Princess18

I get turned on by him taking the lead. confidence is such a turn on. not letting me say no to anything. pulling my clothes off etc and pushing me on the bed. Its all in the body language as well. the eyes. the way he looks at you and acts around you...he doesnt have to say anything.

Right, I'm confused...out last night with one of my best girlfriends dancing on the dancefloor (bit drunk) and she just kisses me, with tongues and everything. I kissed her back and then laughed "oh my god, you just kissed me!!" and she laughed. I'm feeling confused cos i'm totally straight but this really excited me for some reason. Even thinking about it now turns me on.... a) why did she kiss me? b) why i am turned on? c) Could i be bisexual?

Just need some support, confronted my 'boss' (i look after her kids- nanny) telling her I work too hard and too many hours and it completely backfired...she said that i have a great job and that she does everything she can to help me!! Im a live-in nanny so cant get out the house and i cant stand it....i want to cry

no we didnt use a condom!

yessss it is the guy from that thread....i like him so much....the sex just kinda happened- nothing has started between us.....maybe hes just using me though

Just a quick question....liked this guy at work for ages and we kinda had a bit of a thing goin on- flirtin an stuff for about two years. We finally got together and had sex for the first time after 2 years of games and suspense. I was so turned on but he came after about 10 thrusts!! Is this because he finds me attractive/ has a problem/ hadnt masturbated in a while? or what? hope it shows that he finds me sexy.... Any advice?

thanks guys, phew now i dont feel so bad. i consider myself above average in the looks department (please dont think im boasting- im trying to be honest) and never seem to have any luck with good looking guys- all they want me for is sex!! it's true!! they're all jerks and break my heart. just feels like the only guys who treat you right and are great to be with are the not-so-good-looking types? do i have a point?

My best male friend told me last night that he was in love with me. I have no romantic feelings for him at all but I cherish our friendship. He is the funniest, kindest, generous, caring guy I know, yet the problem is, i'm not physically attracted to him. Maybe it's my fault because I speak to him everyday and see him at weekends and always accept to have dinner at his house with his family when i'm invited. Maybe this is giving him the hint that i'm interested-maybe I shouldnt see him as much? but I genuinely love being with him. I've previously told him that I ONLY want to be friends with him and nothing more but he insists we should have a go as being a couple. When i told him no, i don't want to be with him because i don't have feelings for him he replied that love grows and it isnt always there in the start. Is it me being shallow because he isnt good looking enough? could love potentially grow? I feel so bad because theres nothing i don't like about him except his looks. But then i think- hang on a minute- i can't have a relationship with someone im not attracted to- that's crazy cos my eyes will always be wandering....oh i don't know what to do

yes when i broke up with my boyfriend i was sooooo lonely. I felt like i constantly had to make arrangements to do things with my friends whereas before my boyf and i would both know we were seeing eachother so never had to plan. people didnt call me anymore cos they assumed i would be with my boyf so i didnt get invited places and i started to miss out on social events- he was my world, social life and best friend. after we split it was hard to re-establish myself back into my circle of friends cos id missed out on so much and totally made no effort with them. now i have moved abroad and have a totally new set of friends that im so glad to have met. Life works out i promise-- break ups are hard but you'll move on and continue YOUR life without her. Afterall its your life, all you need is you.....

Just a question- you know when you feel that spark with a person and you have a superb chemistry- can it all be in your head/one sided? I find it hard to believe the other person can't feel it too when its so obvious between you both.... Just asking cos i'm feeling it with someone...and want to know if it's in my head that he feels the same..

Thanks everyone for your replies. This website is always the best for getting the right advice. Especially a big thankyou to Raykay and Belladonna, i trust your judgement (agree with all your advice) you should be proud of yourselves for helping so many people like me. I really seem to end up doing what you say!! Anyway Ive decided to let this guy go- sex is a risk and although i feel like it now, i'll probably regret it and end up getting hurt. The last thing i want is for people to talk about me too. He's not worth my time if he can't make an effort to be my boyfriend....it's not like i wanna marry him or anything- just a bit of commitment I just hope the right ones coming along soon....Where are you???

I came out of my first sexual relationship of 3 years about 6 months ago. I have never had sex with anyone but my ex boyfriend. Now, i'm starting to feel like i need it and am missing it a lot. A guy recently told me he would like to have casual sex with me cos he thinks i am hot but doesnt want a relationship because he feels he wouldn't treat me right. He told me if i want a good time then he's the man to call. His exact words on MSN were I WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU BUT YOU DON"T WANT IT. The trouble is i do want him- i find him very sexually attractive but somehow i feel like a sl*t excepting his offer arranging to have sex at a certain time-- just isnt natural. Any advice? Im getting horny!!!

yes he does seem more appealing now ive seen him with another girl, i dont know why but im thinking about him more. Im gona put my plan of seduction into action LOL ...and tyler711 yes i know he can kiss who he wants but it doesnt mean that im not sad about it...

use one with no acetate in. this should remove the polish but not the nail. hope it works

Hey I kissed this guy I really like last week in a night club We were dancing and it kinda just happened. We're just friends at the moment but i think he knows i like him. Anyway last night we went to a friends party and he was playing footsie under the table with me and giving me flirtaceous looks. As im quite shy with him cos i like him i didnt talk to him much and kinda ignored him (i dont want to but thats how i act around guys i like) so anyway he got up and left and went to talk to other people. Later that night in the night club i was sitting by him and a girl came up and sat on his knee and started kissing him. He responded and kissed her back. They talked then she got up and left. I was soooo jealous It makes me hate him. It was ME he was kissing last week. Why do you think he'd do this right infront of me? I mean maybe i was ignoring him all night but thats only cos im shy and i REALLY like him. AHHH this is so depressing.......