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  1. Hey guys, everything in my life is going great right now. I'm 17 and a senior in HS. Im on the varisty basketball team, and just got accepted to my #1 college. And to top it off, I think i might be getting back to together with a girl but i need your input/advice. About a year ago, me and this girl had a thing. She found out i liked her so we started hanging out,talking etc. i found out she wanted to hook up with me but it just never happened cause things got weird cause neither of us made a move, and then eventually we stopped talking. recently, she has started to IM me on AOL starting long conversations and acting interested. she said she wanted to hang out badly and when i see her in scool walking down the hallway even when shes talking to some1 i always see her look my way and smile. she also said she wanted to get drunk and sleep over this wekekend, which means she might be acctepting of certain things that generally can happen when two people get drunk.
  2. its worth fighting for. if you like her as much as you say you do (and boy do i know what that feels like), then do not ever let her go, unless you have to. i made this mistake, and am about to try to get her back.
  3. Okay, I'm 17 years old and a senior in HS. I have liked a girl for about a year now and for the first 4 months that I liked her, we hung out and were close. We came close to becoming a couple/and or making love but it never happened because things got weird and we both didn't make a move. This was obviously a mistake. But, you have no idea how much I liked/like her. I started ignoring her in hope to either get over her or to show manliness and although we see each other around school and around town we don't really talk to each other but I know she thinks about me cause of various reasons. Well, I have a new gf for a while but I have realized that this past girl is who I would do anything to be with. I realize I have messed up, and my life would be complete if I could be with her. I am about to break up with my gf cause I realized she isnt right for me. Heres the mission. How do I get this girl back into my life so I can re-spark something. I understand itd be better if I forgot about her but she really is that special to me. I honestly think its worth a huge effort. I dont think I can randomly start talking to her cause I have had opportunities to do that before and I didnt, so it would be strange for me to do it out of the blue. I have to do it some other way. If i could get her back into my life then im sure I could become her boyfriend. Please guys, some help would be appreciated. I'm gonna go for it.
  4. John, we understand what you're feeling right now. It is a horrifying feeling. But please understand that you are not alone. You will not die. Understand that it is ALL MENTAL, and that it can be treated. John, it is not worth killing yourself. You have one life. It can be salvaged. Regardless of how bad you are feeling right now, you have to fight through it, and get it solved. Suicide is not an option. One day, when you are completely happy and healthy, you will look back on this and laugh, and say life is great. Stay strong, be a man. You'll be fine. As ridiculous as this sounds, listen to some 50 cent, his lyrics will motivate you. Especially his songs: Back Down, Gotta Make it To Heaven, I'm a Soldier, and Don't Push M
  5. i've been in similar situations....actually very similar. What you do now really depends on how strongly you feel about the girl. If you dont feel very strong than just be friends with her and accept it. If you really care for her than either stay around be there for her and hope it turns into something more, or.....get out of her life because it hurts too much to just be friends, or because you want to prove a point and make her start wanting you. if you really feel strongly for her dont just hang around and be friends with her like thats fine. u can be friends with her but make sure ur trying hard to progress to the next level. if u dont wanna do that, for several reasons, then get outta her life. getting out of her life works alot of the time, because she will always be wndering what ur doing, if u have a gf, if u still want her, and she will probably come back to u eventually, and at that point u will have her right where u want her. Do what your intuition says,.
  6. Hey guys....I am a completely healthy 17 year old male who is active playing varsity basketball and tennis, has had numerous checkups within the last few years, heart tests for sports, and blood tests for donations, ect. and am completely healthy. However, I often feel stressed out and anxious, and this anxiety oftens comes from not being able to get a nice full breath. I can always get one through yawning at all times, but sometimes even when im not stressed i take a breath and it feels like im coming up short, u guys no what i mean. Nothing serious, i can still breath easily and I never get light headed so i know im not short of oxygen or anything but its annoying and uncomfortable. I have had a few panic attacks in the past from this because i started hypervenatling and it was bad, but i have learned that i am healthy and have learned how to control myself and stop them. Based on the fact that i am completely healthy and am able to run 11 miles without stopping, what could possibly be causing this. i dont have asthma either.
  7. You cheated on him, theres nothing you can do. You should of thought of all this before doign shyt with another guy.
  8. ????????????? ?????????????? Youre just going along with what the guy said. Most of the time its the other way around and girls cant figure out guys. What are you talking about play by your rules? That rarely ever happens, the man usually always wears the pants in the relationship, and you girls are always the one guessing what were gonna do next. Stop trying to make yourself feel special
  9. just suck it up and call her and talk to her
  10. Dude she wants you. Details about sex, blowob, or kiss, i dont know. Based on the fact that she sucked your finger, I think there is a pretty high chance that she'll suck something else but I dont know any details so i couldnt tell u. All i can tell u is that she almost certainly wants u. U take it from here.
  11. looks like your getting played. this girl doesnt like you, she likes the other guy, otherwise she wouldnt have invited him.
  12. Seriously man I know how you feel. There have been times in my life when I felt so down its unimaginable. But life is about withstanding those moments (although when youre in them, you feel like there never gonna end), so you can truly enjoy the good times. They will come, trust me. And sometimes they turn so fast its unbelievable. Like right now, you think about each aspect of your life pessimistaclly. Once a few good things start happening, which they will, you will start to think of the others optimistically. and everything will seem perfect. Now that euphoria will eventually go away, and thats life, its the ups and downs. Just deal with the rain man, because its so worth the sunshine.
  13. Dude, show your a man and stop talking to her completely. Although there's a good chance this won't bring you together, it will catch her off guard and show her that your confident enough to leave her completely. She will do one of two things, either start talking to you, or play along with ur game and stop talking, but if she does the latter, you have still succeeded.
  14. Thanks for the responses, although I don't feel if you blush it necessarily means you have to be embarrassed. embarrassing is kinda like self-conscious or humiliating, when just any pure rush of emotion can make ur face red.
  15. To make a long story extremely short, I used to like a girl, we had a short fling, she decided she wanted to be friends for a little while, i didnt want to be friends and got out of her life completely. This was 5 months ago. Whenever she sees me and doesnt expect to see me, she blushes and she like looks away. its not like a giddy omg i want you blush, but her face gets red and she is somewhat embarrassed or soemthing to the sort. What emotion can she possibly be feeling cause if u blush u r obviously experiencing some emotion. could it be anger?
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