Dubz

i think that if they r asking about what u have done and what u liked ETC then yeah i think thats fine to tell them and i personally would tell them about the guys i have been with coz im not with them anymore so why should they matter.

i agree with katiemt about the scared thing, girls do get scared when they see there b/f go off at the slightist thing, i really think u need to talk to ur g/f and explain to her that u have these problems, i also think that u should seek professional help with these problems before u do sometihing that u will regret, i hope everything works out for you, take care.

im really upset that u feel this way, i think that u need to seek professional advice because it's obvious that the feelings u have aint just happened over night, they run deep. i really hope evrything works out for you, take care.

well there was obvoiusly something wrong with ur relationship or u wouldnt have cheated, u need to talk to ur husband and find out if there anything hes not happy with and then if there is then u work through, get help if u need it, it sounds like u love ur husband so u need to work at it with him, i hope everythig works out for you, take care.

Well the first thing is make sure u have manners and that u have respect, other than that just be urself, if u worry about it to much then u will panic and start saying silly things, it sound like u really like this girl so just go for it and be urself, i hope everything orks our for you, take care.

its always hard when one of ur parents, have cancer but what u have to remember is that there are alot more things that doctors and that can do these days, when my nan got cancer there was nothing really that the doctors could do, sometimes i wonder if she had have been alive today would they have been able to cure her cancer, as for ur boyfriend, maybe he feels like he dont know what to say, i think u need to explain to him that u need to get ur feelings out in the open and that u dont expect him to say anything, all u wanna do u let ur feelings out, if he still dont really wanna talk about it then find someone else to talk to, even if its someone from on here, u dont have to deal with this on ur own, i really hope ur father gets better soon, and i hope everything works out for you too, take care

the elastic bands round the wrist is a good way to cope with it, whenever u want to cut urself just ping the bands, i really think u should seek professional advice though coz u obviously wnat to stop and all u need is help, i hope everything works out for you.

instead of cuttin, try and channel ur anger and pain through something else like beatin the sh*t out of a pillow, something that wont cause u any cuts, u have stop before so im sure u could stop again, i hope everything works out for you, take care.

whatever u say, it wont make the pain any better for ur parents, even ur friends wil find it hard to deal with, i know u said that u dont want people to try and talk u out of it, u just want advice, well my advice is that suicide isnt the answer, we have all done bad things in our lives but we work through them, ur only 18, u have ur whole life ahead of u, u said urself u had a decent job, i really hope evrythings works out for you, take care.

if u think that ur not going to get anything better in life then u wont get anything better, u have to work at things, u may feel a bit lost at the moment but believe me this will past and u will find things that u enjoy doing and talents that u didnt know u had, i hope everything works out for you, take care.

let me just tell u that suicide is really not the answer, i really think u need to talk to someone about whatever is getting u down coz its obviously serious, even if u find someone on here that u can talk to, i really hope everything works out for you, take care.

well the only i can think of to do is talk to her, let her know how she makes u feel, sometimes people act a certain way to try and impress other people, ur not a follower, u just dont want to lose ur friend, i really hope it all works out for you, take care.

just because she wants to take things slowly dont mean that she aint gunna want u to kiss her, it has been 6 months after all, i agree that she's probably waiting for u to make the first move, take care.

i really think that u need to talk to her about it, let her know that u need to know whats going on so that u know excacly how she feels about it all, it might just be that she really is a busy person but if u dont talk to her then u gunna get urself all wound up and thats not good, i hope it all works out for you, take care

i agree with aliz too, just talk to him, he probably wants to talk to you but just finds it really hard or dont know how to exlplain, if theres something blunt that u need to tell him then, tell him not to get upset about it first, i hope ur friend is ok, take care.