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Angel Irulan

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  1. I have an idea! Make it a really casual meeting and have about five or so of your girlfriends with you. Like you invited him along on a girls nite out.
  2. So you are saying here that I probably deserved the bashing I got?
  3. No, don't do it. If she wanted to know where you were, she would have called you. I think it's easier to just let go and move on. If it hurts don't look back.
  4. Gee, it seems he's thinking more about her feelings than yours. Don't worry though, I think this fella will get a reality check when he goes home. And I would not stay his fiance if he did not tell her immediately about me. He does not sound like he's over her! He may not be ready to be your fiance. If it were me I would be really angry at being put in the situation of waiting to see what happens with this ex of his. Are you sure he's *the one* for you?
  5. I would keep No Contact going with this fella actually. You are admitting to yourself that you still really care about him. But don't you see, when you broke up with him over cheating and then he wanted you back, and you said NO, and then when you relented he said he did not want YOU, he was sending a strong message. I don't know why you want to be pals with this guy. He wants out of a relationship with you. I'm sorry but there it is. I would not let this jerk torture me any longer. Don't be his toy. He may be bragging that his Ex wants him so bad she's trying to take him out. My two cents.
  6. when he gets the chance! We had a bad breakup, he cheated on me, and I caught him with someone. Of course, when I found out about her, she found out about me. At this point, I wish I'd never met this fella. He's not particularly respectful of our past history, and any of it's privacy. While we both said some pretty hurtful things, I think he just went completely overboard. My problem is not that I think I can speak to him and he will shut up, I know he won't. We've both moved to different areas of our state, and you would think I would not hear about much, but I did, and it makes me really uncomfortable knowing that he's ouit there spewing filth. Any suggestions on how to deal with this man's bad mouth should it ever come up in the future from someone else?
  7. Why did you fling a set of illegal relationships out as an example? This is just another type of disrespect. You are propagating the immorality aspect that age gap dating sometimes implies in the public mind! And your tone is disrespectful to me as well. Naturally, as a person who has had an age gap relationship myself, I don't consider any age gap relationships to be VALID or legal, unless it's an older adult/younger adult relationship. As a moderator, you should have the power to delete posts where the posters are in a child/adult relationship, and YOU SHOULD do just that! Ali
  8. Meet her daughter and do it in an informal way. You don't have to say you are dating, just that you are mom's pal. As for your families, I'd say that it's never easy to know what their reaction will be, but as an adult, you have a right to have them respect you enough to accept your choice for a girlfriend. If they can't or won't do that, it's time to wake them up to the fact that you are an adult. This is your life and it's your choice. Ali
  9. I don't think that is true when you are dealing with a population of people who are in a minority and who are asking you for support. I don't believe allowing any and all posts on this type of support site is helpful. What happened to the psychologists who used to run this site?
  10. It's an insult and disrespectful when someone comes on the board and says so and so should not be dating because of their age gap. There are several post like this on the Age Gap board and I wish you would go pull them off. It's really trolling that they are doing. They are doing nothing to help the persons who are asking for help. And another thing, when someone comes on an age gap suppor forum to ask for help in telling someone they don't think an age gap is appropriate, do you feel that thread should be allowed to stay? That is also bashing of a type. Age Gap couples must be treated with R-E-S-P-E-C-T and that type of post is NOT RESPECTFUL of the potential audience. Ali
  11. I agree, but I especially worry that ANY kind of negativity in response to an age gap is NOT appropriate for this forum! I referred one person to link removed, a forum that is wonderful for support. But it pains me when I hear people say that a 48 year old and a 22 year old just should not be together! There are so many of us that are! People tend to bash what they don't understand and I guess all these people who are casting stones are the wittiest, most intelligent people that god ever put on earth. Ali
  12. I think that forum should be more heavily moderated than most. There are thousands of us out there in age gap relationships, and when we come to this forum for understanding we get the media-driven mentality that age gap relationships are somehow just wrong. People don't understand what they haven't experienced, and I think some people just like to troll. But it's my understanding that elsewhere on the forums that type of attitude is not tolerated.l Could it be that the moderators are themselves prejudiced against younger adult/older adult romances? Please tell me why this should be allowed!!!!!
  13. Why is everyone so hateful on this board about Age Gap Relationships? I think your mods should start pulling some threads or rename this forum: "Age Gap Relationships--Bash Them Here." I have not seen one positive or affirming post. WHERE ARE THE MODS??? They have a responsiblity not to allow this attitude to prevail because it flys in the face of anyone who comes here seeking help with an issue.
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