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  • Birthday 12/31/1971

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  1. My GF had a hard time to telling me let's break up. She just said she was not with me a 100%. After things going on for about a month or two, I confronted her about our relationship and what she think about it... Finally, she said I can not be in a relationship at this time. It was the most rewarding conversation I had. I do not have to wonder any more about how she feels. I do not care about how she feels two years from now, but I know how she feels at this moment. It gave me a peace of mind. I love her, but I am able to let her go without any hard feeling. I respected her honesty.
  2. Good thinking. I agree with you slushie. Forgive and forget is a great thing to do.. A lot of people do not do that...I am gald you decided to pass this and continue to go out with this girl. Make sure to listen to her all the time...
  3. Since you know it is coming, It will not be a surprise for your heart. Run as fast as you can buddy. This is very unhealthy. If she sleeps around, she can even bring STD and give it to you. I know you love her, but think real hard my friend. I will go over this test..take it as a lesson. She is the one who is confused not you.... let her figure out what she want. leave her alone..run
  4. I hate let's friends theory. It is hard for me to be just a friend. I tried that before and when she comes to my house we cuddle each other, watch movie and ended up sleeping together. Do friends do that?. Well, let her be your friend, however do not let her run your life. Make yourself busy, go to a gym, hang out with your buddies,… bla, bla… Move on… If she wants to talk to you, do not blow her off… You have to respect her (no matter what..).
  5. How about changing the way you see her. It is important for her to know that she is losing a nice guy that cares about her a lot. I think you should continue to see her, but in a bit different way. 1) When she want to hang out with her tell her you are busy. Well, she can not see you whenever she want to.. 2) Do not call her a lot…but keep the communication going. Keep yourself busy too. Go to a gym, movie…etc Good Luck
  6. I was 17 in high school. She ued to seat next to me and we started exchanging movie (VHS movie not DVD then.) and that started the conversation. One day...I asked her out to the movies and the rest was history. We dated for over three years.
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