minnie

My grandma told me dreaming fish, was always a sign of pregnancy in the family for her so, it could be yourself but, listen out for others!!

1 word woah!

You did'nt give much time mate!!!! 13 mins between your post and you have already emailed her. I gather nothing anyone would have said would have stopped you anyway!

Thanks for that, i see what you are saying. When i asked my cousin, whos friend got pregnant by her boyfriend! She said "she was supposed to be my friend". As if she was valued more than the guy at one point. But he was supposed to be your boyfriend(?) She was still talking to him, until he left the country but she is still pining over him. As if he did not do anything wrong. Its amazing, i dont think i will ever understand it fully.

sorry for double post!!!

Hmmm. Thanks for all posts, they pose some great views. I have never been in the same room with my EX and Ex friend. I went out with a group of them, he saw me with them and came over, then i left with him. It was at this stage she had only heard about him and finally put a face to the name. So he knew i knew her and she knew i wa with him - i didn't even knew that they spoke until, one day she call and asked what was happening between us and if i am still with him. She said he was talking to HER friend and they exchanged numbers. I asked him and he said your friend is no good etc..... I have woeked that out to be - she was checking if i was still with him for herself, no-one else. His reaction was a little fishy although he denied exchanging numbers with anyone. I have pieced the jig-saw together and have it a clear in my head. they cheated. I hate them both, but i think iamteddybearfeelmecuddle is right. I hate him but think that i was talking to him 'acting' happy to make me feel validated. He wants me back but i dont think so. I will ask people there own views and post them, just for individual/personal reasons and reactions. I have to admit it is interesting. thanks again x x

Hmmm. Thanks for all posts, they pose some great views. I have never been in the same room with my EX and Ex friend. I went out with a group of them, he saw me with them and came over, then i left with him. It was at this stage she had only heard about him and finally put a face to the name. So he knew i knew her and she knew i wa with him - i didn't even knew that they spoke until, one day she call and asked what was happening between us and if i am still with him. She said he was talking to HER friend and they exchanged numbers. I asked him and he said your friend is no good etc..... I have woeked that out to be - she was checking if i was still with him for herself, no-one else. His reaction was a little fishy although he denied exchanging numbers with anyone. I have pieced the jig-saw together and have it a clear in my head. they cheated. I hate them both, but i think iamteddybearfeelmecuddle is right. I hate him but think that i was talking to him 'acting' happy to make me feel validated. He wants me back but i dont think so. I will ask people there own views and post them, just for individual/personal reasons and reactions. I have to admit it is interesting. thanks again x x

Well, everyone that i have asked always say they Can leave a man IF they want to, and are not afraid of being alone. But i think differently. This kind of thinking and reaction, is letting the S.O know that they can do as they wish and are valued more than the friend. In my situation,...... ........ i cant explain why i was more friendly with him and not with her - will have to think about that one. Bottom line is - i think it is unfair to treat them differently, when they were both close to you and both betrayed you.

Yes i understand what you are saying, and i actually realised this after, but it was really weird to see what was happening. They both have been dumped but, i was on speaking terms with him. When i look around people are taking back, or have 'forgiven' the SO, but not the friend. The friend was hated as was everyone who 'knew' etc... I have now realised that i was doing the same - not now though. Its inquisitive and i was looking for reasons for this

Hey guys, This is actually bothering me a lot as i am seeing it more often. Your significant other cheats on you with your friend What i have noticed is 90% of people this happens to ends up back together with - or at leats on speaking terms with the significant other but not with the friend. I would really like to know why this is, if anyone has experienced, or like to give their views. I ask this because i think it has happened to me (they both deny, but another close friend told me that they did and i believe her) and of lately i have started to speak with the 'man' more but not so much with the 'girl'. I realised this when i went to a club and saw them both, she said hi , i said hi. But me and him were talking quite friendly. After i realised what was happening and put an end to the friendliness between me and him he probably thought i was a psycho , but o well. Now im trying to analyse it, why can the SO be forgiven but rarely the friend. I know your friend should be your friends and not go there, but neither should the SO. I hear the saying men/women come and go, but good friends are for life but ??? most of the time its appears the other way around. I feel if you forgive one you should forgive the other, or forgive neither and move on, but this is rarely the case (?) Any views will be appreciated xxx

Get someone to give you a wake up call....

Before you take anythingm you should make yourself aware of the side effect, and do your research.Most people do this then make the decision whether to risk taking the medication and the side effects. All medications affect people differently, which is probably why they havent banned it. For evey 1 person negatively affected there may be 2 positives.Just my views - i wouldn't advise anyone not to take depo, but try it, it might agree with them - it might not

I have lost weight taking the pill, which is disappointing becasue i cant afford to lose any. Im gonna give it some more time, see what happens - and consider changing it.

When you say you trust him, but you dont trust her.... Ask yourself what can she do to him without him consenting to? If she is forcing herself on him, and he is truly not interested, then nothing will happen, and this wouldn't really be an issue. I doubt she will rape him or anything like that so - if you really trust him let him go. But if it was me and he DID go after he knew how i felt - i dont think i would be having him back. Because your mind will be racing wondering what happened etc... and those feelings are not good.

Its a hard one, but i think thats rubbish. My opinion, but i dont really know his situation. They must can come to a compromise . He must can come to compromise with you, if he is really concerned about your feelings. Lets see what other advice can be given to you, because i feel its black or white xx