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  1. Spend a lot of time on foreplay, and don't just focus on her privates, save them for last.
  2. sorta in the same situation, only the problem didn't go away after the first couple tries- I have a topic a little lower on the list if anyone has any advice for me
  3. i didn't see the article you spoke of, can you send me a closer link?
  4. Hello all, I have been with my current girlfriend for 1 year and 2 months and have been sexually active for most of that time. My problem is that I simply can not finish when I am with her. I have cumed 3 times with her total. I can get it to work fairly easily by myself. I feel it might be something on the emotional level, although I feel very calm with her now, in the beginning of our relationship I felt very pressured to cum and I still feel that pressure. My girlfriend has been totally understanding and we have talked on numerous occasions about this. On the positive side for her, i have been much more willing to experiement and try new things to make her happy and satisfied. I also think my sensitivity might not be as high because of frequent masterbation and porno. I have completely stopped looking at porno. However I have had difficulties with stopping the masterbation, it is almost like an addiction where I will promise myself I won't do it, but I have a moments relasp and my promise is broken. Leaving me feeling guilty. I have cut back from 6 times a week to 2 or 3. However as far as just touching myself I can rarely get through a day without doing it once or twice. I know this is a long message, but does anyone have similar experience or advice? thank you
  5. I have this problem too I think its caused by feeling pressured to ejaculate because I feel like my partner is getting annoyed that it is taking too long and she just wants the sex to be over with, which is a real turnoff. If i'm not fully aroused i'm not going to come, even though I can penetrate her with a half erection. Also i've been under a lot of stress and the fact that i stress out over sex now only leads to more problems. I'm trying very hard to stop masterbating and coming on my own, which I find it very hard to go 4 days. I feel that this has helped me a lot with the sustaining an erection. Body image might also play into things, as I have little to no problems keeping an erection when my clothes are on(despite the embarsment it sometimes causes) but when my clothes are off I sometimes have problems. I've also been trying to think of what part of sex I usually lose my erection and its almost always as i'm putting on a condom so i've been practicing putting it on with one hand as I kiss my girlfriend, which is a lot trickier with someone else than it is by yourself. At first I thought my stamina had to do with the condom cutting off all feelings, I like sex a zillion times better without one, but when i'm on my own, even wearing a thick condom i can get myself off rather quickly. hope any of this helps you
  6. I would think if your insecure about your height, that shoe lifts might be a good thing at first, but what are you going to do at the point in your relationship where your shoes come off? If I was a girl, I think I would rather be with a shorter guy than be decieved. Take a look through those lists of actors below 5'6, all of them had no lack of ladies. Not to mention that there are a ton of girls below 5'5 Best of luck
  7. I do feel like there is a very solid connection, i'm just looking for ways to keep things fun. Yes, it is a ldr, but only for 4 months. We live around 3 hours away(depends on traffic) each way. We've been taking turns driving back and forth so far.
  8. Does anyone have suggestions for keeping a relationship interesting and exciting past the 7 month point?
  9. I don't recommend the something about mary tip because you might have a problem going a second time or it might take too long. Also, what do you if she wants to have sex at the beginning of the date?
  10. I'm not even certain if my gf has a g-spot (if she does, she hasn't told me where it is, or i've failed at finding it) but I know from experience and reading that many girls feel the need to urinate when it is rubbed, and if they ejaculate, many times they feel guilty or embarrassed because they think they pee'd, or they have insensitive boyfriends who accuss them of peeing.
  11. Its quite possible he's worn out from having sex 3 times a day. The majority of guys aren't going to be able to produce enough testoterone, or the chemical that triggers orgasm to maintain that lifestyle. As far as his masterbating; one of my fantasys is that i'll be masterbating at my desk and a girl will come interrupt me, and instead of telling me to stop, she lifts her skirt a little and starts riding me. Just an idea
  12. its a very hard situation to call, because if you bring it up before you kiss it could kinda spoil the first kiss tension. If you bring it up afterwards it could also not be so great. However, any guy worth your time wouldn't care and would want to be supportive of you, especially since from my understanding or partials, you could have permanent adult teeth put in more solidly when your a little older, this just being a temporary problem. I don't think if you have it solidly in it would come out from light kissing either, since a kiss is lighter than chewing most foods. If you don't have a problem eating harder foods you shouldn't have one kissing.
  13. Masterbating til you come or just massaging yourself to near climax? I'll definetely admit I have a problem with the massaging part, because I don't feel as sensitive as I used to with partners and whatnot, i'm trying to cut back (its been about a day) since I would do this multiple times a day. I definetely find it hard to get thru a day without playing with myself for 10 minutes. as far as bringing myself to climax, I usually do it once or twice a week, depends how upset/stressed I am. I tend to like the sensations before coming better than the coming itself.
  14. if shes never had one shes probably very scared of the concept. a couple ways to get thru this are to eitehr a) make her come b) convince her to make herself come; Just don't make her feel bad about it, if you blame her or make her feel guilty the situation will get a lot worse. I read earlier on the boards of a girl with a similar problem, every time she would be ready to come she would get afraid and pull back; her boyfriend solved that problem by tieing her to the bed with hankercheifs, she said she enjoyed it. I would definetely talk to her before trying that though.
  15. another pointer, if you decide to try putting your hand in her pants do it above her underwear first, just try to be aware if she's comfortable and stop if shes not
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