happy24

Thanks for your replies. I called her (stupid?) on new yrs eve and i think the door is still open. I have decided to give her space and initiate NC (She is not aware). I hope i can keep to this. I care about her alot, but will try to move on. Happy new yr to all on this forum, I hope all of you find or are happy in your relationships.

Hi, I have been lucky to still see my ex gf for the last 5 months. She says she is comfortable with me. I have been trying to be her friend. Recently I feel like she doesn't have time for me anymore or doesn't care. I know she has been very busy. I have been feeling awkward and asked her if having me in her life causes her stress (Her mum has been pressuring her to get back with me). I told her that I do care about her but I dont want to be selfish and I dont want to bug her. She says she doesn't know what to say and that she is not ready to be in a relationship, that she doesn't feel confident, that she still needs time to herself. Maybe I am expecting too much. I feel sad. I dont know if i should hang in there or leave her alone. It was 2 days ago that we had this talk. Thanks (tried to keep this short)