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  1. For the love of God please please don't start poking.
  2. and yet a few more posts where ForAnother (and a few others) shows his immaturity. At what age exactly do boys realize that being mature is more attractive? to me it just shows their level of insecurity. do you really need to do something that a girl is not into to assert your manliness? because that's what that is. it's really quite sad. if they really do as they say, these boys will soon realize that all they could do is "talk" about their sexual experience rather than really experience them. to me it's not about whether you find it disgusting or not, that's not the issue. it's about respect. the manner in which it is discussed, no where do i read it suggesting anywhere close to respect. and that i find disgusting. sure some women like it, but in no way is this topic discussed with regard to how the women might feel. you could say that it's all in good fun and humor but when you're talking about doing an activity where not all girls will like it and hahaha, well we'll make them learn to love it....that's called sex abuse. and that is not so funny. you think creating a cult in which women are demeaned just to satisfy men are funny? sex jokes and humor is one thing, but the way in which you BOYS are discussing it is not.
  3. it's better to be a "good" girl/boy and and reap all the rewards later than to be "bad" and regret it. fun does not mean it has to be bad or that you have to ditch classes, or not do your school work.
  4. "Sunday night sex show" with sue that's right--that's what it's called. Well in Canada there are also, "hotter sex", "kink", "sex, toys, and chocolate", "sexual secrets", "my first time", "sex tips for girls", "the naughty bits" and who knows what else. I'm not talking about soft core porn or anything like that. It almost seems like the US is more sexually repressed. I remember watching the Osbourne show and it was uncensored, but I think it was better with the bleeping.
  5. I was just curious if there's a huge difference between sex education in Canada and the US and mainly how it's being treated between the two countries. In Canada there's all kinds of television programs on sex. There's two channels in particular that you can count on to do something about sex..not trashy stuff, but educational-like material--I can name tons of shows. It's so easy to get sexual knowledge in Canada. Mostly everyone knows about Sex Talk with Sue, but there's so much more than that in Canada. I was wondering if it's the same in the US.
  6. experience definitely. enthusiasm can only make up so much. even well endowed males, if you don't know how to use it, it's useless. of course if you love the fella, you can teach him and you can both experiment, but generally speaking, experience is better. and no it's not only about the clitoris, there's soooo much more to sex that that. you are missing out on all the other erogenous zones and not to mention the g-spot and the a-spot.
  7. I've just been through a tough, semi-break-up. I can't call it a real break-up because he was just a friend, but we were really close and I'm really hurt. Anyway, I'm really tempted to be in a relationship right now, to take my mind off it all and I know it's really bad, but really, is it all that bad? The way I'm feeling now, a relationship seems really good--to think I didn't want to be in a relationship. It's odd, but I don't think I do, but just want that closeness again; the closeness of a relationship. So what do you guys think about rebound relationships? Another problem is that although I can find men, I don't really want any of them, I'm really choosy. I can't help it. Does anyone else have this problem--being so choosy that it's a barrier to any real relationship?
  8. it sure is unpleasant and can be very painful the first couple of times you try it, but that will go away. you just have to find a man who knows how to do it and be gentle and patient. it's a completely different sensation from vaginal sex. it's a rather great feeling once you relax and is with someone you trust and care about. also about 7 inches into the rectum is relatively clean, the colon starts somewhere after that and that's where all the feces are. so unless you're about to defecate sometime soon, then it's not that dirty. of course the whole farting thing sometimes can be rather funny. and other unpleasantness after the fact that can occur, but that's something else.
  9. ok this might be going a little off topic, but just to let you know...not all women are built the same way. and well even if done correctly, some women can last. tis true; it's not a myth. ...ok back to your regularly scheduled programming.
  10. I think we're misunderstanding each other. What I mean by lasting for hours is multiple orgasms.
  11. well whether they are metrosexual or more "manly" i prefer vegetarians...they taste sooooo much better.
  12. Err. I don't think so. A person doesn't continue if it's causing physical pain, and well, damage to the penis or testicles isn't going to occur just because you're having sex or having orgasms. Unless you're referring to some sort of S&M maneuver or something. I don't see how orgasms are ever waste of time. Haven't you ever heard of tantric sex? Even men who don't practice tantric sex can last go on for hours and hours.
  13. I know men who can have sex all night long and well into the morning and their sex drive is very very high.
  14. You could have male orgasmic disorder. It can be caused by disease, injury, medicine or drugs. Most often it's caused by psychological problems. Such as depression or anxiety. So check with the doctor.
  15. Gambet, first of all you can't last longer if you don't think you can do it or else it'll be one of those self-fulfilling prophecies. It could be an erectile dysfunction (caused by disease--such as diabetes, injury, or an effect of a medicine/drugs you're taking) so you have to ask the doctor if that's the reason. It could also be psychological. So really the best way is to go to the doctor, because it can be treatable. However, it is likely the fear and the anxiety that's the culprit of the prematurely ejaculation. That's what is likely causing the shaking too. You're nervous and anxious. So, what you might want to try is: 1. First breathe. Take a few deep breaths. It helps you relax and lessens the tension that causes people to prematurely ejaculate. 2. I suggest you prolong the foreplay as long as possible. Good for her and for you. 3. Next do kegel exercises, this will help you control your ejaculation. You can do this anywhere and anytime. It uses the same muscles that control the flow of your urine. This will help prolong sex and also intensifies your orgasms. So get on this asap. The sex shop should have some sort of exercise tool for your penis to help make it easier to do this if you're not sure if you're doing this right. There are several different ways of doing the kegels...as fast as possible or hold it for a long period and then doing it again. Do both. 4. The best way is to masturbate. Only then do you really get to know what's going on. You have been doing it, but now figure out at what point you feel like ejaculating. Then before you reach that point, stop yourself from ejaculating. Practice, practice, practice. It will get better. 5. Also, there are some positions that help some men prolong it. The basic missionary is one or the sitting position and others. Also if you know you're about to ejaculate, switch positions. Try using the hands or the tongue. Or just using shorter, but deeper strokes. 6. Always you a condom. This will help in making you last longer because it reduces the stimulations. 7. Do some *light* exercises an hour or so before you have sex, giving yourself time to relax. 8. Make sure she's very very ready even before you enter her. Try to be erect for as long as possible before you enter her. 9. Relax and enjoy it. keep yourself well rested and stress free. Well I hope that helps.
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