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No I do not desire to kill anyone in in these dreams I am actually try to help the people being killed. I do not think dreams predict the future or that I am psychic, I have had some things that as most people seem to have happened before. Like you have been there. As far as too much horror movies lmao no I don't get to do that lol My 5 y/o owns the TV lol. Unless Garfield or Nemo is making have weird dreams I do not think that is it. However I have recently started working on my Associates degree then will be starting on my BS in Criminal Justice in a couple of years. I have been trying to figure out which career path I want to do most..Criminal Analyst or Criminal Investigations. I want to do Criminal Invest. but I have to take forensic's and it is not offered. Plus I should have gotten My Associates in Science instead of Business which was all the school has at the time. maybe that has something to do with it. Maybe my mind is trying to sort out if I want to help people by finding out "who did it" or help by trying to prevent it from happening in the first place. Who knows. Thank you to everyone responding. All insights are very helpful.

muneca, The only thing new is I started back to school, but I am not worried about it, because I recently completed my previous schooling. I am now taking online classes and am actually do quite well. I do not have any fear of that. Other then that no I really do not have any changes in my life that are worrying me. Thank you for the idea though.Made me think Sidehop, It is unnerving to dream such a thing. When you dream it it seems so real. I had to write my dream down, I was afraid it would drift from my memory like so many of my dreams. I can remember bits and pieces sometimes and sometimes I remember the whole thing, but alot of them I forget.

I am hoping someone could help me. I have heard when you dream of a death a baby will be born. I have had many strange dreams lately, for example...one night last week I dreamed a man I had never seen before (named Virgil) was murdered. He lived in a house with a well off man and his family. The wife of the home owner turned out to be the killer and she tried to kill her husband and young stepson. Then 2 nights later I dreamed my dad hired someone to kill him because he wanted to committ suicide. My dad had it all planned out, he told my sister and I, he left money for us to be able to live somewhere's else and even picked where he wanted the guy to put his body. In both of these dreams I was trying to stop these things from happening ( except for Virgil because i did not know he was going o be murdered). I called my dad and told him of my dream about him, but he said that would never happened. Are our dreams just stories our minds make up? Do they mean something? Does anyone know? These dreams are starting to worry me so any help would be appreciated.

First off, Let me say NEVER think you are not good enough for "the hottiest girl in school" who knows maybe she is not good enough for you. Also, just becuse she has dated someone a month doesn't mean she doesn't like you, I am not saying to cause problems for her realtionship, but you are friends you can be open. I would even do it this way..." Hey you and I are like really good friends right? Well do you think maybe I did something wrong with (name of girl you wanted to date)? " She will probably say no and something positive about you. Thats when you ask her..." Well if you were like not dating (name of her boyfriend), would you go out with me? I mean if the hottest girl in school would go out then I must be okay right?" then let her answer. You are not really asking her out, you are just getting info.

Sorry, but I have to disagree with sidehop. Sounds to me the confused girl is the "friend" in the middle. If you approached this girl without the other one talking to her and she seemed interested, then she avoides you AFTER the friend talks to the girl???????????????????? Do not trust what the friend who did the "talking" says. She might like you herself and be jealous. Girls do crazy things when it comes to liking a boy (of course boys do too with girls). You need to try to talk to the girl you like ALONE without the friend knowing, see what the friend might have told the girl. She might had told the girl bad things about you out of jealousy or spite. I made the mistake of listening to others who talked bad about a boy I liked in HS. It hurt his feelings and I regretted it. Believe NOTHING you hear and only HALF of what you see. Find out for yourself. You might be surprised. Good Luck! Angel

Okay, for one if he had an affair with this woman he should have ended it totally if he is committed to you. This is not like a friend who is just a woman that he has only be friends with. I have a male who is a very dear friend and in my own special way I love him, he has listened to me when I needed it and helped me when I needed it and so has his wife. I have always included his wife in conversations. I, out of respect for their relationship, talk to her also. But i am not in love with this man. I love my husband and 100% committed to him and if I had an affair I would end it totally if i really wanted to work things out with my husband. He sounds like he is trying to have his cake and eat it too. Who is he to say it is not risking your relationship, to me it sounds like it is. If he is such a great guy and if he loves you he would not hurt you this way. You do not hurt people you love intentionally. I would have a serious talk with him, if it still carries on I would rethink my position. If you were to ask him to choose you would probably find out he would not choose you. best of luck. If you need to talk please feel free to email. Angel

Did I miss something? How come you do not live in the same house with her at her parents? Will they not let you? I agree, unless she is an unfit mother and you can prove it you can hang up getting custody , ESPECIALLY if it turns out to be a girl. Unfortunately if it is like Florida, father's do not have any legal rights until the child is born either, which I think is unfair. As far as her emotional state, she has a lot going on, she is probably upset of being back home, losing everything, being whether some of it might have been because of taking care of her or whatever and having to be apart from you, then you add the manic depressent she probably is if she was already suicidal to begin with then add people filling her head with their opinions and the hormones and honey all I can say is if you love her stick it out at least until the baby is born. Most states you can not get a divorce anyway until the baby is born. besides if most of this is due to emotions, that might put her over the edge. I would do like the gentleman said about saving money, work on you and getting a place with 2 br. Straighten things out as if you were working are starting fresh. Wait it out until the baby is born, do not tell anyone you are stopping to see her in the hospital, if u hear she is having the baby wait and go when everyone else should be gone ( like late at night) and talk to her or slip a letter in her purse or some place someone will not just see it. Tell her you love her and want her to come home and have a home waiting for her, even if it is an apartment or nice rented place. After a little time to think if she doesn't want to or she will not let you see the child then take the money u saved and get an attorney. Best of luck and if u need to talk just email. Angel

where u a pilot or considering it or even gone alot when you got married?

Sorry, I saw that when I went back to the first set of reply's. How often are you gone?

You say you are on the road alot, what kind of work are you in? Angel

jayp, I am sorry this is happening. I too went through the same thing 5 years ago. Friday evening everything was great. My husband told me he loved me. We had one of those relationships where in 7 years we didn't fight, we got along great and seemed head over hills in love. He wrote me letters about how much in love he was with me and even bought me a ring...all of this within the same month. Sat. afternoon ran around and I never saw it coming. I worked graveyard and sat morning we did our normal running around, but something felt off. I felt sick as soon as he walked in the door to pick me up. Standing in the hallway later that day i asked him if he loved me, which he had told me all the time, but like i said something wasn't right. He said yes and kissed me. We laid down for me to go to sleep, he was beside me. When I woke up he was gone. He told my daughter he'd "be back in a little while", I found him 3 days later at his mom's. He said he loved me but wasn't in love with me and moved in with a girl he started talking to the month before but knew in HS. I found her because they had been best friends and his reunion was coming up. I was devastated. The point of all of this is,jayp, you never know when something will happen and how ever you feel is what is right for you. If it doesn't hurt, you do not love her and if it feels like it is going to kill you...I promise you will live. Things did not work out with this other girl. He found himself comparing her to me and decided he really did love me and that he had it much better at home. Their affair last nearly a year. It has taken alot of forgiven, not so much for cheating because anyone can make a mistake, but for leaving like he did. I will never feel comfortable in any relationship like that again. I have found a renewed love for him and things are good as far as I can see, although I am not dumb to think it WILL last forever. You never know what the future holds. I do not know why she left or your relationship, but if it was good and she is adventuring out, she might be back. While she is gone though, work on yourself. Do what you want to do or what you missed doing as a single person and find a positive outlet ( I improved my credit and went back to school). Also, sometimes there is a little satisfaction and making someone who left think you are over them after a little while. Sometimes they think it is okay for them but when you move on they do not like it ( my husband didn't), he stayed the night at my house with the kids, he told me to stay there ( he'd still be intimate but not kiss cause it confused things lmao), I went out with the man I had started dating and stayed the night, he asked why I told him " I'd rather be with a man who wanted me then one who wanted sex), the look on his face was priceless. best of luck and if you need to talk please feel free to write. Angel