Thanks Njoystick for this good advice. I am on Day 20 now with my ex. She broke up with me after 2yrs of relationship when i needed her the most cos we had a little fight and what is worse is that she broke up with me through SMS !!! I begged, sent text messages, called her non stop, promised to change & even cried and this lasted for over 2weeks after the break up but she wouldnt still accept me back. I was a total wreck, i couldnt concentrate on anythin at all. I still love her very much and its hard to gt over it. I''ll never contact her again cos am trying to get over her. If she misses me or wants to work out things she knows well how to contact me. I felt very bad knowing that after a relationshp of 2yrs & a girl i loved so could break up with me through SMS. Its a hard feeling tho, but av promised myself never to contact her. I'll just maintain NC . If she everly contacts me again and wants to get back i'll make sure she work hard for it. But its 20 Days without NC so i dont even think she's willin to contact. So be it.