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  1. when I was your age I dated alot of much older men that my parents never knew about. But now I am a parent myself and worry about my step daughters, but I cant stop them. Your parents are looking at his age and not the good guy he is to you. I'd stick it out, be happy with him. as you get older your parents will feel better. Me and my guy are 16 years apart.
  2. Enjoy your life to the fullest, especially being single, the sky's the limit!
  3. Labor starts as soon as contractions do, and they can go from mild period like cramps to bad period like cramps. My advice, get an epidural, it makes ALL the pain go away. If you are having these right now, It may be time to head on over to the hospital!
  4. The sad truth, changing people's housecleaning habits it almost inpossible. Thats where compromise comes in. Every heathy relationship is based on comromise. and yet, it can be a very hard thing to do, its a must. My guy never, and i mean never, puts his dirty clothes in the hamper. I have tired to even never wash his stuff just because he leaves it lying all over the floor. That did not work at all. all i got was a messy bedroom! It may make him feel like "less of a man" if he is doing the "girly" housework. He seems a bit old-fashioned, but think of it this way... he NEEDS you by wanting you do do most of the stuff. I do about 90% of the housework, and raise 6 kids. It gets very frustrating at times, and i can feel under-appreciated. But thats when you gatta stop and look around at your beautiful home and relationship and say, "I did this!" and smile. Take pride in the things you do, and the fruits of your labor will be visible to you.
  5. It is very common that the sex slows dows as the relationship goes on.. But maybe try reverse phycology(sp?) and not say anything to her about it for a while, dont try to boost her esteem, either. she will notice this more than you trying and trying because she may think that the only reason you are saying shes beautifu is to just get in bed. And she will wonder, "why is he not begging?" and she will come to you, then talk. Its just a sugesstion, but when it happened to me it worked.
  6. I think that you both are waiting for the other to make the next move, yet both shy to do it! This is normal, and fun!
  7. Im prego! Im due around the middle of August with my 3rd child!!
  8. I think the older people get, the less they like change. no matter if the intent was good or not.
  9. we dont do it either, I think the anniversary is the best time to have gifts and what not. I hate when my girlfriends call me up after v-day and brag about what their men did. we just maybe have candles with dinner, but nothing more. Great post, Im sure there are lots that feel this way!
  10. well, like i had ended my last reply, just how much can you endure? and Im sorry, but you have to kinda like what you do in order to like for example, eat another woman out when you are a woman (YUCK as far as im concerned ha ha) And if my guy asked me to do something I did not want to, I told him NO. simple as that. if they got upset, ask someone else I would say. As for the family molestation, I Have been molested by several members myself, and it did NOT lead to a wild life style. I liked being with alot of different guys, what she said was just giving a reason to herself making it "ok" in her mind. we have minds that allow free choice. no one event makes us do others, we do things because we WANT to. sure she may like your sex life now, but what about 10 years from now? one time my guy and i got into a huge fight over sex, and to hurt me he told me that him and his ex wife of 13 years would do it at least 4 times a week. learning that was horrible, and i STILL cant get it outta my head. (since our sex life isnt that often) and now i fear that im getting compaired to her all the time. I cant get it outta my head no matter how hard I try. So, you, as I, know about the past and it hurts. You have to look into YOUR heart, and see if you can get beyond that. tell her to not give you reasons why, just dont do it again. and I can understand about how she may not want to tell you which family member. with me, it was my moms boyfriend. and i kept it a secret for years. when i finally DID come out with it, I was hurt even more because my mom did not even leave the guy until 7 years afetr she found out. so i was hurt even more. I was with alot of people because It made me feel beautiful and wanted. make her feel that way, and she wont dive into temptation. Now Im in a 5 year long relationship, with a guy who works a million hours and never tells me im beautiful. so temptation is so easy to dive into. pay her alot of attention, it may be all she was lacking all those years.
  11. Wow..and I thought I had a colorful history! Well, there are two types of women I think, one who can be happy with just sleeping with one guy (i.e., perfect for marrige-type) and the other is the type who gets a "high" off of many different partners, reguardles of the sex of the person. My father (of all people) is very much into swinging and swapping, and even she-males. his crazy lifestyle has cost him 3 wives and counting. People that have done anlot of crazy thins (ESPECIALLY one night stands) can never honestly say, "oh, i can stop doing that". no. they like it too much or they would not do it. Look at your girl, been married twice allready. That alone schould be a red flag. She schould never tell you about their penis sizes, that is just plain cruel. I was told once that older women like there sex even more as they age. (im only 25 so i dont know just how true that is) If i was you, my main worry would be, "will she get bored of me and our sex life beacuse its not all wild and crazy?" I personally would not marry this woman. I have seen my whole life, that wild sex lives destroy marriages, children, and the happy home life. The choice is yous, think to yourself, 'just how much can i endure?'
  12. We all have insecurities, about anything, and we always worry about loosing the SO. But the sad reality is that when we over analyze, it can destroy what we are trying so hard to preserve. I guess its our womanly mothering instinct to protect and worry.
  13. My Guy and I have 16 years difference... Im the younger one ;-)
  14. I Think he is being pefectly normal. At this age, teens are learning little by little what the real world is made of. and alot of things could be disappointing. some things they are not ready to deal with. parents shelter their children from dozens of things early on in life. Example... the family dog got hit by a car when the kids were at school. Mom knows just what happened to the dog, but she may tell her kids that , "Fido got out and ran away." thus making the event easier to deal with. as teens, they realise that alot about life is sugar-coated, and facing reality can be really scarry.
  15. Does the child's mother think you are good for her daughter? if so, in any form, that could help if you do decide to fight for her.
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