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  1. Thank you all for your replies. Finewhine: The idea of him asking me to drive 45 mins to his brother's appartment is to meet with him and have lunch nearby his brother's place. I just don't understand why he cannot pick me up on the way to his brother's place. Oneconfusedguy: He does have a car but no winter tires. Oh yes you are right...I was very angry and upset that he doesn't seem to want to see me. I was really hurt. I just don't find him a sweet and romantic guy. Somedays I would wonder maybe he asked me out because he just want me to accompany him. Maybe it is really not true love or that he doesn't really love me. Does anyone agree? Even he has never treat me to a decent meal. We always go for 'dutch' Does anything agree that if you love someone you will treat them nice and respect them and care about them. I only find he cares about me but doesn't actually love me too deeply. Sometimes I find that he treats his family and coworkers a lot better than I am. He has lots of DVDS at home and none of them he lend me to watch. But he always burn and lend the DVDS to his coworkers and his family. Why is it that he treats them a lot better than me? This really dissappoints me. He always say on the phone and in person that he loves me and wants to be with me. Does anyone thinks it is true words he says? Also, usually if a guy loves the girl, does the guy tends to like to treat the girl out for lunch/dinner? I mean not everytime of course but maybe occasionally or sometimes? But one thing about him is that right after he came back from a 5 hour trip during the weekend, he quickly wanted to see me and we met for dinner right away on Monday - 2 days before Valentine's Day. At that time he should have known the weather wouldn't be nice on Valentine's Day but we still did not celebrate Valentine's Day in advance. We went out as usual as if nothing has happened. We should have celebrate Valentine's Day in advance. What do you guys think about him?
  2. I have been dating him for 5 months. He lives 30 mins from where I live. And one thing that really pisses me off is he later asked me to see him on Saturday but he will be going to his brother's appartment to take care of his pets while his brother is away on vacation for one day. He told me to drive up all the way to his brother's appartment to meet him there which is about 45 mins ride from my place. But he could have offer me a ride while he is on the way to his appartment. Isn't one car should be better than taking two cars uptown? What kind of guy you think he is?
  3. Hi Everyone, I am upset my bf called me today and decide not to see me on Valentine's Day which is tomorrow. This will be our first year for Valentine's Day. The reason he gave me is because he heard on the news it will be cold and might have heavy snow tomorrow. Do you think this is a reasonable excuse to not see me? Do you think he might not love me thats why he wants to cancel the plan? Do you think if a guy loves a girl, no matter how bad the storm is he will desperately want to see her? Do you think he might not want to see me because he doesn't have anything for me? I am very sad Also, he keeps saying he loves me. I don't really know if he loves me now? What do you think about this guy?
  4. When breaking up with someone, is it better to talk to them over the phone or to meet them in person to discuss it? Also, how to talk to someone when you want to break up without distroying the friendship. Also, how can I make it not a bad breakup? Also, before the day of the breakup should you still hold their hands, kiss (when they initiate it) or should you hint something to them that you will soon want to breakup with them. Anyone have good experiences or suggestions please share. Thank you.
  5. Hi, Let's say you have been dating a guy and during Valentine's Day he proposes to you with an engagement ring but you think he is still not the one yet or that you are not ready for it yet. What would you do? What would you say?
  6. Before answering these questions please tell me your gender. When you are dating someone: 1) How often do you see each other in a week? 2) What activities do you do together? 3) How long it takes you to be officially a couple? 4) a) What is your form of communication with each other (msn, phone, icq)? b) How often you communicate with each other via telephone, msn, icq? 5) What are your romantic experience? 6) How long does it take you to be in love with a person of the opposite sex? 7) What quality attracts you to the person of opposite sex? Thanks.
  7. Hi, I have been dating a guy for at least a month already and everytime he sees me or he talks to me on the phone. He never says/calls my name. He always says 'hey'. Even when he tries to introduce me to his friends I have to do the introduction myself. It sometimes sounds as if he doesn't even know how to pronouce my name. Is that a problem if a guy never calls his girlfriend's name? How would you feel if that were to happen to you? The only thing when he sends me email or msn me he writes my name but other then that I have never heard him call my name. I wonder if you love someone would you always like to call that person's name? Well, I usually calls his name when I talk to him but he never does.
  8. Hi everyone, How to tell if a guy really loves me? I have been dating a guy. Everytime in the phone conversation he would tell me a lot of things about how much he dreams about me, love me, think about me, and how much he really wants to be with me in the long term. He would repeat this over and over which sometimes makes it borring. Does anyone have the same issue as me? However, one thing he was dishonest about was telling me his wrong age. How can anyone know if he tells everything is truth? How to tell if he really loves me? Also, if someone lied to you about their age would you ever date that guy again or trust him? Thx.
  9. Hi, I would like to know if a shy guy tells the girl I like you. You are beautiful, we have lots of common interests..etc....and later asked a girl "Can you give me chances?" at the end of the date. Then later he hugs her. Does the quote above means "Can you be my gf?"
  10. Let say a girl met a guy for the first time in a coffee shop. The guy and the girl talks for some time. Later, when the guy and the girl have to leave the coffee shop, the guy pats on the girl's back lightly. Then later he hugs her and say goodbye. Does the patting on the girl's back and hugging her mean anything? Normally, would a guy meet a girl first time would do something like that? Is his actions just trying to be friendly and nice?
  11. Then how about going out with him for just drinks/dinner and not for the movie?
  12. Then how should I reject watching a movie with him without hurting his feelings?
  13. To all the girls out there: It is just a question: If a guy come to you and asked you out for a movie just the two of you but you are not interested in him at all, will you go watch a movie with him?
  14. Going out of the opposite sex for dinner and considering both as friends. Would that be consider dating? What really defines dating? thx.
  15. Hi, If someone is in a bad mood or sad such as someone who has recently got into a car accident. How would you cheer them up? What can you talk to them about to make them feel better? Can anyone help please? Thanks.
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