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  1. It doesn't necessarily have to do with too much exercise/sports. It's when you go through a few growth spurts and your bones grow but your muscles/tendons don't have time to keep up with them. The tendons are weak and over stretched. The bump is caused by new bone growing where it's not supposed to because of all the strain from the muscles and tendons. I'd say ice it alot, before and after exercise. A knee brace might help alleviate some of the pain. In this case, the only thing you can do is rest it, that's why doctors suggest braces and casts because then you CAN'T help but rest it.
  2. What position was it? The only time it ever hurt me (no lube any of the time) was when i was on my back with my legs on/over his shoulders. The rest of the time it was just a very full feeling, not bad, not great. He loved it though. It really depends on the position, if it hurt her, don't do that position anymore. It has to do with the angle of the anal cavity or whatever it's called. It's meant as an exit only door for stuff that's relatively soft and flexible....just remember that.
  3. SIDS is not actually the fault of the parents or neglect or any of that. Babies do get smothered when their parent unknowingly rolls over on top of them, but that is not SIDS. Research about SIDS has shown that a brain anomaly is linked to it. Basically the baby doesn't know they aren't getting enough oxygen and dies from breathing too much carbon dioxide. Normal babies would know to turn over or cry or wake up, but SIDS babies don't. Here is a link to the article: link removed Have you tried one of those bouncy seats or a swing? One of my cousins wouldn't sleep unless he was strapped into his carseat. He slept in a carseat in his crib for a long time. When the nights were really long and even that wouldn't soothe him, they put his carseat on top of the drier and turned it on. The constant hum and the slight vibration calmed him down a lot. (Make sure you DO NOT leave the baby unattended on top of the drier!!!)
  4. What about simple kissing and making out? Does she do that, does she enjoy that? Is she ever the first to start kissing? Has she ever done anything with another guy, or are you her first everything? Maybe she was sexually abused...raped or molested...but doesn't know how to tell you or doesn't want to tell you. It's hard to come out and tell someone about that. The first time you say it out loud it turns into something real, something that actually happened. Is there any religious reasons? Maybe she doesn't want to have sex before she's married. But you make her feel guilty for not having sex so she gives in to you once every few months. Maybe I'm way off with all these things...I don't know, just a thought.
  5. If she was drinking too that could be why there was so much blood. Usually on the last day of your period there is some blood, and alcohol is a blood thinner so it looks like there's more blood. I know my period always seems heavier on night when I go out and drink.
  6. Use the timer on the camera to take them. Set the timer and push the shutter button and you usually have 5-10 seconds to get set up before it takes the picture. I think it's a good idea, guys are visual usually, they like that kind of stuff. It doesn't have to be sexy pictures if you're not comfortable with that. You could leave him a message on the camera by taking pictures of paper that you write words on. Like you could take a picture of the word "I" then "love" then "you".
  7. That could be part of the problem. It also depends on your size....if you're penis is really thick then it's obviously going to hurt more than one that isn't that thick. She has to be really relaxed and into it for it to work. The first time me and my boyfriend at the time did it, it was really unplanned. We were going to bed, spooning, after we started fooling around and got interrupted. And it just kind of happened. It didn't hurt at all really. It was just alot of pressure, really full kind of feeling. I guess before that he tried to put his finger in there....but honestly, that freaked me out alot more than his penis. I'm not sure why. It just did. Just the finger wasn't uncomfortable physically, I was weirded out by it mostly I think.
  8. Any change in sexual activity messes with a cycle. Just like stress, change in eating habits, and sickness also do. So since all of this is new to her, it's a big change in sexual activity (I know you're not having sex, but the other things are still sexual activities).
  9. Stop being such wimps and just do it. I've done it before, no lube except natural lubrication that was moved from my vagina back there. It worked out fine. Never really hurt and he loved it. We did it spooning or with me laying on my stomach. Everyone always says it's this huge process, how it hurts so much, how you need to stretch her with fingers, how you need so much lube......I didn't think any of that was true. But maybe that's just me. There's two muscles she has back there, one she controls so she has to be relaxed or it will be as you say, "pushing a hotdog through a pin hole." The other one she doesn't control....so she has to relax and just breathe and wait for it to relax.
  10. Sometimes it is easier if someone finishes your sentences. It's embarrassing standing in front of people trying to get out what you want to say. Maybe that's just me though. I don't mind when other people finish my sentences. But I get frustrated with stuttering very quickly and will usually avoid verbal communication because of that.
  11. So he slept with you while he was dating the other girl? That doesn't sound like a good start to his new relationship, doesn't sound like he's really serious about it.
  12. I perfer people to finish my sentences somtimes....if it's a friend. My brother stutters too and I finish his sentences all the time. As a stutterer, I find it almost painful to watch someone else struggling to say a word. If you do finish his sentences, make sure you definitely know where it's going. You don't want to finish his sentence and have it be completely wrong.
  13. Put ice on them to numb them and stop them from getting any bigger. I'm talking about ice for about 45 minutes or so. Then sterilize a needle or something with alcohol or something. Pop all the blisters and use a Q-Tip or something to suck up all the pus or stuff. Then get a new Q-tip and put either nail polish remover or alcohol on it. It will sting ALOT at first. Suck it up for like 10 seconds and just deal with the pain. Keep putting alcohol or nail polish remover on it for about 10 minutes. That should dry it out. If the blisters refill later do the same thing. Once the blisters start to scab over, keep putting neosporin cream on it or chapstick so the scabs don't crack. I got a nasty cold sore a week ago, the blisters were gone in 2 days, and it's barely noticeable right now. Google "Cold Sore Remedies" or something like that and you should find alot more home remedies. Not everything will work for everyone. You have to find something that works for you.
  14. There's a BAC calculator at link removed, that tells you the BAC and Analysis (fine, imparement, drunk, death). But it's different for each individual and depends on many more factors than just gender and weight.
  15. Type 1 can develop any time from childhood to teenage years even into their 30s. In those cases where it's not seen until later, the body has some insulin stored but can't produce any more or doesn't produce enough to work efficiently. When my brother was first diagnosed his body was still producing some insulin but not nearly enough, they call this the "honeymoon period". Once his body stopped producing any insulin, it was much easier to control. I'm not saying that her boyfriend definitely has type 1, I just think it's more likely for him to have type 1. Type 2 usually occurs in overweight people, or elderly people. And she said he has no family history of diabetes and he eats well. Type 2 is usually caused by genetics and poor diet/high body weight.
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