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  1. Mine was really devastating.. keep vining vining and vining near everyone that she cheated on me and blah blah blah,.. I pushed her really bad way..now in the phase of seperation.
  2. Thanks OceanEyes,, I am about 60% over my fiancee and still cannot handle the situation that she is keep saying to all family that she wants to marry me and its my luck If I get marry with you ..So my situation is really complicated now.. stuck b/w mine and he family.. But i need something to erase her memories and built self confidence .. Yeah you are right I should take things slow now.. otherwise again endup hurting myself or some1.. Thanks..
  3. I am talking to a girl online and she has told me that she just broke up with his b/f.. and really heart broken.. So I m little bit confuse that how to take her and keep going with her and make her comfortable and relax with me.. Any advice will be appriciated... I will meet her after 2 days..
  4. Dude, I had a same situation and I know she was with some1,, and when i found out that she is intressted in some1 and trying to dump me ,, so i changed my attitude toards her and make her more comforatble with her space to enjoy with him bcoz I already decided that she is not the one for me no doubt i loved her alot but miss commitment is not tolerated.. So now you have to think from your brain..be her victim but in the sense that you have to be let yourself down that way i did myself near my ex fiance.. and keep loving her and make her feel secure and comfortable with me and never repeated the past and 1 night I finally got sucesss to let her down and finally she was towards me more physical then the other guy.. and then I told her that my game and told her that the way you played with me and now i played with you.. and leave her crying.. So its up to you.. Revenge or Forget. Once a girl mis commit then you cannot do anything to het her back .. there is only way to get her back is if she keep stay single after breakup or dumping.. You have your own choice.. Good luck..
  5. Dude, I was 204 lbs when I was with my fiance and she cheated on me so in 4 months my weight is 162 lbs.. I think that the best way to reduce the body fat. Tension, Depression, Frustration and infidelity.
  6. Dear, The only option is Communication you have right now..the more you communicate the better you have idea about the situation otherwise one day you will leave with alot of question.. Here what I think you should do.. 1/ Calm down yourself and try to change your mood ,, anger management is very important. 2/ Make a plan for weekend with her out of city somewhere where you both are relax and can have fun. 3/ Ask her that is there anything you feel I fail to provide in this relationship. 4/ Make her comfortable with you to talk and discuss the issues. 5/ Try to solve all the issues with remain unsolved. You pushed her away now you have to take her back by your positive actions. Be happy near her. Try to convence her for counseling. Only you can save your marriage so try to handle the situation and keep us update. Good luck..
  7. Dear, I can understand the situation you have is really hard and painfull for you.. I would suggest you to think from the brain not from your heart.. bcoz in thses situation heart always messed up.. you have to put her in the same situation that you are in so you can see that how much see miss you.. If there is no body behind then you are in a good position. Dont pressure her to come back.. You need to give spark in your relation.. Do things which you didnt do when you was with her,, like plan for vacation, hiking, gym, make yourself intressting...something to make her intrest in you again. If you thinking for NC for getting her back then It will be really hard for you because NC is the way to forget your ex and get over your feelings and emotions about some1.. So think from your mind .. Good luck..
  8. After 3 months of breakup yesterday on work, Our new secretary around 2 months in our department came to me and ask for go out for lunch I was depressed with my past but after her offer I make myself comfortable and agreed to go out with her.. she was telling me abt herself at whole lunch time that I have 1 kid and my husband is really lazy and doeant like to work and alos dont care abt me alot.. and blah blah blah.. and I was just keep listening to her.. and then we both talked more and when we get back on work at the main entrance she said these word to me.. " Would you like to take care of my feelings and needs ? ",, and I was really shocked and just smile and she said I will see you on Monday..and her eyes was soo sprinkling.. I dont know exactly how to take it ? what she wants actually ?? how should I take these words in which sense.. ? Please any advice will be appriciated...
  9. Dear, WELLCOME TO ENOTALONE... So, This is simple a phase I was also one time become like that .. I bet you fell like doing nothing and really ignorant ,, but its really problematic phase.. Its all because we lose intrest in ourself and lose self respect.. I would suggest you to get active more and the best way to cope with it is join gym and stick on diet. You will overcome on this situation .. take care Good Luck..
  10. Dear, Communication is the key of healthy and long lasting relatioship.. But if you both dont talk and dont resolve the issues then it will become more .. I would say wait for his call and when he called you tell him that I dont wanna repeats things which makes us fight but I would like to resolve issues with you for better and strong relationship.. Dont worry things will work out.. take care and smile..
  11. DEAR, You know her better than us over here..but these mind games are very very confusing and painful..so better be carefull before get in anything with her.. she might wanna keep you as a time pass or as a friend for benefit..getting back like she just wanna hangout doesnt make sense.. unless she sorry abt why she broke up with you and leave you with pain.. I would say if she called you again just say hello hay and say I am busy so later.. let her think that you are not soo important and doesnt deserve to hangout.. take care,,,
  12. Dear Ahmer,, I would suggest taht you have to bring sparks in your relationship on that point girl really thinking alot and relationship has a REG FLAG.. so u better take care of your relationship as much as you can... you have to respect her feeling if she wants something more out from that relationship do it.. take her on vacation somewhere and lond drives make your self attractive and need to come up with changes,,, SEX is really important but also emotional supports are the walls in your relationship.. tell her to keep everything open in relations.. try to communicate as much you can with her and make her comfortable to express her feelings to you.. dont just let her go.. show yourself that you r happy with her and she is really special in your life.. By the way where you from.. ? Good Luck,,
  13. Dear, Its happens to alot of peoples.. Its not her issue that she is leaving you,, its yours that you have to sort things out and the more you communicate with her in a clam down and smily way she will feel more comfortable dealing with issues.. you have to bring spark in your relationship.. you guys really need time for each other .. try to make some vacation plans together and fun having trips .. and keep up that way.. tell her that you love her alot and make her feel special. Convence her to go on counsiling with you.. Dont worry things will work out.. Keep smiling and manage your anger.
  14. Dude , You are in the same situation like me.. its been 3 montsh me and my fiancee separated .. but sorry to say if the relationship ends up due to abusive or cheating behavior will never glow again..I also want my fiancee back like crazy but she never wants me back she was soo loving and respectable for me.. I missed her alot and the memories with her when she really wanted to be with me and i was just soo ignorant and abusive and meesed up my self with tensions and stress.. Now she moved on with some and she had a fear to tell me that I m in to some1 else..and our breakup was really bad. I dont know I just keep working on with my life and going back to school to keep myself busy as hell.. But i get a big experience out of it that we cannot take love as granted. take care .. Good Luck,
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