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  1. greenowl88
    I'm glad someone thinks they're gross!
  2. greenowl88
    To answer your question justlookin, at the moment, the situation is not making us closer, but I think after it's done with, and I find out nothing happened, then we will be closer. We have always been able to talk very easily about issues and feelings. We have a great relationship. That's why we're getting married!! Yay!!
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    Cute Patrick pic Hope75! Anyway, I guess there probably isn't as much appeal as I originally thought. This won't be his first encounter with a stripper, so he knows what it's all about, which does make me feel better. All I can say is she better keep her hands off!!
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    Yes, I have talked to him about it, and I plan to talk more in depth with him about it when it is closer to the event. I might talk to his friend. The thing I worry about is that his friend that is putting the party together is younger, and he is very sexual and has done some really crazy things when it comes to sex, and whenever him and my fiance get together, they tend to talk about that kind of stuff, among other things as well, but knowing the type of person his friend is makes me nervous. I do feel better though. Thank you Beec for the things you said. It helped a lot!! Thank you everyone!! Any other comments are very welcome.
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    Yeah, I am having a get-together, but not the same weekend. I will probably call up a friend the night he will be at his party so I can keep my mind off of it.
  6. greenowl88
    Thanks guys!! Now I know why I came back to this site!!
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    Thanks Melrich! That makes me feel better. I do have a feeling that is what will happen with my fiance. I mean, I HOPE at least!
  8. greenowl88
    Hmmm, that makes me a little nervous. Would it be a good idea to talk to his friend that will be hiring the stripper, and tell him how I feel, and that I don't want there to be certain things happening at the party with the stripper? Or is that interfering too much? I don't want to be the fiance from hell!
  9. greenowl88
    Great idea RayKay!!! I will just make sure he's satisfied before he goes off to his party!!
  10. greenowl88
    Thanks RayKay. You have always had great advice! I would feel better if we decided that there would be no touching, kissing, lap dances, and if he promised me there wouldn't be, I would trust him. I know that strippers are not mandatory, and that is partly why it bothers me. Plenty of men don't have the need for strippers at their bachelor parties. I don't know much about strippers, and I have never even been to a strip club, but does anyone know if private party strippers generally get out of control? Are they told how far they are allowed to go before the party?
  11. greenowl88
    Thank you Melrich. I guess it is more for entertainment. I am just hoping that the stripper they get is ugly.
  12. greenowl88
    No WildChild, I did not. I don't feel that I have the right to tell him that he can't have a stripper. I do trust him, I just don't trust myself to be able to put this behind me before the wedding.
  13. greenowl88
    Hey there! It's been a while since I've been on this site. It helped me in the past, and I'm hoping it will help now. I am engaged to a wonderful man. We are getting married in January. One of the many stresses I am having due to the wedding is my fiance's plans of having a bachelor party. His best man is already planning it. I know that they are planning on having a stripper, and he knows that I have mixed feelings about it. Actually, if it were up to me, there would be no stripper. Now, he's told me that he would never do anything to hurt me, and I trust him with all of my heart, but the thought of him being in close contact with another woman, who most likely will be naked at some point, and getting aroused by it REALLY bothers me. I have talked to other women about it, and read articles about it, and every woman feels differently. I've also read that a lot of guys feel that they don't need to have a stripper to have a bachelor party, and others don't want to hurt thier fiances. Why can't my fiance feel that way? I know my feelings are normal, but the whole situation just sucks. I just want some opinions on how I can make it easier on myself, and get through this without it lingering into the wedding day and ruining it for me(BTW I told him to tell his friend to try to plan it for the weekend before the wedding, so it does make me feel a little better knowing it's not taking place the night, or just two nights before). Thanks everyone!!!
  14. greenowl88
    Yeah, I think the fact that she came over to your place says a lot. I wouldn't look into the names of the songs for a sign, but it definitely sounds like she likes you.
  15. greenowl88
    I was with my ex for only about 5 months and it took me about 7 months to get over him. I was really only totally over him until I met my current boyfriend which blew my ex out of the water!!!
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