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  1. i would not. i would feel like i was in competition with the other girls. also i would be wondering who he likes the best.
  2. hello, i met this guy and he's is awesome the problem is that he is so much younger than me. deep down i want to have a relationship this guy but i feel it's wrong. should i break up with him before things get serious?
  3. a few days ago i went thru something very traumatic. my daughter and i had been assaulted by two teenage boys that she goes goes to school with. the boys had been friends and neighbors for quite along time. they had came over while we were eating dinner and my daughter let them inside. when they got inside the house they started getting rough with my daughter and locked her outside of the house and later they let her back in and pudhed her down into a crawl space and pulled a kitchen cabinet on top of it. i couldn't help her because the other boy had pushed me into a chair and held me down and covered up my face with a towel. All i could hear was my daughter screaming and they had her down there for about 20 to 30 mins. i tried grabbing for a phone to call for help and the boys thru the phone outside. i started screaming on top of my lungs for help and finally the boys ran off. i called my boyfriend and told him what happened and every since i have told him he has been treating me like * * * *. yesterday he called me and told me he was mad at me for a whole bunch of things i do and i din't understand what he was talking about. i said i really need some suppost thru all of this but he won't give me any. i don't know if he is pissed because i got touched by these boys or what. but i quess my question is to the guys. wo7ld you have a hard time dealing with something like this? i don't think he is really angry with me. i think he can't accept what happened. thanks to all who read this.
  4. i liked him alot but just never said it because i knew he was playing the field. i just don't understand how he could move her in so quickly. they have only known each other a few weeks. i really felt that he was the guy for me and i wanted to just be friends for awhile to make that we really like each other. i was only gone for one week.
  5. I was seeing this guy for over a year. We were friends in the past and ageed that neither one of us wanted to be in a serious relationship at this time. I thought it was cool to have a good guy friend and we talked and hung out together quite a bit. I knew that he was seeing other people and at times I wanted the relationship to become more serious. I felt that someday we would make a really good match. I wasn't going out with anyone else just mostly hangin out with him. We talked on the phone pretty much everyday. I was feeling lonely so I went to stay with a guy that I had knew before and ended up staying with him for over a week. When I got home he was really pissed that I had been with someone else and refused to talk to me. Now he has moved some girl into house in only a matter of weeks and is having a seriously commited realtionship with her. I really don't understand. He got pissed when i was with someone else, he told me he didn't want a serious relationship with anyone, but now he has her living with him and they only knew each for a month. Where did I go wrong?
  6. If he argues with you over alot of little things imagine what it will be like when he argues with you over big things.
  7. I feel that my family has my best interest at heart but on the otherhand they have never even met this guy, only heard about him. My mom hates him and she has never even met him. how can you not like someone you never even met?
  8. hello everyone, I recently started seeing my ex bf again for about the last six months. He helped me get out of a very abusive relationship that I had been in for two years. My family doesn't like him because he wasn't divorced when we started seeing each other and their was rumors that he had cheated on his wife. My family thinks he is going to do the same thing to me. They think he is a player and is using me because I'm at a vulnerable state. I have been seeing him now for over six months and I'm tired of lying about him. We want to get a place together and start living together. I know my family will disown me if i due that but it's really what I want. How do I choose between my family and my bf?
  9. it should freak you out. she is playing some serious head games with you. sex should be a natural thing. not something that gets taken away if you don't comply to her wishes.
  10. I dated this guy for 3 years, He was previosly married for 29 years and I had been married for 9 years before I met him. He was still married when I met him, he told me that he had filed for a divorce and I found out later that it wasn't true. He hadn't filed for a divorced until after a year of knowing each other.During this time we had moved in with each other, he talked of his ex-wife often. He never really had anything nice to say about her but she would always come up in our conversations. He then broke up with me two weeks before his divoce had became final. I ended up moving back by my family. He kept calling me and telling me he was sorry for the way that he treated me, and that he wanted me back in life and not anyone else. we continued seeing each other after the split up, and I didn't move back in with him because I'm having a hard time trusting him, and I feel that he is still having feelings for his ex wife. I don't know if i"m overeacting and it seems he left her to be with me. But I don't understand why he always brings her up? Should I try to trust him more??
  11. This is so strange!!! my two sons came up to visit me for the holidays. my oldest son came up with his gf of four years. this was the first time i have ever met her. she seemed to be more attached to my youngest son then my oldest son (who is her bf) she would always sit really close to my youngest son and put her legs up on his lap, she even sat on his lap a few times. the funny thing was that it didn't seem to bother my oldest son at all. all the relatives even thought she was with my youngest son. she was very unappropiate and most of the time i thought that she might be taken drugs. We went to a family party and all three of them ended up getting really drunk and on the way home. my oldest son got arrest for drinking and driving. he spent the night in jail until he sobered up. i swear to god that while my oldest son was in jail. that the other two slept together. i'm not sure what to think or what i want to believe but i suspect that my yougest son and my oldest sons girlfriend are taking some serious drugs. their was always a incident at the bar where we were sitting at the table and a bunch of guys came up to the table and starting throwing large amounts of money on the table. i suspected that it was for drugs. should i confront them with my suspisions?
  12. Yes I do. He is in Louisiana and I am in Michigan with my folks. My folks think I'm o.k. but they don't know the whole story on him. and I didn't even really post the whole story it's alot worse.
  13. I had a restraining order on him in the past but it didn't seem to help. He tells his family and friends that I have mental illnesses and that I hit and cut myself. and people actually believe him.
  14. Hello everyone, I was married to a very abusive guy for 12 years. After I left him. I got a place of my own. He continued stalking me at my home and at my work. One day when I got home from work he was hiding in my closet in my bedroom waiting for me. I called the cops and they really didn't do much about it because he has family that works for the law enforcement. I thought if I started to date someone else that was bigger and stronger that maybe he would leave me alone. He found out who I was going out with a chased after him with a gun. The police then took me to a shelter this time and when he got out of jail he came to the shelter and stole my car. I got my car back three days later and drove up to my parents place and I'm staying there now. He has beaten me and hit me in the head and gave me a concussion, and has cut up my face in the past. Now that x-mas is coming up he's demading to see his kids. I don't want him anywhere near me or my kids, but i know he's not going to take no for answer. I'm thinking maybe I should go back to a shelter with my kids. but as soon as I get out he will come around again. help???
  15. Sorry kellbell, i didn't mean to say anything bad about bartenders. I use to work in a bar too. I'm just trying to be confident in myself. I do seem to go out with alot of guys that treat me like this. It's a pattern or something. I always sem to get hurt one way or the other. At first I use to think this was typical male behavior. I asked him why he complimented her and he said that I was jealous. He said that they are friends and as long as they don't have their hands on each other I shouldn't be worried about it.
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