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  1. Every relationship is different, and the X perience people gain from each encounter is also different. Many people say, don't talk to the other person if they are not avilable.. This is true because the success rate would be dramatically lower than if the other is single... At the same time, you have a better knowledge of the other persons relationsihp that the online community. If you think there is a chance that she will let go of her relationship, and move on, than take the green light and go for it .. Otherwise take the yellow light and go slow .. If they are a commited couple and you are trying to get in between them, than that would just make you look >>>> ... i totally support u ,,, do what is right,,,, but just preprare yourself for rejection, and to be able to move on again ....
  2. the only way to get the mind off the ex is to get your mind on the "NEXT"
  3. she's not ready to date again, its human nature, its psycology that you cannot forget someone. You're girl friend will see and hear things that trigger images of her ex in her mind. Your job is to make her have a good time, "one cannot forget the ex if the next is not better"
  4. do what your nick name tells you , be inspired!
  5. Its not true that mens are always into looks. Every women has a beauty trait that only certain men can see... I see women that are 100% sooo unattractive to me, but to my friends and classmates they are the most beautiful women in the world. For women it is important to find a men who find you beautiful, who tell you that you are beatiful and not hot, who admires you and love you for who you are... Dont date someone who makes you feel insecure, ugly, or brings your self esteem down.
  6. move on, if you were meant for each other than nothing can break you apart....... love is like a river, anytime it encounters an obstacle it cuts a new path around it. your river has turn into the vast ocean ... time to move on buddy .. not waste the time.. why waste time with the ex, when you can spend time with the next.
  7. loooser, that guy needs to appricate the things you are doing for him, and not take it for granted... the time, the energy, the thought, the effort that you put into it, is what matters ............ ITS NOT YOUR FAULT!!! and you did nothing wrong
  8. Generally you get what you pay for, so free adviced is usually not worth the credibility. Usually situations that has to deal with emotions and feelings are easier said than done... Usually people giving advice has not encounter a similar experience themselves so they would give scenario experiences and not life encounter experience. Trust is really a big word, from what I read in your story, i am not taking any sides because of the details in story, but like your last statement suggested, people sometimes do things with motives .... but what i can say is "real friends tell you what you need to hear not what you want to hear"
  9. are you in love? or you just want the idea that you are in love? sometimes people get confuse about if they really do love the person, or do they just miss the feeling of dating (hugs, kiss, holding hands, share feelings, giggity giggity giggity goo)
  10. the girl waits three day to reply, and the guy again waits two days to reply two can play that game, just dont end up playing yourself by playing hard to get ..... getting to know someone is a two way communication.
  11. After reading many forums, I find that many users freak out and doesn't know what to think or do because their ex contact them. 99% of the time you cannot be friends with your ex because you have not moved on from the pain you felt after breakup. .. Make new friends, and keep old ones; some are silver and some are gold....... Things will be better after you find your next love.... until than, good luck hunting everyone... Sometimes I wonder why my ex contact me also, but if they wanna say hi how ur doing, i try to just sit there and say a few things, most importantly, avoid topics that may lead to your past relationship...
  12. It has been 4 months since I broke up with the one I love. And I am happier than ever in alot of ways. I have bonded with old friends again, got closer with certain family members. I could say that its true You cannot be friends with your ex, it will not work out. Just move on with life, and don't look back because the person that you were in love with does not exist anymore.... For those people finding it hard to forget about they're ex because they are on your mind all the time. Than remember this ..... It only takes a sec, a min, an hour, a day, a week to get to know someone. But it will take a LIFETIME to forget someone.... You must accept that the person you were in love with did exist at one point in time, but does not exist anymore.. They will forever live in your memory, and in your heart, trying to forget them is just a lie, accept the facts, and move on......... ..... And also remember, If you were meant for each other, than nothing could break you and your partner up. In Vietnamese this is : Neu chung minh la cua nhau, thi khong co chuyen gi se chia re duoc chung ta.
  13. Guys can have low self esteem, low confidence or insecurity reasons also. A guy with a career in mind would definitely save the marriage stuff after he gets a good job, stable financial, and some assets. College marriages is tough, save it for after graduatation ......that way you can enjoy marriaged to its fullest, and not have to worry about classes and stuff and stuff.
  14. She could have interest in you, along with a few more other people. She probably calls you up when she is really bored. Even though you are on her hang out list, you are not on top of her prioritized list. Don't make anymore regards towards hanging out until after Thanksgiving. I would recommend using statements like "I'm gonna go Thanksgiving shopping this week at bla bla bla, if you want to join me, gimme call. " Than don't mention of it again, if she is really interested in hanging out with you, she will make time to go hang out with you.
  15. Most often people get confuse about love, crush, and interest level. I would say Love is when your heart beats for them, you feel butterflies, tingly fingers, sweaty palms, dry lips, etc. In general human socializing, it doesn't matter if your married, engaged, in a current relationships, there are times when we see people that we will have an Interest level in. Sometimes there are very high interest level to get to know them, just to be friends, talk to, or something unique about them that you want to be friend. So just get to know this guy, u'll probably spot turn offs. DD
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