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  1. I just got back together with my ex after about 2 months apart. We are moving in together now.
  2. I miss you like crazy baby and breaking up with you was one of the dumbest things I've ever done. I know you need time to figure yourself out, but do you see us being together again in the future? (Damn I want to call and ask this. It's killing me)
  3. I posted here a bunch about an ex girlfriend 3-4 years ago. We dated for 2 years before finally splitting. Basically I dumped her and quickly realized I made a mistake but she was already over it. I was devastated but after a few months of NC she came around and we got back together. I don't think I ever posted about the reconciliation because as others have said...there is no reason to post when everything is going good. Anyway things started off great with us but slowly deteriorated until she finally left me about 6 months later. After this breakup there was some more NC and a few short lived tried at rekindling before we finally called it quits for good. I moved on and am now hung up on a new exgirlfriend that I just broke up with. Haven't talked to the ex in about 2.5 years. So in summary, I think reconciliation happens very, very often, but it is much more rare that it is actually successful long-term the 2nd (or 3rd) time around.
  4. Not sure why a women would think she could give advice about this... But if you try to "slap it over the top" right as your about to cum it really diminishes the quality of your orgasm.....
  5. Good idea. I keep an all time distance record. I mark it with a clear stain.
  6. picsite, you have got it all wrong. Your semen doesn't go directly into the tissue. First it gets sprayed into th air and it falls where it may. If it was a very good orgasm it may be on the wall or your chest. If it was just average it will be one your stomach, legs, hands, and penis. Then you wipe off with the kleenex. Dont worry about getting some jizz on yourself man, it will be OK.
  7. Yea good idea. I thought alcohol was supposed to make girls horny though
  8. Normally i lose my erection and my desire. I like to cuddle afterward though...which i think may be uncommon for a guy. I have taken viagra before, and when i did i could keep my erection for several sessions in a row
  9. yea....that is what i am thinking too. It's a shame because i would do anything for this girl...but if she won't even try to sexually please me...there is no point.
  10. I do love her for who she is....very much so. She just has excuses for everything and when it comes down to it....she just never wants to do anything sexual. The other day when we did actually have sex, she tried to put me in her right away...i said hold a minute, what about some foreplay? She said she doesn't like foreplay. I love this girl dearly, but it is becoming more clear that our sex life is terrible and she has no motivation to change it or to please me. Perhaps she knows i love her too much, so she doesnt feel like she even has to please me because i will love her anyway. If things don't improve in the next couple days i am leaving her.
  11. Because isn't that what couples do at the end of a long fun night out? They go back to one or the others house and have sex, then fall asleep cuddling? Right? At least that is the way i think a relationship works, and the way it has worked in the past for me.
  12. Yea thats another part of the story i left out. She won't give me blowjobs. She has TMJ ( some minor jaw problem) and says it hurts to give me blowjobs too. She wont even freakin lick it. She has alot of sexual hang ups. She did give me a handjob though.
  13. Yea good points. My post is so filled with stuff about sex because that is the problem area in our relationship. Everything else is really great, until i try to get sexual.
  14. Me and my ex got back together a few weeks ago. My story is in other posts on this forum. Basically we dated for 2.5 years, she left me (it wasn't a bad break, she just wasn;t sure what she wanted) and i did NC. We were split up for about 8 months, i ignored all her atempts to contact me. Meanwhile she moved 800 miles away for school. She came home on thanksgiving and tried to hard to contact me that i gave in. We hung out alot as friends while she was home. Then she went back to school and started calling me ALL the time. We would talk for about 2 hours a day. Things kept escalating until we got back together. about 5 days ago she came home for christmas. First day home she spends with me and we have a wonderful time as a couple. We come back to my house from the bar late at night and i thought we would have great sex, but she was tired so she just took all her clothes off and went right to sleep. In the morning i tried to have sex with her again but she felt sick and said she didnt want to. I was very sexually frustrated ( no sex in almost a year for me) so somehow this escalated into a fight. So 2nd day together and we fight. She leaves and we talk that night. She apologizes and we make up. Next day she comes over and we do finnally have sex. She seemed to like it alot, and afterwards she cried (not sure about this, she has cried a few times before after sex) We then go out shopping and everything seems good. Then we split ways and each go home. Next day we meet up and goto the bar. She is being really nice and so am I. We are buying eachother drinks and telling each other sweet things all night. She talks about how she is horny. So we get back to my house and i try to have sex but again she says she is to tired! I Talked her into haveing sex but she said it hurt way to bad so i had to stop after like 2 minutes. I went to sleep still hard, holding her in my arms. So we wake up this morning and i try to have sex with her again. She says no again! I talk her into it again and as soon as we start she says it hurts way to bad and makes me stop. She then started being REALLY B*TCHY. So we get into another big fight! We ended up getting over it and laying around for an hour or two cuddling. Then she went home. I tried calling her today twice and it seems like she just doesn't really want to talk to me. She said she will call me later tonight...I hope she does. I am so worried this fighting is going to tear us apart. Why would it hurt her soo much to have sex with me? It never did before, and my penis is not to big, 7 in long and average girth. We use Lube too! I am worried I got a little to forceful when she said no, just because i have so much biult up sexual frustration and i feel like she keeps saying no. What can i do to make our sex better? Why does she keep turning me down when i try to have sex, but when we can't have sex she always talks about wanting it? Should i be understanding about our lack of sex, or is this a red flag that we are not meant to be? I love her so much and i am just so worried to lose her again.
  15. Just a little update for all you jelous people who doubted me.... We are now back together officially and she is more in love with me then i can ever remember. She calls me all day long just to tell me she misses me or wished she was with me or whatever cute thing she wants to tell me. The only problem we have is that she wants me to give her more attention then i am able to.
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