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  1. I can see your point. I just thought web camming would put a more 'real" spin on it. Where you actually SEE the person as an animated being...with inflections, etc. Plus..if I don;t like what i see on the web cam then I likely won;t enjoy being there in person, does that make sense?
  2. So Beec, you don't think web cam is more 'real life" than just emails? We talk on the phone a lot too, but I think this is necessary BEFORE meeting.
  3. Hi all. I have been talking to someone online for a while. We know what each other looks like etc, sent pics, emails and plan to meet....but I thought doing the web cam would be a good start. What do you all think? I have never used one....can anyone offer tips? How do you use it?Can you talk or Do you still have to type? What are good tips for looking good on "camera"? haha..
  4. Steel........... What you do..is be REALLY cool. DO NOT LET YOUR INSECURITY show!!! This could be a VERY temoporary thing for her...........let it ride out. YOU get busy doing your OWN thing. Work out, do fun stuff ..whatever, go on a trip.......she WILL get curious about where YOU are, but you MUST allow her the time to do that!!!! I give her three weeks tops.
  5. He wrote her an INCREDIBLY beautiful, heartfelt letter and she took a crap all over it. Why should he call her because SHE is crying for hurting him? She didn't apologize, she is shedding a few tears because he isn;t jumping at HER insistence. This isn't just about "pride" it is about respect. If she respected him she would have been MUCH more appreciative of HIS efforts when he spilled his soul to her.
  6. Steel....hang in there...and if you have ANY hope of getting back with this girl.........give her spcae LOOOOTS of space. More than she asked for. That is the loving thing you can do right now. Look over all these No Contact forums and you will see.........if someone asks for space ..GIVE IT TO THEM!!!!
  7. I see Melrich's point....but at the same time.. it was HER who told him if they didn;t talk yesterday then he would have to wait till Sunday. So why is he wrong for doing as she said? All that will be doing is making him her puppet in essense. She says jump..he says how high.....NO.....him doing this is simply setting a a precedence. IF..and that's a BIG IF..he contacts her..I would suggest it ONLY be to say he will call her on Sunday. If he calls her because she is crying or shedding a few tears....over HER behavior...(this guy wrote her an incredible letter) then she knows she has him by the balls, and whenever it suits her, she's throw a fit...and he'll give in. My vote is still not to contact her.
  8. Wade.....I agree with Kellbell. She's manipulating you with her tears and you're falling for it hook line and sinker. Don;t be surprised if in the next few hours she turns psycho again like yesterday. She sounds Bi polar to me.
  9. Thanks Parsley!!!!!!!!! This is ALL intended for fun and obviously I realize I can say this stuff to him or I wouldn't even think of it. I found some of the replies a bit prudish but then I DID ask for advice, so I take it in stride.
  10. I wouldn;t say there's a problem. Maybe because of your drama filled past you expected "real" love to set off fireworks around you, and that's not happening. I know I went through a phase where if there wasn't craziness in my love life it seemed boring or like there was something missing. I say just let it sink in and enjoy the peace and quiet!
  11. Oh yeah he knows I want more than just sex, we've just never had it!!!!
  12. Ok, he works nights at the hospital...so I decided to send it this afternoon before he goes in...... You know for some reason I've been having these wicked thoughts about being in a car with you, driving around.... (you driving) and me going down on you.....that thought turns me on for some reason. Maybe it's the exhibitionist in me.... Anyway....just wanted to share that with you.....enjoy your drive to work!! link removed Hehehhee.....I'll let you know how he responds.
  13. Good points. I would never send an email like that to someones work email. I am very discreet, no worries there. He checks his personal email at work.As far as the other stuff, he knows me on a pretty emotional level. Knows how I feel about him etc, and the feelings seem mutual. I just want to send a fun,playful message that will leave him thinking about me, and what IS to come. Thats all.
  14. Ok I will....heehehe....I'll let you know his reaction!!!
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