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  1. ok let me back track, the beginning of this year i started to hang out with this girl from my school shes younger. only every once and a while this was because her friend was going out with my friend at the time. i told my friend i was interested in her and he said dont even waste time trying to make friends with her just tell her. so i never said it face to face but we were text messageing one time and i told her how she was so pretty and specal and lets just say i never used the exact words "i like you, i want something between us" i basically got the point accross. anyway she didnt respond the way i had hoped. not in a bad way just not in a good way so nothing happened from there and i said to myself you know what i think im not gunna try and go after this girl, see if she might look for me if im not throwing myself at her. and from there literally it all went down hill to the point were we dont even say hi when we see each other at school. well lately ive in a way started to miss her. and i ended up running into her last nite for a miniute and she said hi like she was excited to see me. but i was with all my friends and she seemed to do the same for them. i really dont kknow if this girl is in any way interested in me or if shes the type of girl who just wants to be friends with all my guy friends because were older and she just might want to be associated with us. but anyway i still really want to do something with this girl. but after me bascailly telling her how i felt last tiem what to do i do now? also just to add one of my friends who goes after anygirl that walks could be a problem hes actualy been talking to her lately what do i do.
  2. so me and this girl are friends. i dont see her much we do go to the same school but shes younger then me. we met from other friends but i think shes attracted to me more then a friend and i like her alot. see the thing is sometimes she talks to me as a friend and then other times it seems like she wants to be more then friends. i figure were not really great friends yet and our friendship is kinda awkward because i feel like we have more feelings but dont know if the other one has them also. so i think im just gunna tell her i like her and try and find out if she likes me as more then a friend. but the thing is i really dont know how to go about this. i mean she could just think im hot and want to be a friend with benefit or a 1 nighter thing because most girls like that in highschool. so i dont wanna tell her i want a relationship with her if shes not looking for that. and i dont wanna say something that makes her think i want her for a 1 nighter. so how do i get my message accross. i really need to tell her cause this isnt really going anywhere and i need to find out if i should move on or not.
  3. so me and this girl met from friends. shes younger then me but we go to the same schcool. i could tell kinda and my friend told me he thinks shes attracted to me. and i like her also. so we hung out in a group of friends twice and we kinda got to be friends. so i started talking to her online and everything after that and basically i gave her signals that i am interested in her. and she didnt seem turned off or like it affected her at all. but the thing is she never goes out of her way to say hi to me ever. if i see her in school walking by she doesnt say hi. but whene i talk to her she usualy keeps a conversation going. and the way i am with girls usualy is i show them im interested and usualy they will start to show some interest back leting me know its kinda mutual. but its hard to tell in this situation. she could be shy or something but its hard when they dont show anything back even tho u can kinda tell there intersted. what do i do. i havent talked to her in a few days and were not really at the point yet were we can talk about how i feel about her i mean right now where just kinda friends if even that much. so i dont know where to go i dont wanan jus give up but if i keep trying it makes me seem desprit
  4. so me and this girl met about a while ago from one of my friends. we didnt really meet but you get the point my friend new her and got me her screen name and she knew who i was. so i talked to her a few times and we go to the same school but we never actauly had a formal conversation or anything like that. but i think she is interested in me and i am also into her. so tonight i ended up running into her because it turns out my friend is going out with her friend and i ended up hanging out with her for the nite with a few people. it went good i got her number and she got mine and i said to call if she wanted ot hang out and she said yeah she wanted to and that i should call also. but the thing is in the past i have messed up other chances with girls because i rushed it. so idk maybe i should wait till we runn into each other in school and talk more or just call her up tomrow nite to hang out. or w/e just need toknow how fast or slow to take this.
  5. so i while back i got a girls screen name that goes to my school from my friend. he used to be friends with her friend but not anymore. so i talked to her a bit and i definitly think she has interest in me. i am very interested in her. so after talking on and off(not much at all) i found out that since school started we both have the same free period at school. i told her if we bumb into each other at schoool we should hang out. she said yeah definitly. so today as i was coming into school i saw her and as we were passing we said hi. thats all that happened for today. but i guess it could go somewhere from here. my question is where do i take it from here? the thing is with the free period she hang out with her friends an im with mine and shes younger then me so my friends arent really friends with her or her friends making hard from thre. so where to go from here?
  6. i will still be just her friend if thats what she wants i just want to be more
  7. so me and this girl used to be close about half a year ago. we never go into a relationship although i wanted one i think she was scared for one at the time. we went out a few times but that was it. there was a long period of time we stoped talking but i still thought about her. she started talking to me online and she said she wanted me to cal her sometime so we started talking again but i havent seen her. i asked her to go with me to my friends party this weekend so i will see her there. im not sure where to go from here. the thing is im not sure if she just wants to be friends with me or if shes still interested in me. i want to be more then friends so i have to find a way to get the point accross to her. how should i do this. and if it seems shes interested in me should i talk to her about a relationship or give it some time
  8. this girl and me used to hang out and we havent in a while but i still like her and we only talk online lately but she said she wants me to call her. but im not sure what i should do. like should i call her during the day sometime just to say hi. i dont normally do stuff like that. or should i call her one night and ask her to hang out
  9. to start off ill go back a little to help you understand where im coming from. me and this girl used to hang out and i liked her a lot and she felt the same way about me. we used to talk alot on the phone and stuff and i only hung out with her about 3 times. but we still talked for weeks after and everything. it seemed that after we hung out the 3rd time i couldent get her to hang out anymore. she said things like shes scared for a relationship and stuff like that. i respected and we talked online alot but that was basically it. i wanted more but it was so confusing what she wanted., she really wouldent tell me so i treied to move on. well now its been months since then. we have still been talking every once in a while. just the normal hello and stuff. but i still havent seen her. i still like her as a friend and would want more. last night i talked to her and she said that she wanted me to call her sometime. i said do you want to see me sometime she said yeah. well on a normal occasion i would say to myself ok this girl wants to see me and we should set something up. well seing our past im not sure where is gunna go from here. do you think i should call and set something up right away. or start calling her to talk more and become beter friends again then ask her to hang out??
  10. so my friend is lately being kinda a {Mod Edit} to hes girlfriend. hes been cheating on her on talking behind her back. shes been asking me lately to if hes been doing this. and i cant rat him out. hes been my friend for a long time. i feel its wrong to lie to her but then if i tell her the truthe hel be more mad at me. and the real thing here is i really think shes attracted to me and might be asking me this all the time for attention, it is coincidence that he actuly is at this time. but i feel lately like theres something going on between me and her. i mean im attracted to her but yeah shes me friends girlfriend and im not gunna break them up. i know i would treat her beter then him but the point is idk what to do or whats going on in general here can someone help
  11. me and this girl a while back got close almost into a relationship. we hung out a few times but talked a lot. it got to the point were every time i asked her to hang out something went wrong like she was avoiding hanging out. we kinda died out then because of this but she still talked to me every once and a while. we dont go to the same schoool so i never see her. well we started talking again recently. and shes telling me how i never called her anymore and stuff. and i didnt want to say its because she never hangs out with me. so shes telling me now how shes upset with guys basically and that she is alone and stuff. so i figure she realises she wants to be with me like i did with her. so i told her that i miss her and want to see her soon and she said we could. but then everytime i bring up hanging out she seems to avoid it. i cant understand this anymore she does this alot. im not blaming her for anything i just really dont know her reason for this.what do you think it could be. also how can i get her to hang out. most of the time we talk online i mean i think ill start to call her again soon but i dont want to get close with her again and have the relationshsip end because of this.
  12. well the question really is how can i get closer with her now, i feel like if ask her to hang out soon it wil ruin the whole thing.
  13. me and this girl i really like about 5 months ago or so got pretty close. we both liked eachother and were close to getting into a relationship. but for some reason it didnt work out. i think she was scared and i tried so hard to make it work that i think i might have tried to hard and ruind it myself. we stoped hainging out and stoped seing eachother. it didnt end in a bad way just kinda faded out. i still have feelings for her and we started talking again a little bit and she started telling me how shes basicaly upset with all guys and she was hinting that shes lonely now and everything. i wanan get back with her but i dont wanan come off bad at all. and she started talking to me so i feel like shes hinting something.
  14. so theres this girl that goes to my school and i never talked to her in person. ive seen her in school and i have her screen name. we started talking a bit over this week we have off from school. and i asked her to hang out one night and she said yeah. i didnt get anything set up yet. i dont want to seem like im desperit because i keep sending her messages first. i wait to see if she sends me one first but she doesnt. im not sure if shes interested but from the way we talked she seemed at least a little bit. how should i go from here?
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