Irishmanco
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If he cares enough for you he will stop. If it's what you want and won't live with he may stop if he cares enough for you. Smart people make good dealers especially if they speak well. If he continues what are you willing to do? Do you care because you think it's wrong or because he can get bagged? Sooner or later dealers get caught. No matter how smart of well spoken. If it continues and you stay together don't forget that what happens to him will affect you and your family.
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This situation seems unfair to you. You put much concern and thought into a person but none in return. Since it's extremely hard to not think of a person try involving yourself in other activities. Find another bike club....just a suggestion. She is pulling you back and forth. She may want to be friends but you feel more than that. Don't let her pull you back and forth. Life is too short to be used and remember you're too important to be left in the air. Good luck
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I like this girl at my job. We work on the same floor but do different jobs. What do you all think of relationships w/ people at work? How has it panned out for those who have? I see a consequence being the office talk or jealousy. Let me know please
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I think you are definitely old enough to make your own decisions. Your dad is trying to protect you but he must realize that you are your own person and won't take his childishness. Maybe try looking for another job. Give your family time to adjust and try to stay patient. Parents always seem to think they know whats best for their children. They may be close but it's important for everyone to make their own decisions. Be happy and congratulations about your reconciliation. I hope everything works fruitfully.
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Hey all, I'm sitting here while the ex of 2 years plus is out with another guy. We have mutual friends and I would like to see them but if I see her with another guy I will not know what I would do. Most likely get violent or unpredictable. So I am here. I don't want to feel this pain anymore and it hurts more when she's with another guy. They'll prolly have sex too and we've only been broken up less than a month. I have no control over what she does and getting upset and thinking about her and what she does is worthless but it's impossible not to. Someone please help, let me know what you think. It just seems much harder for me to find a girl to be with now or just hang out w/ a girl. I don't want to feel bad and I should have a good time too but I'm trying. Sorry for being so long winded. Anything.
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I am the one leaving and still I cry and cry
Irishmanco replied to Sapphirelady's topic in Divorce Advice
You're being very strong. It is hard to deal without the things you need and deserve. He seems to dedicate too much time to work rather than his family. He should maybe take a step back and put his time into you and your daughter. Thing is that sometimes men or women feel they need to provide money and security. This is true but it often overshadow's the other parts of life. I hope there is hope for you all. I hope he will realize how much he's been screwing up. However it may be too late for you. He is hurting now and the damage he's let grow is surely hittin him all at once. Sometimes it's hard for people to see mistakes and how they affect lives. You did the right thing. Things must change forever and not just temporarily. Keep you head up and things will be fine. -
Why is just girls need guys so much during break ups?
Irishmanco replied to nirvana_angel22's topic in Breaking Up Advice
Yeah, it does depend on the person. My experience my ex broke up with me and is already seeing other people, planning trip to Europe. She only broke up w/ me 2 weeks ago, we were together for two years. She's the one finding it so easy to not care. It's much easier for a girl to get a guy. Sexually especially, if a girl is horny or whatever and somewhat good looking she can have sex with a guy without a problem. It's not even a challenge. So when a girl sleeps around a lot and thinks better of herself because she thinks guys find her attractive it's not wholly true. Just a little upset and sad I guess. Heart is destroyed. -
I was with my girlfriend for two years. She broke up wtih me a week and a half ago. She's been goin out and she told me she slept over this guy's house. She pretended it wasn't in the same bed but I know she's a liar. They've been goin to the movies together and things like that. This hurts me deeply and makes me intensely angry. She said she doesn't want to have a relationship for about a year. Like she's confused about being with me and about what she wants. The fact she's already "with" this other guy and I think having sex with leads me to believe she had this all planned out. Who meets someone in a week and sleeps at their house and does this? She must have had this guy set up before we broke. I need advice and info. How should I feel? Does anyone think this is messed up or wrong? Why tell me she doesn't want to be with anyone and then do this? Please help....
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Question for everyone. If you know someone who is in a relationship, regardless of how good or bad their relationship is, and they cheat on their partner with you are you as bad as them? For example, should you be considered a cheater too? Is it a bad thing for you to do? Important to remember that you are not involved in a relationship yourself but this person cheats on their partner with you. Thank you all for the input.
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I agree more with codaaurora. I believe you should take into account your current g-friends feelings. Do you love your current or do you see anything happening in the future. It's important to take into account if your ex wants another shot or wants you at all. Things do certainly change and people can work their problems out. I feel it's important to follow your heart. Sometimes it's better to take a leap of faith. If you fail you might have lost both but the leap depends on how important it is for you. Good luck
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I don't know if it will happen but we were together for over 2 years. She broke up with me cause she wants to be alone for about a year. I Love her and don't want to lose her but this is what she has to do. Wants to experience life and not be with anyone. Now we are "friends" and I'm wondering how people feel about having sex with the ex. Hopefully one day we'll get back together but maybe not. We're still attracted to each other. Thanks for the replies.
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Another Anal Question, but a little different
Irishmanco replied to Switch187's topic in Sex and Romance
Listen, If you aren't able to take all the things she might have done before her you shouldn't ask her anymore. The past does affect who we are. This may linger over your head years down the road and if you find out you may be in a bad position. If this post is still open you may want her to tell you everything. You would learn about her and may find things she likes. There may be more things she has tried before but is afraid you'd wouldn't want to try or hear. Be honest with each other. We should always be willing to learn more about our parnters and lovers. -
For any who can help and give information. How can I make my girl orgasm? She says she's never made herself orgasm. She's tried but can't. I want so bad for her to orgasm but when she's just about to she loses it. I have made her orgasm but I would love her to orgasm each and every time. This may not be possible but at least most of the time would be great. She can orgasm sometimes when I stay in her and she grinds against me she builds up. Basically she says she needs clitoral pressure to orgasm. The problem arises sometimes that I can't stay hard without stimulation. She had boyfriend that made her orgasm by giving cunnilingus. Multiple orgasms would be great too but I should start first. Thank you all for the help. Please respond.
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It may be time for you to distance yourself from your mom for a while. Time apart may help her realize her true feelings and emotions for you. Don't let her get the best of you. You have a chance to make a difference in this world. Your experiences with your family will help you through life. If you think down the road you may see a family of your own. Think of your potential and realize how special you are. Realize that there is much more in you than your mother sees. Look in the mirror and tell yourself all your good qualities. Talk to your father. Picture a future for him without you....It will be devastating. You are not alone.....Confide in someone.....You have the chance to change the world. We need you living and healthy...
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Please look....If you're still there get up right now and get help. Save yourself from yourself. You need to remember that as long as one person is there life is worth living. You have so much more ahead of you. Hurt and pain are part of life...but so is happiness and joy and beauty. Your dad loves you and you have to be there for him. Don't do this.....you said you can't make your mom happy....sometimes it's impossible to make everyone happy . Put on some music....picture time down the road.....we all don't have the same sad feelings....We grow....don' cut it short....