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Atwood uses a common hook and eye, like one which you would find on a dress, to illustrate compatibility, but then we see that this is not the hook and eye we first imagined, it is painful. The lines "a fish hook/ An open eye", show how this would be a helpless relationship where the partners injured one another. The first line opens in perhaps a positive way. We expect a typical love poem, but instead we meet with tragedy. I would imagine that he doesn't realise or get the symbolism of the 3/4 lines... It doesn't sound like hes being an ass. xxVC

move on and find someone better. Shes using you as her plaything, cos it fun to string someone along, you could do better, trust me... good luck love, the same type of girl

I agree tall dark and handsome is preferable.. and YES the shoulders... mmm... sorry. But really it boils down to (In my case) what I call the "grr factor" its a kind of passionate animal instinct that we all have. Many people try to mask it and become boring asexual plebs. Perhaps it just a meeting of mind, where you both feel that rush of arenalin and lust.. god im getting carried away. As far as personality people need to have a sense of humour and be able to take the piss out of themselves, they need to be kind, compassionate and emphatic without sacrificing their independance and thinking. Men need to be passionate, whether it be in the bedroom or about their work or both...We just want it all really I guess, lol x VC

They always say the first step is admitting, and it is... but the trouble is finding out what to do afterwards. Compulsive overeating is an eating disorder... and that it what you probably have.... exersizing may help aesthetically but the problem is mental rather than physical as you may assume. You should try and do some research and talk to your doctor about getting a referal to a group or clinic. Overeating is a pretty common problem but doesn't often get solved as some people make the assumption that if you were thinner you would be fine.... sure it helps but the problem is still there Keep well xVC

I hope to god that ur not talking about some dodgy cologne like Brut or somesuch... if you are just chuck it in the bin. Invest in something which suits you. You should apply scent to your pressur points. These are all over you body but the most notable ones are wrists, behind ears/ back of neck, behind knees and the indents on you pelvis.... if you put scent lower down it rises as time goes on so u'll smell nice all evening. NEVER rub your wrists together or onto your neck as this will change the composition and smell of the perfume and the result will be minging.... sorry im pretty anal but its true xxVC

My best tactic for weight loss fast is eating basically what you eat at the moment, just missing out anything processed like microwave meals and crap chocolate (organic is better, as it has less chemicals and preservatives in) going to the gym 3 times a week or walking everywhere or both marching on the spot.. whenever possible, like when you boil the kettle. Get a pedometer, and try to do close to 10,000 steps a day (you can get a free one at walkers.co.uk, if ur in the UK) Drink a mug of hot water and lemon first thing in the morning, this kickstarts your metabolism xxVC

Look you obviously know whats wrong.... I have no idea why you're even asking... isn't it obvious that something like "your parents beating u up, not sleeping and being on anti-depressants" could affect your mental capacity??!!! I mean pur-lease. Talk to your doctor. If you know whats wrong, try and change it...

Its best to wax your bikini area and your legs. Underarms are pretty sensitive and waxing them kills and is pretty pointless, just shave. I shave my legs as I just can't afford or be bothered to wax. As far as down there is concerned don't get rid of all of it unless you are completely comfortable with it... If you are going to shave down there then be careful and only shave in the direction of the hair.. you are likely to get ingrown hairs (beacuse the hair grows curly) but these should get better every time you do it. If you go to the salon here are some tips : Hollywood= all the hair off, its pretty intimate and embarrasing. Brazillian= nothing but a small "landing strip" around your lips Bikini = put a pair of bikini briefs on, the hair u can see is the hair they take off. If you have hair on your back PLEASE PLEASE DON'T SHAVE IT, get it waxed ( you could even get a home waxing kit if you don't want to go to the salon) If you shave it u'll regret it.

I also take pills and stuff in stupid quantities even when im not feeling depressed or having an episode just to see what happens, for the thrill.... its bizarre, Ive never understood it... same with cutting which i don't do until after an "episode".... just a thought Hope you got professional help..... its not a miricle cure but it eases the pain, just keep up with it, it doesn't get better overnight xxVc

they're both pretty bad unless done in moderation. I do weed occasionly and drink far more frequently. I hate hate hate the way that people say stuff like grass "is natural and from the earth so it can't be bad like cigs or alcohol" etc etc.... and alcohol isn't?!... tobacco is also a plant... how stupid are people. Sorry just a pet hate.. I grew up as a stoner but ive moved on... I can guarantee that if i go down the park where i used to go the same people will still be sat there smoking... pathetic. I don't mind a bit of it but to base your life around it and it "culture" and to feel that you have to change into a "stoner" or whatever in order to partake in that lifestyle I find unforgivable... god im ranting ah well xx