u guys will see that its not right! and the break up will come again, so y out urself in a situation like that??