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  1. Is she always that way. If she usually returns the sexuality, then i would be questioning it in my mind. but if she is not normally very sexual, then it is normal, and i would not worry too much about it.
  2. Yea, you could get pregnant, but I seriously doubt it. first of all you probably only got a small amount of precum on your hand, and then only a fraction of that got on your vaginal area... question did your fingers or hands actually enter inside the vaginal area. if it just touched the outside. i seriously doubt it. also you would have to be ovulating. research that, from your last cycle, then you can have a better idea of your chances.... however i would say, you are not.
  3. Well he cheated, good reason to leave the relationship. but remember your friend has feelings too. you lead him one, he is probably hoping he is the shoulder you will cry on. i never said you had sex. but from experience alcohol and the opposite sex will often result in a sexual act, weather agreed upon or not. And the alcohol will be the excuse. Obviously from your statement, B is supposedly your friend, and then you go to say you do not stand to loose much if all goes wrong. that there tells me he is not your friend, but just there to give you attention. If you believe in karma, then one day you will be after some guy, that is not going to be into you, and lead you own. Not being harsh, but for some strange reason wrong actions will be returned to you, if you bestow them on someone. If you really look at it, B like you to some degree, he did have a kiss with you. Pretty easy to push someone back, or turn your head. I know it can be tough i divorced 2 years ago, and the alcohol does not make the pain go away, or make things better. sit down and make a list of what your dream guy is like, then make a list of all the problems that are associated with all those good traits. then make a list of a guy that would be acceptable to you, but not perfect. Then list all the good things/ problems associated with it. Then make a list of what a honest good hearted guy woud be like, probably not like the perfect guy. The write down the things that would be so bad about him. Everybody wants a perfect mate, but remember alot of times when people are so perfect, and popular they have more opportunities to be bad, because they can get away with it, or they have a list of people wanting to be with them. Just be careful of what you want. Be careful of who you lead on also, being in law enforcement, it is easy to pick up stalkers, or psychos today.
  4. From what I can see no offense, but you are lost. YOU ars saying you do not want a relationship, but you take a male friend club hopping to meet some other guy. In your mind somewhere, you want to be in a relationship, or you just want to have some sexual experiences with attracitve men. It appears that the friend you are leading on is not that attractive. I hate this senario, because women always cry out for a good man, yet they allways chase the bad guy, or model type. Hey, you did say u dragge ur bud around to meet some guy at a club. As for you past relationship, who broke up with who? If he was not him, then you need to ask yourself why you broke up? If he was the one to break, u should get a straight answer from him. If you broke up with him, for any reasons besides cheating, or abuse, u should ask yourself a few question. do you know how to communicate in a relationship? Hey, all relationships are good at first, and none of them are perfect. It is learning how to communicate, adapt, and compromise will you then only be able to keep a relationship going, or you will find yourself in short meaningless relationships, and you will be in the same situation you are in now. However, at the rate you are going, and if sex becomes a habit, you risk, pregnancies, diseases, and whatever else comes along. Do not string, your supposed friend alone. Hey, I consider alcohol the true truth serum, cause it lets you do what you want to do. Alcohol did not force u to kiss ur friend, deep down you have some kind of feelings for him. remember allthough you were under the influence, I am pretty sure you could have kissed any number of men around where you were. Stop lying to yourself, and do not use alcohol for an excuse. as I am sure it did not knock on your door, hold you down, the ram itself down your throat. You need to take time to find yourself. And get some female friends, it is hard to be friends with someone of the opposite sex, especially with alcohol involved, and to add on top of that relationship problems.
  5. I just broke up with my gf of about 2 months. She has had bad relationships, and has this idea that she wants to be so independent, and she has a problem of showing affection. The fact of the matter is women do not think like men. It is hard for them to see something good, as they are used to the bad guy image. They assume you are the same. Even if you have never done anything the other guy did that hurt them. She is not ready for anything serious. I always see people leave good relationships, over small disagreements, and they are suppose to be in love, yet they will stay at a job, that causes them all kinds of problems. They will not look for a different job, etc....yet, they seem to believe they can find a better relationship. You should be up front with her and tell her your feelings, and that you cannot deal with her actions. If this keeps going on for a period of time, you just may miss the perfect person for you. It hurt for me to end my relationship, and she is pregnant. but you cannot control her. If you love somebody set them free.
  6. From experience, girls do not like genuine guys, even if they say so. If that was the truth, all the good honest guys would have women all over them. But you said it yourself they like the jerks, or guys that are not really interested in them. Also, are you very selective in who you talk to, you know like the attractive women. Hint: talk to a bunch of women, but do not show too much interest in them. and do not be super nice, take it down a few notches. date just anyone girl, she does not have to be attractive. after that you will start to see women wanting you more. it happened to me about 3 months ago, and the women i ignored most wanted me more than my current gf, with whom I am about to break up with. i was too nice to her. also, if you are goodlooking sometimes some women think you have a gf, and are scared off. i dont think i am all that, but have been told by a few women that i am handsome or goodlooking. good luck.
  7. IN todays world, in the US, we now have a term called "starter Marriages". People test it out, like as if they were buying their first house. If you cannot be totally committed without marriage, marriage will not work a maricle. All it will do is make you pocketbook smaller, when it is time to divorce. If you are just together, you can get out quicker, provided you do not have property in both your names. as for popping the question, I think when a man realizes somewhere deep in his mind, that he does not want to be alone, well not alone, but not having someone there that is truly committed, then he will pop the question. ask yourself these questions? do you love her? can you see yourself with her in 20 years? do you ever think about other women or think about straying? does she really love you? what would it be like to live with her? In my experience, people get lax when they get married. It is a more permanent thing. sometimes marriage is not for some couples.
  8. Dont give her much attention, hang with other girls....and soon she will want what she cant have. it sounds crazy, but that is reality.
  9. God left me long ago. He has not answered any of my prayers since maybe jr high school. As for hope, just being real, nothing goes my way. I have been through this before, and it is not right. but who cares anyway, just tired of being positive and nice.....
  10. Well, I am here just wondering why my life sucks gluteus maximus. It it a pathetic life. My now gf, probably until tomorrow is thinking about having an abortion, well as a guy I really have no say. I thought we had something, but as usual my life is always f upped. She just wants to be alone with her daughter. Well, she can have it all now. I tried to be there for both of them, all she wants to be alone, can not understand that I care for her. Why cant I just improve my life. I can not wait to die, not kill myself, but just die. I have had nothing but pain and suffering in the last 5 years. why did she have to get pregnant, and not my ex when we were all happy. its all just a joke to God. I Hate life. I hate it so much that God is punishing me by letting me live, death just passes me by.
  11. abstain from sex, and do things to improve yourself. women are lots of trouble. they like bad guys, if you are nice you will never get her. plain and simple.
  12. Well, it sounds like you are not too serious about the future mother of your child. Correct me if I am wrong.... but since your wife has met someone else, you should let her go, she is in a new phase of a relationship, and in experience new relationships are much more pleasurable than trying to fix a bad relationship, even though it started out good. Hey you made it past seven years, I only made 5. Well, I have been divorced for 2 years, and guess what new gf and child on the way. I still think about the ex. Its hard, but u need to concentrate on your new situation. Are you ready to be a father, do you even want her to have the child. you have alot to think about. I f you want to talk you can pm me.
  13. If she is spending time with another guy, then that is no respect shown for you. and believe this when you guys have a serious fight or whaterver, who is going to be the shoulder to cry on the pool playing guy. get some girlfriends, as the guys say have a back up plan.
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  15. Unfortunately that is the world, the bad people get the most. I have been there. try being a little rude, or an ahole sometime. you will end up with more.
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