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It's pretty hard to just randomly introduce yourself- I know. Although I certainly wouldn't think less of anyone who did introduce themselves. If you notice a sticker or band name written on her binder or give her a compliment (nice shoes, shirt, smile- nothing innaproprite) you may be able to start a conversation. Or ask her if she thought the Science test or whatever was hard. Or maybe ask what an assignment was or for a piece of paper (not pencil! I never get pencils back so I automatically say no, even if he's cute or nice) and then say, "By the way, my name's -----"

You don't have to pay an agent upfront. He'll take a percentage (usually about %10) of what you earn from the cards. It's not like you're losing money, because you didn't have it before. But since someone already is publishing the cards, you may no longer need an agent. As an agent's job is to find someone who will publish it. If you feel uncomfortable with this person, you should back out and get an agent to help you find a trustworthy company. I didn't know you could get agents for tarot cards though, I thought that was just books and actors. I doubt the SS #s of the models would be needed, maybe their permission. Itsounds a little odd, and it'd be better to not take any risk. Here's a link for publishing books, it may be useful: link removed

I'll be starting high school soon, and I'm really nervous.Most of those who attended my middle school are going to another school. I won't know 99% of the people at this school. And the few who I do know don't like me too much. I'm worried I'll panic being around all those teenagers. I can't relate to anyone my age. I don't watch much TV or gossip. I don't drink, smoke, or do drugs. I'd rather not become loose. I keep good grades. And I don't want to lose my identity trying to fit in. But I don't want to be made fun of. Can anyone give me tips on how they survived?

I've felt invisible at times too. I feel pretty rejected or boring when it happens. But in your case, you shouldn't take it personally because: 1. You weren't skating. 2. There were girls there. I'd say don't go next time- what's the point? You're not losing your friends just because you don't go, and you didn't have any fun. If you want to meet new people, you probably shouldn't go to a skate park when you don't skate. You should go places where you'll find people that have things in common with you.

It'd actually be a better idea to get a book on it- your parents can check the history of the websites you visited, whereas books can be hidden. I reccomend books by Silver Ravenwolf. I read about it a year or so ago, but I'm not really into it anymore.

I'm confused, did you just give yourself advice?????

I'm lovin your metaphors and similes first of all. Second of all (?) being funny, kind , sweet and, what's that word-- oh yes, CONFIDENT, can make you appear much more attractive than you really are. And I think what Napolean meant by coming on to strong was that she could sense how desperate you were. This was only one lady ten years ago. You mentioned in another thread that some ladies were looking at you- go up to them and say something next time it happens. Be confident and stop thinking these terrible things about yourself. You're probably judging yourself way more harshly than other people do.

You know what? An adult probably isn't going to take what some obnoxious girl shouts very seriously. Why would he tell his son that? He probably forgot already.

I'm not entirely sure what you mean but the style I take combines kickboxing, Judo, Kung Fu, Tae kwon Do, aikido,weapons, all that good stuff. Although we've had quite a few injuries, I don't think it's quite as intense as what you described. We have men and women of all ages too, not just a few bulky men. But I think it's good to try out each style, if that's what you're asking. And if you find just one style you prefer you could switch over that. The great thing about my style is that you can become faster, lose weight, gain muscle, and become flexible, since there are so many different styles. I don't think it's a good idea for you to try something so dangerous. Sure it's an amazing high- but is it worth it? Keep in mind that you probably aren't going to be able to bash heads in on the first day. It takes a lot of hard work. Maybe I'm just getting the wrong idea, but that UFC stuff sounds stupid- there are so many styles where you are actually able to use your head. What's the point of injuring people on purpose? Entertainment? That's not what MA is about.

How about Martial Arts? It's fun, you learn self-discipline, get a great workout, for most places you HAVE to go atleast once or twice a week, you benefit mentally as well as physically. More info here: link removed I take Hapmudo, which really helped me. Well, I wasn't unfit, but I've seen a lot of people in my classes lose weight and gain muscle. I can actually do push-ups now. It's supposed to help you gain more confidence too. And you might meet some cute martial arts girls.

And if you do decide to get her a flower later, why not something more unique than a rose? For example, if she says she loves purple, a purple flower. Roses are nice, but she might not want to carry it around or accidently crush it during the movie.So maybe it'd be better on a date for dinner, where she can set it down at the table.

Metallicaguy: Why would she want to charge them with sexual harrasment? These guys probably aren't going to get "locked up" as you say. For a few reasons- 1. She's an adult, so that makes the situation a little different. 2. She's wearing clothing that basically welcomes it. 3. While your definition is true, all they've done is look and say something. And when they do say stuff, they don't force it on her. When the guys said, "Juicy" (What does 'juicy' mean anyway?) they weren't shouting it at her, or trying to get a response. They were just being guys. Also, the reason why attractive people are being critiscised on this thread is because they sound so arrogant about it. It's pretty rude to give someone a weird face. And yes those girls took it too far and should have given it up . But really, if a girl comes up to you, just tell her you're not interested. Don't give her a weird face- as a teen, things like that can ruin your entire day or self-esteem. You should know that by now, seeing as how a lot of people on this site are so worried that the person's going to give them a nasty look . And why did you need to consult the police, these girls were your age weren't they? I've had a few guys that asked me out over and over again, or get my number from someone else. They were irritating, but I was never scared, they weren't technically stalkers. One guy who was 15/16 ish kept grabbing my breast in martial arts class and everytime I had to bow when I came to the end of the mat would try to bow right behind me to look up my skirt- so I stopped wearing skirts and avoided him. He wasn't bad looking, but he was a little odd. I warned him that I'd tell the teacher if he didn't cut it out, so he stopped. So if the gardeners start getting worse you could warn them that they'll be fired. I had a problem with this 40-something guy who was really creepy and kept coming by the house when my parents weren't home- I just locked the door and hoped he wouldn't get in- he was creepy. He still calls sometimes. I can't stand him. He's a 'friend' of the family and also kept taking my cousin out. She liked him because she was able to get rides to wherever she wanted to go. Whenever he is around he always says, "Look at you, so tall and pretty. Look at your chest it's..." That is scary! And as for how I'd rate myself, maybe a 5 or 6. People have told me I'm pretty- but I don't take those comments very seriously. I don't think I'm very attractive, guys look, but they never seem to approach me. And I don't think they're intimidated, just not interested enough to approach me.

I think you should get back on your own feet before you go after women. You'll feel much more confident and have more to offer. In your spare time, maybe you could join a community theatre group or volunteer somewhere to meet new people. And if you find a woman who you would love to go out with- ask her out. Good luck- I think it's great that you're improving yourself.

Thanks imagi, I was thinking about IMing her about the myspace thing, but I really don't want to embarrass her. My mother says Christine would be,"Mortified if you knew!" So I "don't know". She's over right now, but I haven't said anything. It's just too awkward to do anything, and part of me wants to yell out,"WHY ARE YOU DOING THIS?!!?" But that's not exactly supportive.

That's terrible! I'm sorry but your family is just wrong. If you love this man, marry him! If your parents are good people, they'll give in and let you both attend family dinners and get-togethers. If they can't do that, screw them. I know it's really easy for me to say, since they are your family, but you're just letting a bunch of rascist idiots win when you give up your boyfriend. Have a talk with them, say, "You all are a bunch of rascist morons. I love this man, and I'm an adult. If you don't want us to come ver fine, we don't need you. If you all are so immature that you can't handle that, I don't need people like that in my life." And even though you may think you'll "never be with your family again" or something, they'll probably give in and accept him. I don't know if my post was helpful at all but I had to reply, this made me really angry.