Zacherz

How did it go?

That is awesome! You have no idea how happy I am for you. It is such a good feeling when you find someone that you would normally think is totally out of your league, then she is telling YOU to be more open. Please let me know how it goes on saturday

Rock on Good luck with the date. Let me know how it goes.

Just give her the benefit of the doubt. When you see her tomorrow, start out with how was your weekend and your first day of school. Make some friendly conversation. Then after you get her attention and things are going good, just be like "So what are the plans for this weekend?" Just try your best to keep an upeat tone about it, dont be negative. Don't put her in a position to where she has to be defensive about it, just try to be upbeat and positive, as long as you do that you wont seem pushy at all. With a big smile If she says she has plans or something that's fine. Just ask if she would like to go another time.

I would have to say it depends. If you guys have alot to talk about, then call her every day and talk away. If not, just call her a few times a week to check up on her and maybe make some plans or something, or just to see what shes doing. Don't think that you are getting on her nerves or anything. Probably if she didn't want to talk to you she would say she had to go as soon as she answered. Don't worry about it, she probably is a little busy. Don't get obsessed though If it doesn't work out with her, there will be others.

I know this is my first post, but I saw this and had to reply. I did read your entire encounter. I know there are other people here that have more experience than me, but I just want to tell you what I think. From what you have said she obviously likes you, and you like her. I know it may be overwhelming at first, especially with a beautiful girl for the first time. But you need to try to not be too over the top. Contain yourself for now, just try to be a nice guy. She likes you for who you are, I'm betting that she knows you are shy and that's something she likes about you. Use it to your advantage. Do not question yourself. She can read you better than you think. She obviously thinks your a worthwhile person, and that's all that matters. You need to stop thinking so much and just go with it. Don't worry about not being able to drive, don't worry if you don't think that you're cool enough to be with her. Just be a nice guy. That's all she really wants. Just try to be sweet and caring and be a good friend for now. If you can do that then I am betting that you are way ahead of any of the other guys she hangs out with. Honestly, alot of guys these days are a**holes (I can be as well sometimes). Don't hesitate to tell her that this is a new experience for you. At first you need to be somewhat vague. Like I said, for now you need to just be friendly. If it develops, it will do so. It is all about timing. You need to wait for the right moments, and believe me, they will come. Three rules: 1. Smile alot 2. Try not to become obsessed. 3. Just go with it, don't underestimate yourself.