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  1. I did just that. I started to date someone while I was divorcing. Things got really complicated. Granted I did drag out the process. But the person I was dating started to get invloved in pushing for the divorce to be completed. I took it as her getting invloved with something I didn't want to associate her with. It really screwed my head up because I saw her as my escape from the divorce. Now when I saw her it was about the divorce and when I was alone in my thoughts everything was about the divorce. I finally situated the separation and she dumped me 3 weeks later. She couldn't understand why I didn't want to communicate with her about it. I just didn't want her associated with it. Take care of your divorce before you open your heart to others. What they will see will be much better than what they see while you are going through this process.
  2. Man sounds a little like what I went through. Only I might be your wife on this side of things. I'm no expert I can only tell you why I acted the way I did. I started to see someone else. I was always looking for something to do around the house. I felt so guilty that I wanted to stay occupied all the time. Plus it allowed me to hide my emotions. I too started to hate my inlaws. I'm not sure why I think maybe it was because I wanted to disconnect from everyone. I not only started to see someone else I wanted to divorce to be with them. So mentally I started the separation process. I wanted to leave so badly I would look for any excuse to walk out. Well get this I finally got the separation and the person I was seeing decided they didn't want anything to do with me. This is 3 weeks after getting it. So you see life can get very complicated. I dont think I can ever trust anyone. Aside from my ex this girl was my only other love. I'm 31 and I've been with only two women. Good luck to you.
  3. Hi all, I've recently broken up with my girlfiend of 3 years. We have known each other for about 5 years. I should say she has broken up with me. The story goes like this: I was going through a divorce when we met. The problem is I took a really long time to actually process the divorce papers. The past few months she was pressuring me to get the divorce completed. I took it as her getting involved with a part of my life I didn't want her to be apart of. Needless to say this caused a lot of problems between us. I left her to work things out on my own. I didn't realize but she thought I was leaving her forever. Well I got my separation papers 3 weeks later to find out now she wants nothing to do with me. She has told me to move on with my life because she has. I couldn't understand why after so many years she would leave me now. I really love her and want her back. But I dont know what to do. Aside from my wife she is the only other person I've been with. I'm 31 years old and dont know how to handle this situation. I'm staying in Miami for the time being but she lives in NY. Should I return to NY incase I get another chance? What should I do? I've been begging for another chance for over a month. I feel a sense of despair. I really love this girl. I'm not handling this well at all.
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