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  1. Hurting in Manitoba
    Maybe you could burn them? By setting the pics on fire, in a way can be very therapeutic. This way nobody gets the pics and you will truly feel closure once you see them smoulder into ashes. Oh and No, I'm not a pyro.
  2. Hurting in Manitoba
    I am in the same boat as your wife. I am involved in a common-law relationship with the father of my 2 youngest children. We've been together off and on for atleast 6 years. I do love the guy but I'm not in love anymore. I don't know if I'll ever be able to regain the love. There's no respect, trust, understanding or any of the good makings for a "healthy relationship." He insists on staying with us and I hate him for being stubborn and wanting to stay in this relationship when all I want to do is throw in the towel.
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    I agree with beotch about fighting. Maybe get a second opinion. I admire your strength. I will pray for you.
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    I really think you sound like a cold-hearted *&%*$ but really, there are so many people on here that are separated from someone very near and dear to them and would do anything to get back with them and here you are coming on here like ohhhhh, look at me... my x keeps emailing our pictures, heeeheeheeheeheeeeheeeh. like really, I for one, fail to share your warped sense of humor.
  5. Hurting in Manitoba
    Hey! As for the clean slate, how do you know that isn't a front? It sounds like he has business on the mind . Do what you do best, and keep your head up. Most definitely, this site really got me thru some trying times for sure. Hope you feel better.
  6. Hurting in Manitoba
    It sounds like you are at a "rough spot" in the break up process. It is natural for you to want that need filled. I know, I questioned my x's motives for a long time too.. I think it's women's intuition or something. Anyway, I too was right on target. You did point out some of your strengths and that's good. I really am not sure what to say, but when me and my x broke up, I got a puppy. They say they can be therapeutic. Not to mention loyal. Somethin to consider. Keep your head up, and remember good things come to those who wait.
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    Maybe get him to jerk-off once or twice b 4 having sex.
  8. Hurting in Manitoba
    First of all I'd just like to say kudos to you for being able to recognize that you are an addict. It takes pretty big balls to admit that so, my hat goes off to you. Is your G/f willing to go for treatment? If not, you cannot force that on her eh? If she isn't ready, then you set the example and hopefully she'll follow. Good luck on your healing and if you feel the need to talk, pm me.
  9. Hurting in Manitoba
    Well how do you feel about the split? Was it a mutual b/u?
  10. Hurting in Manitoba
    Keep strong gurl! You asserted yourself in the best way. Good job.
  11. Hurting in Manitoba
    Personally, I think you were being selfish thru and thru, give him the space he requested. If your partner said you were emotionally draining him, then maybe seek some counselling. Try and work on the things you mentioned.
  12. Hurting in Manitoba
    I lost my grandma 5 months ago. She had pretty much killed herself from smoking. Last year, she developed pneumonia because her lungs were basically shot due to 60+ years of smoking. The doc told her last year to give up smoking which she did. I guess near the end she sneakily began smoking again. She knew if she smoked her lungs wouldn't take it. So with one lung shot and only 35% of her other lung, she ceased. I miss her terribly. Thank-you for listening.
  13. Hurting in Manitoba
    This sort of thing happened to me. My x and I separated after 4.5 yrs. We were apart for 4 months and I seen my aunt and she told me she had seen my x with some girl she also said he went over to hang out with my aunt and her b/f ( alone). i was like W.T.F why are u letting him come over when u know dam well how I still feel about him. I felt really betrayed. Anyway she was like oh he called me and was asking about u. well I guess she was playing cupid to get us back together and it all worked out. Sounds like your x is keeping tabs.
  14. Hurting in Manitoba
    It does sound like your b/f is freaking out because the relationship had progressed maybe too quickly in his eyes. Some men tend to get cold feet when the relationship takes the next step. My advice is to let him live out whatever it is he needs to do. Tell him that you love him that much you will be willing to let him go. This will be hard but it really sounds like he's having commitment phobia. Let him get it out of his system and when he's done "trying" to find what he might think will make him happy, he'll realize what he had with you. Perhaps even be thankful that you temporarily let him go with the understanding that he is free to pursue what is important to him and that there is un-finished business between you all that he needs to deal with. I hope you are feeling better.
  15. Hurting in Manitoba
    Whatever floats your boat.
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