Well, at first it was the issue of our distance. He moved back to his hometown when we graduated earlier this year. So we've been long distance since then! I would ask him all the time when would we be able to close the distance between us and he would always say he didn't know. I told him I would NEVER knowingly be in a LD relationship; the only way I feel that LD relationships work is if they are temporary.....if there is light at the end of the tunnel, so to speak.
He had no plans of moving back to where I am, so when I suggested that I move to where he is, he was in agreement....HOWEVER i couldn't shake the feeling that it didn't feel right . I felt like if he wanted me to move there with him, he would have at the very least brought up the subject before I did. I don't know I felt funny about it so I made the decision to stay put until I could get something more solid from him. He still couldn't be firm in expressing the desire to be together, so I told him I wanted us to be apart. [-(
A month later, we talked and he laid it all out on the table. He suggested that first we do X, then we do Y, then we could do Z. I was very happy that he was finally sounding more convinced that he wanted this to work so I just picked back up where we left off.
I just seem to be in the same boat again and I have about had it!! We have such a cute story of when we met. I wrote about it on here last August. I can't believe now, I'm writing about breaking up with him