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  1. You are SOOOO better off without him. You said it yourself, he's a jerk. Find someone who isn't.
  2. If you feel like you are "settling" for this person, you are with the wrong person. What is missing from your life with her that makes you want to have sex with other women? Please don't cheat. Leave her before you actually act on your impulses.
  3. If he doesn't make a commitment to you, he has no right to be jealous nad needs to learn to keep his mouth shut. I think it's time for "the talk."
  4. Seems like she is just playing the field a bit. I don't think she wants exclusivity, but she wants to be honest that she is dating around.
  5. Flirt with him and see where it leads. You never know until you try. If he reciprocates, then maybe you can ask him out. I'd wait until I got soem positive signals first, though.
  6. You really need some self-control. Stop calling him; let him call you! If he wants to be with you, he will ask you out. Stop worrying about him. I know it's hard, but you CAN get over this.
  7. If you have to second guess going, you shouldn't go. I doubt you would like your bf going to a sporting event with another girl. Let him know that you really want to go out more often and wish he would take you to some of these things instead of his son.
  8. I would not ignore her, but a friendly hello should be appreciated. Maybe you can make small talk and see where that leads. Make it clear that you would love to be friends -just friends- with her.
  9. I think she likes the attention, not necessarily you. You are there for affection, attention, caring... sure makes a girl feel good. You are a safe choice. She can't get this kind of attention/affection from a new guy. I hope that she will stop playing her games. You need to call her on it and tell her you won't put up with it any longer.
  10. It's obvious his actions are hurting you. If he won't change, you're better off without him.
  11. If she's shy, she may just have a hard time looking people in the eye. Why don't you just talk to her?
  12. Two of my closest friends are drama queens. I'm pretty emotional myself, but not as much as they are. Everything is a major drama... misplacing their keys, a restaurant closed earlier than they thought, gas prices raised a penny, whatever. You can't change a drama queen.
  13. I've never had a cartoon crush, but I'd think it was pretty odd if someone had real feelings for a cartoon. More than just, "Oh, he's so cute," but going way beyond that.
  14. I think it's the lack of consideration that hurts most, like not calling when yo usay you will, cancelling plans at the last minute, answering your cell phone (unless it's very important) on a date, etc. A girl wants to feel special and cared for. And when I cry, I need to be held. If you ignore it, I will be even more hurt and feel so alone.
  15. Tell your wife that you want this situation to change. It's obvious this other woman is more than a friend. Friends just don't do this. I hug my friends and once I had to share a bed with one, but what she's doing is not very normal. Stop being a doormat and tell her you won't put up with it anymore.
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