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  1. I really feel for you..... Of course it is perfectly normal to want to love that child and you should. Just because that child wasn't born or didn't exist for a long time doesn't mean that he/she isn't special. That child came to both of you for a reason, perhaps just to experience a very short life but none the less to experience it knowing that you loved her/him deeply. Perhaps you should release balloons every fathers day to remind yourself and that little soul that he/she was loved and that you will forever hold them in your heart.
  2. Hi turquoise YOiur intuition is really like a universal whisper. It is the universe's way of giving us information. So in other words listen to your intuition- it never lies
  3. Hi Lock2121 I see that you asked' where is the fun in that?' Well how I see it is that the fun is in the challenge of actually learning all the lessons and mastering them. The fun is in feeding your soul with such a wealth of knowledge to eventually leave the earthly plain and move on to a higher universal plain.
  4. Hi Oddnet Well where this all originated I cannot quite say but it wasnt through people having outer body experiences. This belief system can be traced back to as far as the greeks BC. Now days this belief system is reinforced and grown from people that we call 'masters'. These masters are souls that have developed so much that they come to earth not to learn about things( like you and I) but to teach us about how the universe works and how we can progress our souls to other universal levels. The theory of Karma is an ancient belief system too so basically what I believe in today has been build up over thousands of years.
  5. To Turquoise What I believe is that when you feel most lost in your life is when the universe is making the most changes in anticipation of revealing to you your life's purpose. So fear not- rest assured that your uneasyness is a sign that things are being reshaped on the universal front and that answeres are soon to follow. Relax, not everytone needs to know their life's purpose immediately. It will come when the time is right.Just know that whatever is happening in your life right now, or not happening, is divinly perfect- so sit back and relax knowing that things are coming your way!
  6. Locke2121- well the path that I follow goes something like this. Ill summarise although it is a far more inticate belief system. I believe that we have several lives in order to develop our souls enough to move onto a higher lever or universe. How we do this is based on our souls reincarnating each lifetime and choosing different challenges each time. So before we incarnate we sit down with a few masters and discuss what we would like to learn this particular lifetime,for example self acceptance. Once we have decised upon that the masters will then decide upon which souls will assist us with learning that trait. We all sit down and discuss who will fill what role and when( mother, father, children, etc). Once that is completed we choose certain archetypes( characteristics) that will assist us in learning that trait. Once all has been decided upon our soul is shattered into thousands of pieces and we only regain pieces of our spirit from each contracted soul once we have learnt that lesson that they have agreed to teach us. Once we incarnate to earth our memoriy is erased and we no longer know what our life challenge is but are rather given the opportunity to learn from our soul contracts or not. So I dont believe that people are in our lives by coincidence- there is no such thing as coincidence. Those people are in our lives as a gift from god- to allow us an opportunity to grow or not- the choice is ours. And no contrcat is good or bad- it just is, and so perfecrly so because they all teach us exactly what our soul wanted to learn from the start. That is it in a nutshell- there is a lot more from there but what I have just said is teh beginning stages of what I believe.
  7. Thanks for the response turquoise and shestoosmart- this discussion is really interesting. I understand what everybody is saying but what about this theory. What if the theory of destiny( soul contracts and predestined circumstance) and the law of attraction( power of thought and manifestation) actually contradict one another. Are we supposed to believe in one, both or is there a happy 'meduim between the two and if there is then what is that medium?
  8. thanks for that- it has given me a bit of clarity. Understanding why thing happen makes life so much easier to deal with! Your insight is greatly appreciated. So if I keep telling myself that I will meet the right guy does that mean that by the power of my thought I can bring the predestined relationship closer in time? Or does it depend on wether Im ready or not?
  9. wow- great response. So basically what you are saying is that our relationships may be predestined but the timimg is not. Rather that the relationships will come when the timing is right ( ie when we are ready to learn).Very insightful!! So if this is so then where does the law of attraction feature?
  10. Shes2smart- thanks for the reply- I understand what you are saying I believe that we have soul contracts with different individuals in our life that allow us to learn or not learn specific lessons. And so I believe that the people that we have in our lives are predestined according to the life lessons that we have chosen before we were incarnated. So do you think that the timing that we have these relationships is predestined or can we, through the power of thought, bring these events closer? If I analyse my life all my relationships have been predestined and for very good reasons too and despite all the odds these relationships play themselves out. So I do believe that we choose the souls that we interact with because of the various gifts of 'learning' that they potentially offer. So because I believe in this does that mean that the power of thought does not exist? Or does desting and the power of thought and destiny coexist- if so what is the relationship??
  11. NO, Im currently studying a doctrite in mataphysics. Metaphysics explores both these theories
  12. I believe in it because it is part of me spiritual following. I believe in karma and the 'soul development' lives that we have
  13. Ive been thinking about this for a while.. If our lives are predestined to a certain extend ie. the relationships that we choose etc, then is there a place for the power of your thoughts? In other words if I am predestined to have a soul contract with a man around the age of 30, can my intentional thoughts of wanting someone in my life bring that soul contract closer in time ( I am now 27)? I know that the law of attraction says that we create our own lives but then where does destiny come into things? Confused!
  14. I think that the first thing that you 'need to get over' is the fact that you have made 'mistakes' n your life. I know that on the surface it seems that if you had chosen different things that your life would be easier but let's take a deeper look at things. What Im about to say is based on my own beliefs but it will hopefully help you feel a little better. Everything that has happened to you or not happened to you has happened for a reason. A reason that is perfectly aligned to making you the person that you were meant to be. You see we all chose different challenges in our lives, all with aim of allowing us to grow as spiritual beings. The 'human element' of us views these negative circumstances that we chose as being some sort of 'punishment', something to be despised and frowned upon. But the spiritual side or your soul welcomes these situations because they open up such huge opportunities to grow. I believe that there is a definite reason why we choose these difficult times. You may not realise it right now but in time you will. Do you think you would have grown as much as you have if it were'nt for these 'mistakes' that you made? Dopnt view them as mistakes but rather challenges, that if you put your mind to it, you can overcome. As far as the 'failed' relationships go perhaps you need to analyse the type of people that you attract. Remember that if you feel horrible, that your life is one big mistake, that you are going to eminate a negative energy and attract people to you that have the same negative energy. So try to analyse things and start thinking positivly and even start praising yourself for the good that you do instead of focusing on the negative. Positive thoughts attract more positive and vise versa. Hope this helps!
  15. Saw him last night and he wanted to sleep with me again. He told me how beautiful I am and that it is really hard for him to be around me. Any way I was really strong last night, yes I felt vulnerable and I could have easiliy fallen into bed with him again, but I stood my ground and told him that he had made his choice and that it was over. This morning he is all upset because he say that he can see that I am 'moving on'. For goodness sake , what does this man want??? It is almost like he wants to give me some sort of 'hope' so that I 'wait' for me and dont move onto someone else. Is this what he is trying to do???
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