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  1. I would never get back with for two reasons. 1. It is solely setting the stage for the repitition. If she broke up with you once and got you back, she can do it again. And I think she most likely would. Kinda like a dog returns to its vomit. 2. After you get over someone, and you are not connected, I actually look at it as kinda funny when they try and get you back. Its kinda like, why would I want to get back with someone who thought they could go find something better. Whats the matter? You cant find someone better. "Your LOSS!" Its more fun just to watch them try and find someone better rather than giving them the satisfaction of letting them have what they want ( me back). It is the revenge that you subconciensly wanted when you first broke up, but you were patient and are now living the high road, and she has no chance at bringing you down again. HER LOSS
  2. Will somebody please tell me why, after breaking up with you, and not talking for like 9 months, an ex-girlfriend will try and "rekindle" things between the two of you. Do they really think they have a shot at getting back with you?
  3. There is nothing better than watching a fool in their game and then watching the foolish plan backfire on them as they always do.
  4. Yeah, but if a guy really liked a girl, showed her interest, and she 'played hard to get' I would think, personally speaking here, that the guy would say alright, fine, she's not interested.......NEXT! Most guys just want a straight answer. Either the girl likes him or she doesnt. Once a guy knows this he can make up his mind and either stop wasting his time or get things moving with a relationship with the girl. Girls just make things so much more complicated than they need to be. =; jk
  5. Agreed, and I think the last chance must be iniated by her, since she is the one who got herself into the mess in the first place. Also, I must be convinced that she's not gonna continue to play games.
  6. Yeah, and I think that's the best way to put it Hot Cold type. She's also shy too, thats why the arguments really stood out so much. She was hot, then cold, then hot, then cold, just like you described, then all of a sudden, I wouldnt let her be hot or cold. I just quit calling and asking her out. What really did it was when she didnt call me back once, I didnt see her out for like 2 weeks, then she came up and said something. But I still didnt call her. There was a dance, for her college, and I didnt ask her to that either. Pretty much I was trying to send the message.....I dont play games, without literally saying it. What do you think?
  7. Thats funny... We werent even steady dating, bf/gf, nothing. Shes just one of those girls who expects the guy to come out in the beginning and state all his feelings and whatnot. And I didnt do that. I took her out...yes, called her on the phone....yes. Chased her after she decided to play hard to get and not call me back once or twice....nope. That is what I mean when I say I stopped playing her games. I didnt chase her around and puppy dog like most guys. How could that offend her?
  8. I have no idea............I heard if you start out with 'roses are red, violets are blue............' it works out ok. ha. maybe a good place to start. Please dont take me serious. Best advice? hmmmmmm...be creative.
  9. Have you guys/girls ever heard of girls picking fights or arguments with guys that they are interested in for attention. I think I might have noticed this in a particular girl, who, after not playing her games, all of a sudden began picking fights/arguments with me. This girl has never been mean towards me, and would have no reason to be angry. This came out of nowhere. She did this for 2 days straight. She used to be the sweetest thing I have met but now....? Do girls do this if things arent going their way. Also, any advice for this situation?
  10. A friend of mine had this guy that she liked a lot. However, she was really into guarding her heart and wanted the guy to tell her his intentions in the beginning. He didnt state his intentions, but did ask her out on several dates, in which she accepted some of them. She soon began to play a little hard to get, not returning calls, not accepting dates, to try and draw something out of him (intentions), but he soon stopped calling her. He hadnt called her in 3 months after she didnt return his calls, and she began to get frustrated. She then pulled him to the side the other day and told him that she wasnt ever interested and that she had been acting like a jerk to him because she didnt want to give him the wrong signals. She basically told him that she didnt ever like him, when I know that she clearly did. I am a guy and am wondering if anyone else knows if girls do this kind of thing often. Why would a girl do this?
  11. She told you she'd call right? Then wait for her to call. If you call her again not only will it push her away even more, but it will only make you look even more ridiculous. Dont call. Wait for her. If I were you I would back off a little too. Thats the best thing to do if someone is pulling away.
  12. After you hinted to a particular person that you were interested in, what is the longest time frame you guys have waited for that person to 'come around' and actually begin dating. Was it worth it? Both success and non-success stories please....
  13. All the guarding your heart thing is, in my opinion, is a protective wall that girls put up to keep from getting hurt. The fact is, it does more damage than it does good in my opinion because you end up sending the guy mixed signals, because you are gonna be so hot and cold (even if you are always hot, you may act cold.) The mixed signals will either a. throw the guy off and he gets uninterested. or b. He will feel that you are uninterested and, if he is smart, he will move on. Either way its not good. Like it or not girls, take it from us guys who will face rejection ( a.k.a risk) after rejection (a.k.a. risk) to find a girl who finally good for him, that you have to risk something in order to gain something good. AND, the greater the risk,.......what......yep...........the greater the payoff. Sooo, with that said, I think if girls want guys to "man up" and not be afraid to do the approaching and not fear rejection, then the girls need to "woman up" and do their side a little too! Open up, and not do things in fear of getting hurt. Things that are done in fear are never done the right way anyways. It takes two to tango.
  14. yeah man, but you need to pick your battles wisely.
  15. Who cares, you're not a puppy dog. I seriously doubt she read this man. And if she did, then she'll know that your not gonna follow her around anymore. Maybe she'll learn something. HA! jk
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