sankin
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thank you everyone thats the kind of thing I was wanting to hear, I know that I'm goth and I will stay me, but it dose get hard having to explain it to people over and over again. you know what I have to really say to those who cant except who I am. 0X , am I right.
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Hey I just wanted to know a few peoples advice on something. I have recently admitted to myself that I am gothic, now I openly admit that I am to friends and familey and school mates, the only problem I'm getting is that some people dont want to accept that, its like they think that becuase I'm gothic that I must like worship satin or somthing, which isn't true. I just want a few peoples advice on what they think about goths.
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oaky listen,It sounds to me like she is having some mixed thoughts, theres not muych you can do except to show her that you love her, Let her come too on her own and if she dose break up with you then you two will still be good friends, now on the other hand you could force the issue and she will get mad at you and break up never to talk to you again, or you could pine over it all day and night to the point that you cant even think of her without feeling bad, and you two break up probably never to be friends again, its your choice, I leave it to you.
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Okay first thing is dont break up, sextual contact and such things like that are made for love not just as like a hobbie like your making it sound. Forget sex just be with her, you love her right, If so forget sex, when you two are ready and willing with each other you will make love to each other(and I'm sure if your listening to me that it will be the best you have ever had)and while theres no love making then just love her. If you are interested in what I'm, saying and want to know more than PM me or wait until someone else posts, though I'm sure that everyone will say the same thing.
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Need help on what to do for valentines day
sankin replied to sexygrl19's topic in Relationship Advice
hey this one is easy. do it, he wont get into trouble unless his boss is a mojor crotch, It would be nice for him to receive flowers from his girl at work, it will make him smile, and I would recomend to every one here to do something special for there someone, the most romantic thing I have ever done for a girl is the one I plan on doing this year, me and the girl arn't going out or B/f-G/F we are just really good friends, I'm going to give her a card and at the bottom it will say. "now look into my eyes so I can give you your presant." when she looks into my eyes I will kiss her and ask her to be my G/F, and pray that she says yes., well thats me anyway, any comments as if it will work or not or anything? -
just lost my boyfriend, i dont want to live
sankin replied to qt's topic in Healing After Break Up or Divorce
hey breakups can be difficult, what you need the most right now is friends to be there for you, It will hurt for a long time but trust me it will get better, I'v been through a break up sorta like you just described and I know how much it hurts, I got over mine with help from friends on and off the internet, I did want to kill myself and just end the pain but my friends pulled me through it. I will be one such friend if you want me too, just PM me If you'll have me. -
hello everyone, I think I may know whats wrong with me.
sankin replied to sankin's topic in Emotions and Feelings
you see but thats the point. you say that you awill always be here to talk to me but were not talking, were chating and that can take days to doo just to get accross one point. we are all strangers, thats what sucks to me, I need friends to talk tto, I charish my internet friends, because I can talk to them about anything and get it solved right away, the only problem is that most of the time noones online, when I get on. I'v already done some stupid things in my life such as cut my arm, i cut my hand on porpus, not three days ago, just because my mom was yelling at me, noone even noticed, I'm going trogh a hard time, right now, I know that if I had friends that everything would be alright. I dont even know what I'm trying to say. I'll be on latter or something maybe. bye. -
has the 'right person' ever been right infront of you???
sankin replied to Silvi's topic in Dating Advice
I think that everyone goes through something like this. I know I went through it. I of course saw it and acted on it, now she is my ex, but we plan on moving away with each other after high school, if you get my drift. so if you are feeling something like this, then I suggest act upon it right as soon as possibal. -
STOP, first things first, do not blame yourself, it sounds to me like work is getting to him, the best thing you can do for him, is when he gets home, just try to make him as comfortable as possibal, give him back massages ect. It really sound like work related stress might be getting to him, try offering to go on vacation somewere, for the holidays or something, talk about work, and whats bothering him, all these things together will help you two pull through. I hope this helps.
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hello everyone, I think I may know whats wrong with me.
sankin replied to sankin's topic in Emotions and Feelings
1 I am doing great with religion, my social life sucks, I cant seem to get a girlfriend,my family life sucks, my dad went over seas, I'm happy from that, because me and my dad never got along, and me and my step dad, are starting to fight. 2 the biggest problem with me I think is from my social life, I have considered online dating for that. as for my familey life, there is nothing, but I do plan on saying sorry to my dad, over e-mail. 3 by saying something stupid, I meant, I dont really know, cut myself or something, I already have, cut myself once, I think it might have actually felt good. -
yes, me and my ex went through this same thing, it was though for the first few months, but it got better, and now we are closer than ever. the best advice I can give you is to move on, just go out with other people, just go to partys and stuff, like that, go and have fun. I wish there was like a mirical cure, I could lend you, but the point is that the heart is the only pain that in uncureable, by anything except time. just go out and have fun.
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actually this is a tough choice for me b/c I had something else to say as well, but I'm only alowed to post once, but anyway. I think I figured out whats wrong with me, If you know me then your probably know that I help people out alot, too much I think, I put other peoples needs befor me, I think I'm doing this to fide my true feelings though, that maybe I'm actually the one wanting help. It is true I feel better helping people, in fact I feel great when I know that I may have prevented someone from killing themself, or when someone tells me thank you for helping me. I may just need help with this, I dont know, Is it good hideing feeling like this, I dont think so, I think what I need most is friends, friends who wont criticize me, friends who I could talk to, I know that everyone here would let me talk to them without criticizing me, but It gets kinda hard talking were everyone can read my problems. I dont know what I'm trying to get at. If anyone has any advice for me pls dont hold back, because I feel like I might do something stupid, and I dont know why. someone pls help me.
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I can help you a little, now you might really like this person, but if she dosen't like you then you really need to get over it. If you want PM me then I will give you my yahoo, screen name,so that we can talk more privatly if you want
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well I can tell you this, I will hep you as much as possibal, but we need more information on it, like why do you want to kill yourself.
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so dose that mean not to post here any more, well I guess its been here long enough for people to notice us, but maybe we could keep it here for just a while more?