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  1. Yeah, fake people are all round now-a-days, they like you when they need something from you - they'll call you, email you, txt you, laff for nothing and say nice things to you - once you full-fill there needs you don't hear them until they come back with something else! I hate these type of human beings too and without guts, they call themselves friends..
  2. Once again thank you so much - This is wonderful reply, Great. Yes there are many need aid most - Thanks.
  3. Thank you ramsickle1369, I can see that I'm not alone on these friendship situations. We like to do good things to families, friends and colleagues - but today's world most people never appreciate!! God Bless You.
  4. Yes indeed I was more than a friend - she had many problems on her life once she explained to me, since that day - I supported her for many things and I didn't expected anything on return from her side. Anything she wanted if I can afford I'll do for her and I'm sure she took every opportunity to use me and because of her problems I never rejected. However, this is life - the people you love most they tend to ignore.
  5. Thanks Jeff - yeah, the ball is still in her court and she don't want to admit. I'll just hold-on myself and see
  6. Hi all, We were friends for 5 years, I supported her to solve many problems including financial requirements. Recently days she started ignoring me and I told her honestly that kind of behaviour I don't like. She got angry and she said that's it - is over. I said OK but gonna miss you, for 4 months there was no word from her or from me to her either. I said to my heart let it be over I took her burdens on my head - I'm sure I will be fine. Now she started sending me normal emails, funny emails without saying Hi, I've not responded any of her emails. Is it a test and what should I reply to her emails such as: 1. thank you for your email or 2. thanks for remembering me or 3. what? or should I just keep quite and forget? Appreciate your opinion/advise.
  7. Ooh Fairy Queen - you took my words, believe me I just wanted to post a new thread regarding similar situation of your with my friend. We were best best friends for 5 years and I made all my best to help this lady but unfortunately she was ignoring me many times. At last I got tired and told her that "you're ignoring me too much" these honest words made her angry and she said - that's it, is over. My last words I said, I gonna miss you - for 4 months there was no word from her and from me to her either. But since last week she started sending me normal emails, fun emails without saying Hi to me. I have not responded any. My question is what can I do. Reply her emails with - let-us like: - thanks for your email - thanks for remembering me - or not to respond and be quite? Thank.
  8. As I said earlier - Keep cool for time-being..
  9. I suggest give him a space for a while, hopefully he might come back. Do not be too apologic, you have already apologised many times. Keep cool and quite for sometime and see what will happen. God Bless You All.
  10. Draw two circles, outer-circle and inner-circle. outer-circle call a circle of concern > it's a bad circle - it cause worries and anger!! inner-circle call a circle of influance > it's a good circle, hence! move your self into this circle, it and try to forget what happened to you and be calm like nothing happened..
  11. mo

    Argh.

    why don't you find out first? otherwise you'll be crazy man!
  12. Ooh ghosh - exactly like my situation, see my thread/post in "break up" I decided to break-up with this type of friendship after four long years of begging. I'm sure we can not make someone to love you even if you give her/him the whole world - never!! Just lend a gun wind it-up and shoot your foots. I mean me and you..
  13. It’s been about four years since we know each other. She was the first to say I love you, quickly she told me about her previous relationship and trouble she had combined with her life problems. I felt sorry and sad about her problems and said to her “I will be there to support you for everything you need - Indeed I was there for so many simple things to make her happy and push things on better way. Two years passed we were both in love and best friends I have ever had in my life - I thought it will continue for years to come - deeply I was more than a friend and all times call her asking if she needed anything, send her emails to say I care very much, Obviously! made me too "nice guy". For her occasions and her birthdays always remembered in advance and send gifts and cards. Within these two years I noticed things changed towards me, not the same respect and love I had, the daily "I love you" she use to tell me those words disappear from her mouth. When I call her, she will say I’m busy or I will call you later or blah blah, never call – If I’m not heard she never ask me what happen, I expect 50/50 love the way I treat her, should do the same to me – my last birthday she said she forgot, I said never mind, I still care very much about you. Frustrates and angry started to built in my heart and I became jealously too, she manipulating and nagging to much and show me indirect that there are other people around her could provide help to her better than me - I said doesn't matter I will still continue to support her especially when I remember her problems. Later I told her I don't like the way she behave but she was continuing to do the same. Once I disappear for a while after a fight, quickly she came back and said to me I can not live without you – I found she was using me - when she wanted something and without hesitation as usually I was there. Unfortunately, these recent two years, things went deterorating more and more. Recently, I read somewhere about dating - the website says: If you want to win her - you should show that you have other friends" this will make her jealous and starting to follow you again - I did and things went worse, since that day she never talk to me again, I apologies, sent her emails and cards like crazy, she kept quite not responding just like nothing happened. Today I decided to send her an email and I said is better to break-up after such long time of my love and caring to her. All those days she was refusing to meet me even when I invite her for something. Do you think? she will come back? Do I need just forget her and proceed with my new life?
  14. Try to be a little away for sometime and see how he will react. Please read "shortly20 topic on "It works!!" follow that step but not too often.
  15. Thanks OceanEyes. Yes, just to make him/her jealous. Let me explan little bit: Friend of mine asked me about this fake email which he sent to his g/l, but I had no answer, they have been in unstable relationship - he does a lot to her, but she doesn't appreciate/bother much of him and on-top of that she put a lot of test on him. You know, women put a lot of tests in men just sometimes to make them/men crazy, He/I wanted to find out what would be the consequences for the letter he sent and what to reply after getting an answer like this: " why you sent it to me, you just want me to know that you've so many friends, anyway thanks for your lovely later" What to respond?
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