Phil

I'm guessing if you gave him a present it would bring back memories of when you two were together. he may be trying to just move on and dosn't want to look back. I'll take it. 8)

I'd tell her how much you love her. It sounds like the two of you have really clicked and i bet she feels the same way... I would advise you that if you want to keep this going to get your drivers licence and a car as soon as possible. even if its not a top of the line car like a 2005 mustang or whatever, it shows a progress in keeping your love to her strong. While a half hour drive isn't that far, getting a car will allow the two of you to do things you both of you will enjoy such as, going to the beach, movies, picnics, jazz clubs etc.. Feburary sounds like it'll be a wonderful month to express love towards her, you'll have her birthday and Valentines day to express your love to her greatly. For her birthday is it on a weekend or will both of you be working? if so try and spend a lot of time with her on her birthday. For Valentines Day Get her maybe a box of chocolates with a teddy bear and a single rose (don't ask me why a single rose is more romantic then a bouquet of flowers.. but it is to them.. lol) Good luck man, hope everything works out. p.s... Thaught is spelled Thought just letting ya know 8)

Exactly! especially demonstrated here "I asked my boyfriend to wear a condom, and he did. He didn't push me to, he let me decide to and he has even offered to return the favor." I'm guessing he hasn't ever pushed you into doing anything you didn't want to do.. which i respect a lot. as for how you did, no "normal" guy will ever complain about you doing a bad job. You tried, it was your first time. and i bet he wasn't expecting you to do it yet. you say you scraped him with your teeth a couple times, but since he was wearing a condom it probably didn't hurt him at all. if you ever do oral without a condom try not to do that as it probably hurts a lot lol. you asked about what diseases you can get, heres someone with a similar question.. goaskalice.columbia.edu/0336.html as long as both of you are STD free and are loyal to one another (hes only guy for you, your the only girl for him) then its pretty safe.

my only suggestion is to not worry about your weight that much.. we all gain and lose weight in time. You're the same person as before just a little bit bigger.. 8 kgs (30 lbs) more doesn't make someone ugly. *wish i could be 62 again* lol. If your really serious about losing some weight DON'T do anything drastic like bulimia (eating food then forcefully throw it back up) insted just eat smaller portions and drink more water. I was at 131 kgs (290 lbs) down to 120 kgs (265 lbs). by doing just that. Also.. don't starve yourself in an attempt to lose weight.. I tried that lost 2 lbs (0.9 kgs) didn't eat for 3 days but couldn't do it any longer and ended up gaining 6 lbs (2.7 kgs).

full-figured to me is a little over average weight. but women also seem to stress out on their weight. she may be 160 pounds but she sees other girls that are like 140 so she considers herself "full-figured" when 20 pounds isn't to much of a diffrence.

been a while since i posted on here. I always hit the check for Photos Only when i'm "window shopping" lol. not so much of looks but to have an idea of how the other person looks. so putting up an updated picture should improve your chances. while i haven't signed up for one of these dating services I think the few extra pounds should be around 200-300 pounds... i was 290 but i'm down to 260 now. just slowly losing weight. I don't look 260 at all i look more of 220 area especially since i'm 5'11".

2 months, well he probably just considers you a friend for now until he notices that you and him have feelings for one another. agree, I had single under my Yahoo Profile for 3 months out of the 4 months that my relationship lasted. and i only changed it cause she brought it up to me and i wasn't doing anything so i changed it. it could've been that when you brought it up he was doing something.

anyone? *yea yea yea.. i know be patient* lol she says she loves me but she left me and met with another guy had sex... as it was i talked to her today and she said that he treated her badly today and don't thin they'll work out.. so she'll probably come back to me. dunno though. any sugestions are welcome. Phil

PAdreamer, yea i didn't think about that. even though it is only 4 years there is a big maturity diffrence.

never had a problem working with fiberglass. maybe i'm just diffrent and don't find it itchy or whatever. 8)

i'm guessing he doesn't count you as a girlfriend yet since its an Long Distance Relationship. Unless you have met him in real-life already... I wouldn't take it personally or anything. How long have you known him as a bf? I'm guessing you and him are using Yahoo IM.

well... if you know my story skip this paragraph.. My GF and I were together for 4 months before we decided to take a "break" since then she met another guy that she knew about 4 years ago. they've had sex and she says she still loves me.... well... now for my question... She knew me for 4 months but had sex with another guy in aless then 2 weeks of meeting this other guy *after about 4 years*... Should i forgive her if it doesn't work between them and take her back... or should i lose complete connection with her move on in my life and put her behind me... I still have feelings for her and she supposdly still has feelings for me to. I had one of my friends that is a friend of hers too talk to her. * we all met in the same game thats how we know eachother* and this is little quotes from the conversation.

hmm, this is tricky. you've been with your BF for 2 years yet you meet another guy and wish to put your relationship on "hold" even though you've only known this guy for 3 weeks. While i don't approve of your actions especially if the guy you were with for 2 years hasn't done anything wrong. But my simple philosophy is 1 girl with 1 guy and visa versa. when you throw in more then 1 guy or girl into the mix its just asking for heartbreak. You may have told him a "Break" but what happens if you and this other guy completely hit it off and you 2 become lovers... you now just tore the guy that were with for 2 years heart to pieces especially if he didn't do anything wrong. Or... what if you come and find out you don't like this guy that you've met for 3 weeks and you 2 break up. but when you go for the guy you've known for 2 years he now has a new gf and now you're all alone. While this was a cyber-relationship i was in it feels true enough that i would've called it a real-life relationship... but anyways.. my gf and I decided to take a "break" for a couple weeks so that i could move, get my job, and help around my parents house..without worrying about her. while doing this she met an old friend and has been with him since. I didn't do anything wrong, I treated her like a queen, respected who she was and her views on the world, and would've put my life out for her in a heart beat... but yet she still left me for a guy that she hadn't talked too in about 4 years. I've talked to her about this and she said hes just a friend but they even had sex... We both have the same views on cheating and lying but for her to do this is demanding a lot from me. I'll forgive her since i'm accross the United States, but if we ever do get back together and move in with eachother in real-life i will not tolerate this. and there i go rambling on again... hope this helped ya

in my opinion no. most uncomfortable situation i've been in. its not much. but it definently felt like i was gonna have a heart attack lol. I was at a party with some of my friends, my bestfriends girlfriend came over to me and sat on my lap. she was drunk as hell. I don't drink never have. but she started rubbing her hands all over me. Its not so much the girl *well.. maybe a big part was lol especially me being a virgin and her being drunk as hell..* but her forcing me into a position like that in which i would be disrespecting my friend. my friend decided to go get more beer lol he was already a bit drunk but he asked me if i would watch her and make sure she didn't do anything stupid. about 15 minutes later and while watching LOTR (lord of the rings) she passed out on my lap, and my friend still wasn't back. i started to panic but could still feel a heart beat and she was still breathing. like i said not much, but theres certainly more uncomforatble situations then having syrup in your hair and an itchy sweater.

hmm, well maybe she does have feelings for you just is shy or has been hurt in the past, you've trusted her with money to get you a game so that you can play it and she sent you back the game, seems like she is honest. so what i suggest, is just earn her trust over time, you said so yourself that shes been hurt in the past so just let her come to you. meet her half way in this relationship. she may also not be really comfortable meeting a guy over the internet, son't push her and the email you sent her. she probaby didn't know how to respond.