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  1. I ran a search on "threesome" in this forum and read as many posts as I could. I'm aware that most people are advising that a serious relationship not attempt a threesome because it may lead to the end of the relationship and/or hurt feelings. The thing is, the very thought of another guy (who is likeable and trustworthy) having sex with my girlfriend or fondling her and eventually going into a threesome with me included turns me on. I also know that she has an interest in mmf threesome as well because we've discussed it together. I think we have a strong and healthy relationship, we get along very well and love sharing our bodies with each other. I'm fully aware that sexual fantasy and reality are two completely different things. Neither of us have ever experienced a threesome before. I'm just very turned on when I know my girlfriend is feeling and getting lots of pleasure, whether it be from me or a sex toy, and now I'm thinking even as far as a threesome. It turns me on (in my head). My question is: With everything I've just stated here, is the idea of a threesome (for both the girlfriend and I) still sound like nothing more than a dirty thought (sexual fantasy), or has anyone been in a similar position as I am now who can tell me that yes they've been in a serious longterm relationship and have tried a threesome and has definitely enjoyed (or unenjoyed) it. I just want to know if we both should keep the thought of a threesome as just our sexual fantasy instead of exploring it in real life.
  2. Phew, thanks. I don't think I'll ever discuss it again.
  3. Can anyone share their experiences with a threesome or foursome? How they felt/feel about it? Perhaps even giving the basic general details like whose idea it was, and how many male/female, and if it was with another couple? I'm bringing this up because I just had a discussion recently with my girlfriend about this and I'd just like to know if any other couple out there has even discussed it. I'm not sure what I'm feeling about it. By details, I don't mean a play-by-play of everything that happened, but just a summary of who was involved and what kinds of feelings you felt. Even up to the point of swapping partners?
  4. In the event that you find yourself out of lubricant. Could you substitute with massage oil? Is it "Vagina-Friendly" ?
  5. Thank you all for your responses.
  6. Day_Walker, If it's just something that she feels could be fun to do together then it's not a big deal. To clarify, the jealously here is not about other people looking at her nude, it's about whether or not she likes it/wants others to look at her naked body. But, do you think, I'm even turning that into a big deal, dwelling on whether or not she wants others to look at her naked body. Or is it just really a non-issue that I shouldn't waste my time thinking about. If so, then you're right. edit: The thing is, I tried to ask her "Why do you want to go" before but she avoided answering it with a simple, straightforward answer. Normally, avoiding a question is a bad sign isn't it? An honest, quick answer gives me a reason not to worry.
  7. Thank you all for your posts. I am feeling relieved right now just from all of us sharing our opinions on the matter. I will go to her and have a chat about why she wants to go. Since I know her pretty well I have very good feeling she will try to avoid answering it at first with a "I don't know [shy grin]" to the point where she may become defensive with a half-grin. This all stems from the fact that I communicate as much as I can verbally, with as much detail as I can, while she communicates much more non-verbally with smiles, nods of the head, and slight gestures. This is why I haven't been able to successfully find the answers to my biggest concern. But, I will try again, with more persistence. I will post back here when I find the answers.
  8. Recently, co-workers of my girlfriend told her about a nude beach that was within driving distance of where we live. Ever since she has heard about this nude beach, she has been repeatedly telling me things like how to get there, where it is, in an obvious attempt to get me to take us there. I've asked her straight out if she wants to go, and she says yes, with a huge grin, like a kid. What I'm concerned about is her reason and desire for wanting to go to a nude beach, not the nude beach itself. She is not comfortable being naked around her friends, or people she knows and is familiar with, but seems to be much more comfortable in front of strangers. I don't want to have a girlfriend that wants (keyword: wants) to show off her breasts and vagina to strangers. If I felt that she didn't want to show off her breasts and vagina to strangers then I wouldn't mind going to the nude beach with her. Now, the facts seem to be, she wants to go with me. I don't think she would go to one without me. That alone is a very good sign but I still must ask everyone's input on this matter as I'd like to hear everyone's point of view so I could help myself in coming to a reasonable choice of action, or inaction. I tried to confront her about this last night but she changed the topic when I tried to ask her "Why do you want to go to the nude beach?" We're both in our early 20's so I'd prefer advice from others who are 20+ years old. If anyone needs any other information I haven't included in this post, please as, and I will respond.
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