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My nephew is 10 months old and can hold it on his own, but doesn't always. Before that, I last saw him when he was 5/6 months, and could kinda "help" you hold it. He'd put his hands on it, but you had to balance the bottle.

Hey SegaGirl. If you aren't happy with things as they are, you can always change them. Having the (sorry, but) "balls" to up and move is quite a decision. It's cool that you can stay with your sister for a while. I'd check on those job offers before completely packing up. I moved once before I had a job and it ate through my savings in about 2-3 months. There's nothings wrong with heading back to your roots. Good luck!

It is possible she was just being polite. I smile at people all the time, mainly cause it's nice to get a smile in return. However, you could always introduce yourself, "Hi, I'm ____. I just wanted to say Hey." And see what happens.

Normally I won't generalize, but yeah, that's women.

Hey Demi-Boy, I'm assuming that you're talking about mutilation in the terms of cutting, or something like that? Can you give a little more info? Just based on what you've said and what I'm assuming here, you're friend may be a suicide risk. I don't know how often self-mutilation progresses that far, but please talk to her, let her know you care.

That is what it sounds like to me. If you do actually start to hurt, though, you may of course want to see a docotor. But this sounds like the normal reaction.

Hi goldie, Friendships (and all relationships) are 2-way streets. (Otherwise it's stalking! I definitely recommend talking with this friend. She may truly be busy or may be feeling caught between you and your ex (assuming she was friends with you both in the past.) Good luck!

Hey S.o.G, I know what you mean, I've been in a similar situation myself. When friends start to become something more and then, for whatever reason, it doesn't happen, you're left in a pretty awkward place. My guess is she's avoiding you because she either isn't sure of her feelings or just feels that awkwardness. When I was in this place, I made sure to give my friend some "space," but also made sure she knew I still considered her a good friend and was there is she needed me for anything. In time, the awkwardness passes. Best of luck to you!

Hi faeriechyld, I have a concern with the older boyfriend who doesn't seem to respect your friend. Of course, I may be reading too much into this. As for your age, well, it's true, most people don't feel that teenagers and early 20's haven't had much life experience. However, your opinions and feelings are no less valid due to your age. Best of luck to you.

I agree, is he putting them on correctly? Try pinching off some at the top (or have him do it) as he rolls it down. That'll leave some space for movement and may help.

Does this happen as you're nearing ejaculation? The testicles will actually rise or pull up right before a guy ejaculates, so it could simply be this.

I love it when a woman has the confidence to approach me. Plus it's one heck of an ego boost!

If you haven't had any contact at all since the break up, I wouldn't call for her birthday. That's just me, though, I've been known to hold a grudge or two.

Hey PeterPan, From what you've said, it sounds like there is something else at the core here. The "you're an adult, I'm not" sounds like she's trying to validate some sort of reason to herself to break things off. Talk with her and see if you can find out what the real source is here. Of course, I could be wrong and for whatever reason, the 2 year difference is what's bothering her. Are you headed to college and she's still in high school, anything like that? Best of luck to you!

Hey ShadeOfGreen, What do you mean by physicall close, but not kissing and stuff? Are we talking about hugging here, or what? It may be that she's not sure about how she feels about you, and keeps reverting to talking about her boyfriend to sort of remind both you and herself that she is seeing someone. I think SwingFox said it best about not trying to guess what she's thinking/feeling but to actually act on it.