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O.K. Here is the situation... You have 3 young girls who play together all the time,neighbors. One is 5 and the other 2 are 8. One night the 5 year olds mother calls me and tells me that her 5 year old said something in the shower that she said my Daughter said to her... (rub lotion on my "weiner") I asked my Daughter about this ...for I have never heard that word come out of her mouth her mouth...she said I heard it from (amber) her other friend... I talked to my Daughter about it and told her it was not appropriate for her to talk about those things to any one... and gave her the speech on what's right and wrong... and told the Mother of the other 5 year old that I would have a talk with her father... I ran into him in Walgreens and breifly told him what happened. The next thing i know ...my Daughter is forbidden to play with her. He said I "talked to my Daughter and she said it wasn't true" I have called him on the phone to talk about all of this and get it straightened out but he says there is no need. I don't want my daughter to be around someone like you Daughter. When his daughter is the one who started it all. He thinks his Daughter can do no wrong and is "PERFECT" She comes over to my house and burps and farts... never says please or thank-you. Has absolutly "NO RESPECT" for anyone. I want to send her father a letter stating my discust in him. For it was his choice to not let them play together...they are only 8 years old. Kids will be kids... he said "I will send her to a private school to be safe... No one is safe ...even in a private school. What should I do??? He thinks his daughter is perfect...but I,ve got news for him...no one is. Please help with reply to him. For I intend to send a letter that will wake him up. Thanks M

Where are all the people who helped me??? Are you all O.K.??? I haven"t heard from any of you. Please let me know how you all are doing. I am not over him but... I realize that I can"t go on like I was... I still miss him and I think I always will. I hope all is well with all of you who helped me... Please let me know if I can help in any way Take Care, Michelle

You are so right... I was just hoping against hope... that he would turn back into the sweet man I met. I was alone for sooooooooooooooooo long before I met him...(7 years) I guess I will look at him as my one year vacation from life... and reality. I have changed my number... but I know he will try to contact me somehow and act like friends... which I am not... How can he expect me to go from what we had to "FRIENDS" I guess I will never understand. Well you have a great day... and thank you so much for all of your help I am slowly moving on in my life and the only reason I am still here... is because of my Daughter... and all of you who helped me through this. Thank-you from the bottom of what is left of my heart... somehow I will survive...somehow. I just miss him so much..".THE REAL HIM" I will love him for infinite todays... knowing tomorrow never comes. Michelle

You are so right... I was just hoping against hope... that he would turn back into the sweet man I met. I was alone for sooooooooooooooooo long before I met him...(7 years) I guess I will look at him as my one year vacation from life... and reality. I have changed my number... but I know he will try to contact me somehow and act like friends... which I am not... How can he expect me to go from what we had to "FRIENDS" I guess I will never understand. Well you have a great day... and thank you so much for all of your help I am slowly moving on in my life and the only reason I am still here... is because of my Daughter... and all of you who helped me through this. Thank-you from the bottom of what is left of my heart... somehow I will survive...somehow. I just miss him so much..".THE REAL HIM" I will love him for infinite days... knowing tomorrow never comes. Michelle

O.K. I called him the other night...(RETURNING "HIS CALL") and he was sick with the "FLU" 102 fever... He preceded to cuss me out.. LEAVE ME ALONE YOU @#$##!!!!! I AM SICK...I HAVE A FEVER... DON'T EVER CALL ME AGAIN...YOU ARE NOTHING BUT A "$^$##" GO AWAY!!!!!!!!! WHAT THE I JUST HUNG UP. Then he called me the next day like "NOTHING" was wrong?????????????? Left a message... which I never returned his call. What's up with that????????????? What's wrong with him??? Should I even bother??? Why would someone talk to you like that and then expect to be treated like nothing ever happened????????? WHY DOES HE KEEP CALLING ME??? AND WHY DOES HE THINK IT'S O.K TO CALL ME... AFTER HE SAID WHAT HE SAID???? I AM SOOOOOOOOOOOO CONFUSED. I HAVE NOT CALLED HIM BACK. I WILL NOT CALL HIM BACK... WHY WOILD HE SAY WHAT HE SAID TO ME AND EXPECT ME TO EVEN BREATHE THE SAME AIR HE BREATHES???????? I THINK I SHOULD TELL HIM TO F-OFF... HOW CAN SOMEONE WHO CLAIMED TO LOVE YOU TALK TO LIKE THAT??? WHY DOES HE KEEP CALLING??? SORRY TO RAMBLE............ ADVICE PLEASE THANKS, MICHELLE

I'm DONE with him... the last time he called me... he laughed at me when I told him how I still feel about him...I am in the process of changing my number... so he can't torture me any more... I finally saw the man he really is...and I don't want that man anymore. Thank-you so much for everyones help... I am so done with "LIFE SUPPORT SYSTEMS FOR PENISES" (men) I think I will be alone forever... I will NEVER TRUST ANOTHER man AS LONG AS I LIVE.... WHY?????????????? Thank-you for all of your help everyone... Goodluck in the future... Michelle

Let's just say... nature took care of its self... I am no longer pregnant... But I still do love him with my whole heart and soul...and I always will. Can and How can a person fall out of love with you... ovenight??? Michelle

I haven't heard from him since Dec 6th... why??? He went from calling every 2-5 day's to not at all... I have tried to call him... on his cell and he never answers or returns my calls... I just want to get over him soooooooooooooooo bad... any advise???????? Michelle

Hello everyone... Ney Years Eve...is coming soon... I need some advice... what to do if he calls. It is the day he proposed to me... Please help!!!!!!!!!! Thanks... Michelle

Hello all who have helped... I am still on the n/c thing...and doing so-so. I still miss him so much. I have been very busy with holiday activities with my Daughter... so that kind of keeps my mind busy... till my head hits the pillow... I can't sleep I have no desire for food... I've lost 10 lbs. since he left. I went to my doctor about 4 days ago and he put me on "LEXAPRO". I have never been on any kind of antidepressants before... how long does it take to work??????? I'm still feeling hopeless... sad... not eating... etc... Also the anniversary of him proposing to me is on New years Eve... Will he be thinking about me??? Will he call... and if he does should I answer??? What should I say??? Please help if you can... Take care all... and have a Merry Christmas Michelle

Hello all... Any advice????????????? What should I say and what should I do???? Thanks, Michelle

Hello All... I have a good one for you ... I have been doing better and feeling better about the no contact thing...still a little sad Get this... I get a phone call from him tonight ... did not answer... let my voice mail do that for me. I was in the middle of doing Thanksgiving dishes about 8:00... I figured I would let everyone get settled and go to bed before I listened to his message. ( As we speak my cell is ringing ..."New voice mail" my phone chimes to me...It's 3:00 in the morning where he is.) Any way... the message for him on my cell says, SAW YOUR # ON MY CELL... JUST RETURNING YOUR CALL ... I JUST ABOUT FELL ON THE FLOOR ... FOR I DID NOT CALL HIM I checked my call history,and the "PHONE CALL" went out at 11:30 am??? Grandma and I were out getting eggs for our CREAMY PUMPKIN CHEESCAKE" I DIDN'T HAVE MY PHONE WITH ME... SO GUESS WHO MADE THE CALL YEP... MY ONE AND ONLY.... 8 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER. No wonder she ran to my cell all day when it rang. She is asleep now. I plan to call him tomorrow, and have her apologize for calling him without my permission. She has asked in the past if she could call ...and I told her yes... sometime... just to get her off the subject. I didn't think that sometime meant "RIGHT NOW" Any advise???? I am slowly getting stronger... day by day. Alas, he "IS" calling... BUT... the more advise I get on this line... the more I realise... I don't know if I want him anymore. He IS thinking about me though He never calls me at 3:00 in the morning...I know he DOES miss me... and he can FEEL that I don't miss him as much... THANK-YOU ALL FOR YOUR KIND WORDS... AND SOME NOT SO KIND...SOME OF YOU COULDN'T HANDLE MY INTENSITY AND I'M SORRY. HAPPY TURKEY DAY TO YOU ALL, HAVEA GREAT DAY MICHELLE

ANY MAN THAT AGE SHOULD BE "LOCKED UP" FOR THOUGHTS OF BEING WITH A girl AS YOUNG AS YOURSELF... WATCH OUT

Hello, No he is not married... and thank god... I "NEVER " had any "OTHER WOMAN" problems with him.. He wouldn't cheat on me... he is not that type of person... For some reason the women come to him not the opposite. I thought he was "GAY" for I had known him for almost a year and he still hadn't asked me out. "I made the first move" He is not that attractive to other women... he is no "BOY TOY" or "ARM CANDY" as they call it... he is very average... "NOT WHAT I"M USED TO DATING IN MY YOUNGER YEARS" I have always had a drop dead gorgeous man on my arm... and then I realized that "Looks' aren't everything" I "SETTELED" For the man that I knew would treat me like "GOLD" and he did for over a year. He wasn't a super model or even drop dead gorgeous... he always asked me "WHY ME" WHY DID YOU PICK ME" I"M A DORK" (and he is) but I still loved him. I finally grew up, and fell in love with a guy who treated me right... for once in my life. I believed and still do believe he loves me. I "NEVER" had dreams about him when we were dating and now they happen almost every night????? He called again just to say "HI"... Again I didn't answer my cell What do I do?? I miss him sooooooooooo much but If I call I don't want to sound desperate or like I'm missing him but yet I don't want to push him away.l Not calling him back for the past 3 times has "KILLED ME INSIDE" it has been one of the hardest things I have ever had to do in my life. I have "NEVER" met anyone like him..He would make an impression on even you... He is not the best looking thing in the world...but he makes me " He did say alot of hurtful things to me the last time we talked... Should I forgive him??? I surely can't forget... I asked him a long time ago if he loved me and he hesitated for about 20 seconds... and said "no" How can you love someone one day and then not the next???? I don't think that is possible. If he doesn"t love me ..."WHY" is he calling me acting so.... like nothing happened? Sorry to ramble... Thanks for your help...Michelle

Hello everyone... He called again... just to say "HI" It's been 6 days since he has called last... the last time he called I did not return his call...Nov 6th. I am so proud of myself for not calling but yet... I flat out asked him if he loved me anymore and he said 'no"... (after a long hesitation) Should I call him and ask him why he is calling me? If you say you are "DONE" with someone should'nt you be done with them???? WHY IS HE CALLING ME AND WHAT SHOLULD I DO????? Please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Michelle[/code]