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its not that i'm in love with him- i just to be able to remain good friends with him--

i would guess this is her way of saying she doesn't like you- at least not right now. this could be because she just thinks you guys aren't right for each other or because she is still stuck with feelings for the last guy she was seeing. but, when you are open and supportive and remain a close friend, a lot of times girls come around and see who really cares for them. just remain open- see what happens ps girls love being called beautiful, any time, as long as you mean it

i guess the title of this topic really sums it up. here's the problem, besides the obvious of course--- i have no way of confirming that he is in love with me, even though this is my husband's suspicion and the suspicion of my friends. this friend has become distant from me (we were good friends too) and won't even hang out with us when we go to the movies or kayaking or anyting like we used to... but how can i confront this question? i don't even think he'd tell me if i asked! and without knowing for sure what can i do to help the situation? even if i know for sure, what can i do? help!