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I agree with DN. But i would like to add on, if a gal does not have feelings for her ex, normally she wont feel there is a point in keeping those pictures.

Thats due to pride. Everybody has that. No one loves their loved one to yell at you. I dun like that either. But i rather him to yell at me, than i yell at him. At least i preserve my dignity, if i am with someone else, i wont act that disgracing to myself. At least not with my someone's presense. In fact you should laugh at him, because he is stupid to do that in front of someone important, there gone his good impression. P.S: I rather ring him someday, scream into him in my bedroom and slam down the phone at him, leaving him perplexed.

I agree with you, EmptySoul. If sex is just purely sex, oh boy, you will see girls lying on the bed, with their eyes rolling facing the ceilings. haha claiming they are not 'feeling' enough. I am a funny person, i am those if i dun have feelings with you and have sex with you, i will end up falling for you, if i have sex for too much or too long with you. And if i love someone a lot, i keep feeling too much sex is not that good, seems like sex is no longer a slave of mine to keep him, but his instead. Enjoy my joke.

Hi frigginexes, Yes, some girls do explore around, despire their age. But are you sure she really have a bf or fling?? Would she be lying to you? And yes, if she is saving you up, she would always come back and pick you up later. Either she is confident she can pick you up, thats why she does it, or she is really busy with her fling to even be bothered with you, and that would means she would be coming back when she is free. You will know in time to come. Yes. In fact you shouldnt be in contact with her. First you can test if she is really in love with you and sense your absense. Second, you can get to know the above 2 questions' answers soon, no dragging further. Third, you do need to move on, spend time with yourself, and you neeed not wait for her to come back. If she is back, she will be. Yes. If she is not back for you, she will let you know who she is mixing with next. Seriously, we are all human beings, i dun believe she is that insensitive until she cant feel your absense. And i think she is waiting for your move to get closer with her, but not advisable here, unless you dun mind inviting hurt.

It is better you just have a moment with him. He having kid, means you have to act like a mother sometimes, putting his kid before oneself. This is gonna to be real hard. You dun even know whether the child would accept you, or worse even misunderstood that you snatch his/her father from his/her mother. Yes. Such relationships do work out. It takes great patience and determination to work this out. For such cases, no risk no gain. If you can get the child to like you, you are on a high score. If you can get the guy to love you more than you do, you are on a high score too. There are lotsa of chances, but you need to be sharp enough to grab it and push some luck now and then, and change your focus to the next, kinda a baton race. For me, i wont date a guy like that. I am more like a kid than an adult sometimes, so no way.

Observe, observe and observe!! Thats what you need to do. He will constantly mention his gf, and how he treats her or stuff like that, and yet on the mere surface, 'oh she is my friend' thingie. And he will wear particularly special on certain days of the week for dates! And smell the perfume he had sprayed, before he goes for dates, men and women are different, they love to add more squirts, than women who choose their best fragrance. And next, he will constantly watching his hp, or some kind anticipating something is going to happen. He will watches his time and you will feel uneasy with him. You cant go wrong with the uneasiness feeling. Last, if he is interested in you, he will want to spend time with you. You cant go further wrong than this.

Yes. Some guys like to impress women. I met some like that too. But I had met those who dun even want to say a single thing about themselves. Either they are not comfortable being with you, or they just feel you are an acquaintance and they do not like to withdraw the distance you have with him. If he is starting to get personal with you, it is most likely he is interested in you. For me, i dun bother about it at all, if i have a firm mindset, i only want to be a friend with him only (that means as an acquaintance) If i am interested, i will pick my ears to listen to his details and see if he is a good catch for me instead. Usually by far, guys like these are charming, but they dun have the sustenance to last long at least with me

I remembered an incident that i rang most of the people on my hp, when i was drop dead drunk. haha! That doesnt mean you are thought of fondly, but you just happen to be on my mind. So, i really dun know, if a guy do call. If i were to put onto such a hypothesis question, my answer would be, if he is really drunk, i dun think he should be talking coherently to me.

Maybe it could be, he got a cute smile. Haha. You nebber know. Why dun you let this go?

It is okay to love old things and not to try out new things at times. Those folks you are mixing with just love routine stuff. If you are asking them to change their styles, they would be unhappy, and of coz they dun want you to be near them. For cases like these, find people of common interests, i dun believe all the folks you know love skating and only skating and thats it. Try to know more friends through them and know the new people better, you will know where you need to head for next.

I think you should give him up for good. LDR is just not suitable for you. You are asking for something that can gives you attention and affection at times. And since you cant see him in a LDR, even he says that he loves you, you may just dun feel it at all. If you want a hug or a kiss, he can only give you an audio one or a cyber one.

Sometimes guys do that, is because they find that you are not the suitable one for them, so they leave. Sometimes they do that, is because they are busy with something, probably work or changed their target on another woman. All these are possible. I would suggest you to get busy with your life, he will come back and look for you, if he is still interested in you. Anyway, there is no point putting more effort to reap more hurt.

I agree with jessijess. You can always pop in at the right moment to get the number. For me, i am those direct girl, who just approach and ask, hey what are you doing after work today? or things like that, and ask can i keep in contact with you, after work, and laff it off -- i hope i am not disturbing you. And usually, guys do give.

Oh i love this poem, kinda reminds me of some old memories.. Ah.. life.. Before you can move on, maybe, forever.. he is gone, In time, you may dwell no more, in his absense, you will not forlorn. I keep you in prayer

You can always flirt with him, it doesnt matter if you are a distance away. As long as he catches you, he will return you an interested or disinterested look