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  1. Thanks, Well the first girl that he "loved" has backed off alot...she only called once since he told her he couldnt talk to her... but lauren.....is a different story, he keeps telling me he loves me and only me. And that lauren told him to comment on her pictures......but its just weird... I know what shes doing, she believes being so sneaky and unobvious of what she wants...but my boyfriend refuses to see that other than she has a crush on him....she was making a big deal where to meet him at school at lunch so they can hang out together....."where...what time......i dont know where that is....ugh i really wish i had a cell phone...." last night she called twice... saying tell heather (me) to call my home....because i dont have her cell or home... (which is not true, she has my cell) then another voice message saying "this isnt for heather GREGGY i need to talk to you.... call my house such and such BYE" I really dont like this girl...but i think if i talk to him about it....he will think i'm possessive and controling.... which i dont want him to think im not like that its just lauren and the other girl. I can't take this...
  2. My boyfriend and I have gotten pretty serious lately... I'm not normally the jealous type, but before me he was "in love" with this other girl. He did everything for her and she did nothing in turn for him. Never made time to talk to him or let alone hang out with him. No matter how much he begged... well he gave up on her and started dating me. After I also fell out of a relationship... Ever since then, this girl has been texting and calling my boyfriend. She has a boyfriend of her own who can drive himself. But for some reason she calls my boyfriend for rides to work. This gets to me... She never made the time to do anything to contact him until I came into the picture. I dont understand this...exactly why I'm becoming jealous. I told him this is making me uncomfortable. And I wish he not speak to her....because well...I dont trust her, at all.... He agreed....and told her to back off....well now I was doing something online and I saw he had new mail. So i checked it for him, it was her sending him pictures of herself in her prom dress, in sexy poses... Am I allowed to be this jealous and telling him to stay away from her? I also have a friend who recently i have somewhat become close to...but I believe shes going for my boyfriend. the second she met my boyfriend, she added him on a site called "myspace" that same day...then asking him for advice from him...telling him that hes very hot etc. completely throwing herself at him....I told him...and hes all "I dont see that I'm just helping her" But now, she hung out with us one day...she was really hitting on him. Then telling him in a email that hes a true gentlemen and that i'm a lucky girl to be with him. she wants a boyfriend just LIKE HIM... she even has been saying little sexual remarks such as "just because i laid in your bed doesnt mean you can take advantage of me" knowing i would read that. Which she was talking about the time we all hung out together. which was supposed to be a joke of when he made fun of her for being stupid. I dont go to highschool anymore with my boyfriend. So, of course this part is going to bother me....Lauren, asks him if he would like to hang out with her at lunch....it started out friendly....but then it got to me, how she would send him mail saying "sorry i was acting weird people were looking at us like we were going out....and were not...." this is really really bothering me, shes becoming closer to my boyfriend than being a friend to me...who she says is her close friends.... she now leaves him comments on some pictures he has, saying "oh your so handsome!!!!" this is the worst part...he comments on her pictures. saying "you look great LAUR.I love your smile, blah blah I couldnt stop laughing at lunch, your so awsome." this really is getting to me. She even has a nick name for him... "greggy" and he calls her "laur" I'm very sorry...but i'm extremely jealous....i dont want this so called friend doing this...i dont trust her or the other girl he so called loved. I dont know what to do and I dont know how to handle this anger and jealousy i have inside... i feel like if i tell him that things wont go so good. he will think "oh shes the jealous type. now i'm not allowed to have friends of the opposite sex" which isnt true is just the girls that are throwing themselves at him and he doesnt realize it....i told him lauren has a crush on him he told me yeah i kinda got that feeling also. but then he hangs out with her at lunch and she talks to him CONSTANTLY online. I just can't stand these two girls...I mean, am I allowed to be this way.... and be cautious... please help me out. thank you -Wdclub
  3. Thank you thats all i needed to hear. Thanks
  4. I told him i love his laugh. but i haven't told him hes cute or whatever...i joke around with his by like squeezing his face (playfully) and saying hes so cute. and thats it.
  5. I know this is a stupid question...but my boyfriend and I have been going out for about a month and a half now... and well this is where the stupid part comes in...he never tells me "your beautiful" etc. He told me when i was laying on his bed falling asleep that i look so cute. but thats all that has been said plus "your cool" and "your the best" otherwise nothing else. I know its only a short time since we've been going out...but shouldnt he have said more by now? I dont know i'm confused. retarded question but my friend has been going out with his girlfriend already and he says that stuff to her all the time already. maybe im just pushing and my boyfriend wants to move slower? he is younger than i am... who knows i'm just asking because its on my mind thanks for taking the tiem to read this.
  6. I know this is going to sound childish, but I'm not exactly sure how to give oral to a male. My boyfriend asked me once if i wanted to...I said no...I felt horrible, because i know guys like/love it, and he was in the mood...but i dont want to hurt him in anyway. Just incase i make a mistake. Also i dont know what to do if he does cum in my mouth...do i spit it out? or do i just shallow it?... This is so embarrassing to ask..but i need to know. Please help me. Also, I need to ask...is it normal if a guy cums alot? Like about four times within 30-45 mins? My boyfriend is a teenager, i'm not sure if that will make a difference in your answer, just thought i would tell you. Thanks. -Club33
  7. I'm asking this because I know a guy that has a girlfriend but also has a lot of playboy magizines and videos sometimes. Sure hes is like 16-17 and guys are into that but is it normal to still have them if he has a girlfriend? Why look at them if he has a girlfriend? I've seen the 70's show when eric has also alot of playboys and Donna gets upset about it and he says "its a normal guy thing to have." My point i guess is "He has a girlfriend... why does he have the playboys still?...Is that normal, or is there something missing in the relationship....or what?" I'm so lost lol Thanks, Club33
  8. My crush gave me his number...then asked me what i'm doing tonite...and tomorrow...I said "nothing what about you?" (open invitation to invited me to hang out or whatever) and he just nodded and said "nothing" WHY GIVE ME HIS NUMBER AND NOT ASK ME TO HANG OUT?! anyways....now that i have his cell phone number i thought i would text him....but i dont know what to say...Its our first message...i'm scared and i diont know what to say....Any ideas?
  9. Just out of curiosity... I probably will not do this... But, i've been having this urge to kiss this guy... we've been talking for awhile, so its not like we don't know eachother... But what if i got the courage to kiss him...without warning? I just walked up to him and kissed him. What do you think will happen, or he will think. hahaha, again i probably will not do this since i'm like the shy quite girls in the class... I was just wondering what others thoughts on this is. Thanks. -Club33
  10. This guy i've known since 1st grade is now in one of my classes. Before we just used to called eachother what elementry school titled us. He was "short shorts" and i was "whitey/pipi" Through all four years of high school all we would say is "hey, pipi/short shorts how ya doing?" Now that were in a class together. He always seems to try to talk to me, just does it in a weird way if i dont look at him he either leans into me or taps my foot plays with my stuff or just pretends to talk to the teacher knowing i will go up to talk to her. Today both him and I were waiting to talk our teacher. As we waited he bumbed his butt/hip into mine smiling i did it back. He looked at me and whispered "woo firm" I guess i had a look of confusion since he smiled and said "nevermind." My teacher is a pyschology teacher, so she was pointing at both of us smiling is suppose indecating that there is a connection or something and josh (short shorts/guy were talking about) puts his arm around me and hugs me tight. saying "thats right." I look at both my teacher and josh thinking "what is going on?" I didnt know exactly if he meant something by that or was just joking. After the class i stand waiting for the bell to ring at my desk (i'm in the front) so i just stand there, josh then comes behind me following his friend, before i knew it he was infront of me. We don't look at one another but he kept coming closer and closer and once he brushed my arm or shoulder etc he would move away. while in the corner of his eye looking at me. I didn't know if this was accidental or on purpose my friends thinks he was hitting on me, but the thing is we've known eachother again from 1st grade maybe he's just being friendly? I have no idea whats going on with him. Well thats about it. Thanks for taking the time to read this and maybe even comment. -Club33
  11. just the weird stalkerish types of guys.. woo hoo... go me NOT
  12. I don't think before I speak sometimes, thats the problem... and when he asked me that, its the thing that came out " It was like kissing my cousin" and i apologized to him. knowing I F**ked up. But still you all are acting like I asked him to do all this to me.
  13. I said " he kissed like my cousin" and he also told me to tell him the truth so... I told him. Glad to hear your blaming me for what he is doing. Thanks.
  14. I've been ingoring his calls. He hasn't called me today, but then again my cell is dead. God I hope he doesnt know where i live i never told him.
  15. Okay, I have a myspace... (who doesn't these days?) anyways I made some friends on there. I put my screen name on there also. One day a guy i/med me telling me i'm pretty blah blah blah. We became friends. we talked on the phone a couple of days a week. We meet one day and he got the wrong idea about me. He kissed me. I told him, i'm not interested in him. He asked why i've been leading him on. I told him, my that wasnt my intention. And i'm sorry. He asked me how he kissed or how it felt. I was honest and told him, his kiss reminded me of kissing my cousin. (which was true! its like kissing your brother or something, it was weird!) He then got mad at me. yelling at me. trying to ditch me at the movie theater which i didnt mind, but he didnt have a ride and i was nice, i didnt want to leave him there alone with a bunch or skin heads and pot heads around. He just keep making me madder telling people that i leaded him on and i'm a [removed profanity] etc. TO COMPLETE STRANGERS so i left. After that I stopped talking to him online and on myspace. He i/med me on a different screen name asking me what my number was again because he lost it.... I didnt give it to him. I told him to get lost and leave me alone. And he did. Till now. It's been about 5 months now, out of the blue he got a new screen name telling me he got my screen name from my myspace (i dont have it on there anymore) so i was becoming mad. Telling him its not on there and he should leave me alone. I blocked him, moments later my cell phone rang. It was him. He called me 4 times in a row. I don't know what to do. I'm becoming scared seems like hes trying to stalk me. I was stupid, and i've learned from my mistakes but, this is ridicious. What should I do???
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